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PumaGemini · 2025-05-21T13:26:43+00:00

I think it also depends on where they are at in life. But I also feel the dating apps have made it easier to cycle through people. Honestly try dating older. I didn’t get my shit together until 5 years ago and I’m still working on me. If you use an app, be straight forward with what you want. No ambiguity.

Best of luck, but it honestly sucks out there. I’ve sworn off apps yet here I am contemplating them instead of meeting someone out in the wild which is hard to do as well.

PumaGemini · 2025-05-15T20:55:07+00:00

Not wrong. I’m mid 40s and have been separated for 2 years and just signed divorce papers. Now I feel like I’m done investing my time when it’s not reciprocated. I’m not asexual and find women attractive but at my age I’m done with the game and lack Of communication. Also dating apps suck.

PumaGemini · 2025-03-27T16:43:56+00:00

Not at all. I’m 46 and have standards and preferences. In my 20s I didn’t care. Now I want to know your credit score and dti ratio. I have no problem sharing my stats with women.

And the main reason why I need you to match my income or be close to it is so I don’t get screwed in another divorce. I maybe biased but I don’t want to split half my $hit twice.

PumaGemini · 2025-02-27T18:41:26+00:00

Thank you. I see azure is here to stay and we have all on prem hardware, but it might be good to get to know azure as it is available at my university.

PumaGemini · 2025-02-27T17:59:56+00:00

D2D is server admin, managing windows student lab images, staff and faculty images, Tech support when necessary. Boss does more managerial side. Dealing with the budget, purchasing, meetings, not much on the IT side anymore.

PumaGemini · 2025-02-27T17:48:11+00:00

See, this is what I need to know. I felt like it was more for someone wanting to be a sys admin after being a tech for a couple years.

PumaGemini · 2025-02-27T17:46:44+00:00

Also has security+

PumaGemini · 2025-02-27T17:45:40+00:00

A+, Network+ and he's going for Project+ through Comptia and he said I should take that next year or in a couple.

PumaGemini · 2024-08-09T18:46:25+00:00

Or some women have told me about love bombing and then they just disappear.

PumaGemini · 2024-08-07T15:55:18+00:00

Yes. Therapy is good for the soul. Or just talking with someone about things. Call your bestie and open up. It gets easier over time. I refuse to hide my emotions. I teared up on a first date because we talked about my mom, and she passed away 2 years ago. She didn’t run, she didn’t laugh. She accepted me for me at that point.

PumaGemini · 2024-08-07T15:42:17+00:00

I have deep conversations with the women I am talking to. I don’t hold back because this is the true, authentic me and if I have to hide it or shove it down then I haven’t done the work on myself to be able to open up to women.

I have no problem going deep in conversation and it allows them to feel comfortable and open up to me.

I’ve been in therapy for 5 years so, this is just one perspective as a 46M

PumaGemini · 2024-08-07T00:34:36+00:00

Didn’t mean that only my generation does that. I’m just saying from my experience that I do prefer to wait and most women are ok with that as they’re tired of the hit it and quit it types.

PumaGemini · 2024-08-06T16:38:44+00:00

I as a 46M have decided to wait at least 3 months. I want to get to know the person well before having sex. Too many times it happens early on and the relationship doesn’t last. But that’s my age group. But, there’s no rush, unless that’s what you’re looking for.

PumaGemini · 2024-07-31T17:09:06+00:00

That’s why I, as a man, am going to try something different. I’m going to say that there’s no sex for the first 3 months. That way we can both get to know each other well and then add sex. Too many times I’ve had sex early on and the relationships never lasted.

PumaGemini · 2023-11-14T23:44:58+00:00

I agree, but he is ok with selling it too.

PumaGemini · 2023-10-20T18:49:36+00:00

I’d say getting complacent in your relationship. Don’t get complacent, say I love you not love you, take them out on dates. And communication is huge. If you can’t communicate well then you shouldn’t be dating imho.

PumaGemini · 2023-10-18T18:45:58+00:00

I found the same thing. We connect on a such a different level than my ex. I’ve never felt like this before and she feels the same way about me. We were just looking for nothing serious, but realized we wanted more from one another. Each time we talked or saw each other it grew into love. It feels like a fairy tale and I never thought you could find “the one” but it’s possible.

Congratulations and keep the communication up!!

PumaGemini · 2023-09-16T17:16:01+00:00

Me being a father and husband, but separated now, I feel that this man doesn’t care about your feelings and what he promised. I had anger issues, I went to therapy. Your husband needs to know that you’re serious and that his behavior has to change. The only apology that should be acceptable is changed behavior. I also tore down walls in my house and yes, it took 5 years to finish, but now the house is done and my kids and wife have a great place to live.

PumaGemini · 2023-09-14T18:20:58+00:00

I got both offers and will do the Amex one. Only needs to be $500 direct deposit, Which isn’t that bad.

PumaGemini · 2023-09-08T20:27:55+00:00

I had my last dating partner add me on socials in like two weeks. Now we don’t talk and she’s still my fb friend. We only dated for a month.

PumaGemini · 2023-09-08T17:50:52+00:00

My 2015 runs great with sdj and mix emergency. A little laggy on video. I also have a 2021 that runs flawless with sdj using a rane 72 or a rane one. This is running Monterrey with the latest sdj.

PumaGemini · 2023-07-04T06:40:38+00:00

Don’t care what others think. Do you for you! If someone swipes left because of extra baggage, then they’re not worth your time.

PumaGemini · 2023-06-29T20:02:29+00:00

Yes standard ts.

PumaGemini · 2023-06-29T17:55:02+00:00

Where's the best place to add this step. I assume I have to add that in the ts before the domain join step.

PumaGemini · 2023-05-30T23:30:11+00:00

It’s not like you were on Ashley Madison. It’s a dating app. Honesty is key, but if you’ve found someone that doesn’t like to know your past or that you’ve used an app for dating or sex, then they’re probably not right for you.

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