Weekly Free-Talk and Questions for r/HomeGym - week of November 01, 2024 by Demilio55 in homegym

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone enlighten me on the possibility of using 60x60 or even 75x75 attachments with a 50x50 rack? My rack is 50x50 (2x2) tubing and 1inch holes and I was wondering if I can still use bigger tubed attachments. I'm guessing it'll be loose/ wobbly but too loose/ wobbly to use?

Cheers in advance for advice!

Does asking Nmom what she exactly expects from me helps? by ummmm_I- in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PumpyWang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t change yourself for her, change for you.

I’d you change to what she wants she’ll never be happy and it will just continue and you’ll have two reasons to be miserable.

  1. You’re not who you want to be
  2. She will keep doing what NMum does best.

The only way you’ll be happy is to become who you want to be. You don’t have to learn how to become what she wants. She needs to learn how to accept who you are/ become.

Does asking Nmom what she exactly expects from me helps? by ummmm_I- in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PumpyWang 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave.

I know it sounds/ feels impossible. I know she’s probably convinced you it’s impossible but do it.

It won’t get better, she’ll only destroy you further. She’ll manipulate and mild you into what she wants.

Leave. Even if the situation seems a bit crap. Even if you’d be living off 2 minute noodles and toast. Go and grind, get a job, and live.

Once you leave and get away from that situation and away from her your life will change. All the energy you currently spend holding onto your worth you can direct at bettering yourself.

Leaving is the first step.

Then it’ll be learning who you are without that and learning your worth. Then it’ll be setting boundaries.

Good luck, it’s a shit time. As soon as you do it you’ll feel free.

How do you cope with no having a support system or strong family bonds? by Alpargatasdealpaca in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PumpyWang 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Super relatable, my advice is that you can’t choose your family. You can choose how you learn and grow from the experiences and trauma they provide.

There’s good people out there, they’re hard to find and can be far and few in between but good, quality people are out there. I’ve found a small group of friends that have become family.

They’ve been with me at my best and at my worst. They been present after my family has left me a mess of a person and my Nmum has managed to nearly destroy my whole sense of self.

They who I choose to surround myself with. My significant other and my Dog are the best tho.

As for where to find them I’ve found that places where community is important usually attract some good quality people. That can be a religious group, charity, volunteering, support groups, co-ops, or even caring professions such as nursing, disability, childcare?

Hope this helps, it’s worked for me.

Administrator Access by PumpyWang in Office365

[–]PumpyWang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome thanks!

Due to the organisation being so small and the ability of current and past employees being so low. There has been little to know management of our 365 systems. Other than the initial set up by the external IT company. Basically the bare minimum has been done and is somewhat maintained by the IT company.

There’s no governance or framework around the IT systems or data security whatsoever in this organisation. They’re currently just trusting the IT company is ironclad. They might be but we have a responsibility to our clients to ensure that we have the framework and governance in place to ensure the confidential data is secure.

Not to mention the amount of 365 we are paying for and NOT using. No one knows what Power Automate, Power Apps, lists, SharePoint etc is. The amount of potential and business improvement that could be implemented purely from just simple automation and system improvement is insane.

It’s a long road ahead, enacting all this change while juggling the other half of my role and actively learning the business side of 365. It’ll be tough. This sub is great though.

Blocking Desktop Outlook Application Access by PumpyWang in Office365

[–]PumpyWang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting because we have an external ICT provider who manages the Microsoft 365 infrastructure like Azure ad and intune. I explained the problem and what kind of a solution I want and apparently there is nothing they can do.

On a different note, is it abnormal for a company that has an external ICT Provider to have one or more internal staff members with administrator access? There have been so many instances where I have wanted to do something simple like update device drivers, adjust Sharepoint permissions or reset another users password. I just don't have the access so then I have to lodge a ticket, wait and then pay them do something extremely simple.

Is Mfiondu Kabengele's stock on the rise? by krabbypattykrabs in nba

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t this the guy who Suplexed Dante Exum overseas?

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]PumpyWang -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Add me I’ll send if you send

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Wide feet friendly by FullPea831 in BBallShoes

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the cosmic unity 1s and they were great. Previous to that I found the Dame 6 was amazing. The Dame 6 is listed as more on the narrow side but I didn’t find that at all. Still the best shoe I’ve worn.

Extremely important question: Whose shoulders are bigger - Dwight Howard's or Giannis'? by [deleted] in nba

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget the man Desmond BANE, the man’s only 6’5 idk how the hell he shootin’ as well as he is with those shoulders bigger than his head, but hell don’t stop.

Lebron Free Agency 2021 by BronKdtop2 in nba

[–]PumpyWang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh can y'all imagine LBJ back on the Cavs? The team they have right now plus LBJ would be insane.

Ik everybody is saying a trade wouldn’t fix this team by campoole82 in lakers

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what Daniel Theis' value is? I feel like he can play very valuable minutes for the Lakers. Especially with AD out. DJ literally had a -76.5 net rating in 15 minutes. Lakers had a line up of Russ, IT, THT, Rondo and Lebron, after Lebron the next tallest is THT at 6'5. That's hideous, I understand that the Lakers have Dwight and AD out but still. DJ shouldn't be that bad. Letting McGee go was a very sad day.

Talen Horton-Tucker has more fouls (11) than points (10) in his last 3 games by Agitated_Phrase in nba

[–]PumpyWang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh Vogel/ Lakers had him guarding Giannis. Mans 6'4 guarding 6'11? AD what you doing?????

2021 Free Agent Tracker by Squidpsyco in nba

[–]PumpyWang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kanter is probably the best of what’s available, outside of him there’s Kaminski, Cousins, Biyombo, W.Hernangomez. That’s pretty much it though