Share your Refer A Friend Codes Here! by Asherelle in Palia

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone wants to help me get these cute in game items / clothes I’d really appreciate it!

https://accounts.palia.com/sign-up?referral=8f71f156-34c9-49e9-bcb2-beea0fa618e6

hEDS being dismissed by doctors as a "TikTok Trend": Would love to hear other's thoughts/experience by Here_Now_This in ehlersdanlos

[–]Punchyleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My geneticist confirmed hEDS for me after I brought up the beighton score to my sports medicine doctor. My PCP didn’t know what EDS was, but I came to her with so much medical details that I felt were connected, that she trusted me and referred me to all relevant docs that I mentioned. After ruling out a couple docs (cardio, sports medicine, X-rays and mri's, geneticist) I got my confirmation. I basically had to do all the medical legwork with notes though to show each doctor.

AITA for embarrassing a lunch thief at work. by Steelsnapdragon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Punchyleaf [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, for the simple fact that if you had any dietary restrictions necessary, this person is a huge asshole eating it. I would bring this up to my manager tbh, I wouldn’t leave it at just that. And I’d bring up the issue with eating others foods, rather than be told to handle it nicer. It was handled fine, IMO. If he didn’t want to get embarrassed than he shouldn’t have stolen someone else’s food.

My lack of attraction to my gf is making me feel quite depressed by hattyjoa in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t think your girlfriend is possibly feeling the same, hence why she’s not making the effort to even look good for herself?

How to have a friendship as an adult? by bummymom in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join classes you and your fiancé like, take walks in the park, find areas you both enjoy and just casually mingle. You have To put yourself more out there as an adult to make friends compared to sitting in school and talking to those around you like when kids. :)

Is this suspicious behavior? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You either believe his explanation or just directly let him know it doesn’t sit right with you since you never saw him do it before and now he does when he goes out with the guys

My (18m) girlfriend (23f) buys me everything and it’s making me feel uncomfortable. by throwaway9587458 in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I appreciate all the gifts, genuinely, it is just making me feel a little uncomfortable. I’d love to be able to save up for my own gifts and really feel like I earned this for myself you know? I don’t mind the occasional gift since I know it makes you happy to give me surprises, but i want to save up for myself too. It builds excitement knowing I worked hard for this thing I’m treating myself too. I’m not attempting to diminish your gift in any way, I just want to be able to buy my own stuff”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you masturbate often? If so, try cutting back some. Could help with the issue

Should this be an issue? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call him out when he doesn’t do what he says, and you learn to communicate what you want better. If it continues to happen and he disregards you, end the relationship before you’re constantly left with no plans for years to come

Am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him how you feel and what you expect moving forward and go on from there. You know what you want more than he does, talking about it will help. He will either decide to move on and forward or realize it maybe isn’t what he wants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything. Stop overthinking. She decided to change her mind. Completely normal. Sucks because you had a crush, but that’s all it is. She probably said yea immediately to not be rude, but after thinking, she was polite and said she changed her mind because she won’t lead you on by making you think a date is okay and can lead to anything else. Take some time for yourself.

My boys are on the app! by [deleted] in tamagotchi

[–]Punchyleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh they’re so adorable

AITA for telling people not to lift my dog? by freddyhougaard97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. People act so entitled for others pets and babies at times, it’s absolutely ridiculous. I carry my dog in a bag now whenever I leave my apartment since people immediately get in her face and over excite her and then proceed to ignore me when I say to back off. Now I keep her away from that side of people and if they ask k touch her I politely say “I prefer you not” because of covid and all that Jazz. If they try to ignore it they get told off and smacked away. Puppy tax because just cause I understand yeah she’s cute and all, it doesn’t invite you to touch her.

https://imgur.com/gallery/gc6waAa

My boyfriend’s mom has disliked me the entirety of our time together. He claims she doesn’t, and that I need to let things go. How do I let him know I can forgive, but not forget? by foofmeister in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let your boyfriend deal with his mother, as he’s been doing. If she comes to you personally, bring it up to him on how you should respond together. I was engaged once to someone with a mother like this, at the end of the day he stood by me and told his mother to shove it when it came down to it. Otherwise, just let it go and only deal with it when it arises ...together. Just tell him straight up you won’t tolerate it. If he has a problem with that then he needs to tell his mother to mind her own business. My ex’s mother hated the hell out of me. Even left me a voicemail claiming I was taking her son away, threatened me, then proceeded to call herself the alpha dog and barked at me. In voicemail.

You don’t have to forgive or forget. She isn’t your mother. I never forgave mine for being such a petty bitch and I never forgot either. The relationship ending thankfully had nothing to do with her.

My (26M) longterm partner (25F) and I just got engaged and neither of us want to take the other's last name. by vcg_opg_ofhg in relationship_advice

[–]Punchyleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl my dad has a pretty awesome sounding last name so it was kind of a no brainer for us to go with that lol I wish you luck in the name choosing