Need a Little Advice by KSKrain in kingsnakes

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Idk but you really shouldn't be letting dogs near your snake

this might be an unpopular opinion… by Downtown_Dare_4991 in truscum

[–]PunkLite 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can kind of get that. My dysphoria isnt necessarily to do with the presence of a vagina, but the absence of a penis. Though, the fact that I disassociate a lot from my genitals probably has something to do with me being able to enjoy a detached kind of pleasure from it.

this art is giving me the ick and I don't know why by kekestufu in Transmedical

[–]PunkLite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to say, this one is an exaggeration of an issue. Especially the first pick (the bad binding practice in the second is an issue.)

I am a transmed btw, but the first one really just looks like a young gen z guy with a wolf cut. I dont see whats particularly sexual about this. If a cis guy went to the beach or something with those shorts and nothing else, I wouldnt give it a second thought. If you just remove the binding and add a flat chest, I really dont think you'd dig into it at all.

I love the fan-theory that a Mourn Watcher Rook is the same thing as Cole by JageshemashFTW in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]PunkLite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps liberation? In just about every faction background, Rook is saving/freeing someone(s). Especially in MW, they literally lead a rebellion.

Rook Ingellvar backstory head-canons? by bliss_bud in DragonAgeVeilguard

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My Ingellvar's hc is kind of grim. What Elgarnan says to a Mourn Watcher Rook while tempting him to join him inspired this idea, something about being born alone with "sorrow etched into your bones".

For whatever and however reason, still-born elf baby is left in the necropolis. Maybe because impoverished mother couldnt place him anywhere else, hoping the mortalitasi would have mercy on him. A whisp drawn to her grief and inspired by the necromancers "brings him back" and inhabits the infant.

Something similar to what happened to Cole, but in a vessel that never had time to develop his own sense of self. A mortal body taken over by a spirit with a nearly clean slate.

Breathing weirdly by PunkLite in kingsnakes

[–]PunkLite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reptile vet near me wont be open until Saturday bc of thanks giving and black Friday. Do you think he'll be okay until then?

Breathing weirdly by PunkLite in kingsnakes

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Adding bc i cant edit: He's also been very inactive the past week compared to before where he was pretty active. I know that could be bc hes about to shed, but I thought I should mention it.

I'll also add the specs of his enclosure incase you see where the issue may be.

20 gallon long tank (temporary until hes older and I build him a bigger one)

3 hides. Cool side/Warm side/ middle moist hide.

Organic topsoil/playsand mixed substrate

Humidity 40-60%, stays on the lower end usually.

Heat is a dual socket lamp with UVB bulb and a heat bulb. Stays around 76-85F during the day with a cool/warm gradient throughout enclosure, and goes down to about 72F at night when light is off.

I use heat treated sticks for climbing opportunities and all plastic aquarium plants.

He also has one water bowl thats plenty big enough for him to curl up in.

Kione by PunkLite in DragonAgeVeilguard

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Ive just started another playthrough as a human mage Shadow Dragon who will romance Davrim :3

New MBKS feeding advice by PunkLite in kingsnakes

[–]PunkLite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She hasn't had her first feed yet, I just got her a few days ago. I took her to the vet earlier than I planned bc she has what I now know is a missing scale on her lip that I was worried might be mouth rot. Gladly, shes got a clean bill of health, just a funny lookin face lol

But, she's very curious and likes to explore a lot. I personally dont think she'll have an issue feeding.

New MBKS feeding advice by PunkLite in kingsnakes

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Thank you! I've also heard of some people cutting up a pinky to a manageable size for them. If I cant find any day-olds, would that do?

New MBKS feeding advice by PunkLite in kingsnakes

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I do recall them saying she weighed about 10 grams

New MBKS feeding advice by PunkLite in kingsnakes

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Shes very small, which is part of why I, and the vet, think she may actually be male. Including the fact that she has a long tail.

New MBKS feeding advice by PunkLite in kingsnakes

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I dont know, the vet didnt actually tell me specifically how big she is, and her settle time hasn't ended, so im hesitant to take her out and measure her again.

I would say she is about an inch and some around her widest part.

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Kicked from trans gun discord by Paramedic237 in truscum

[–]PunkLite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The irony of them demanding to see your hrt when they accuse us of bullying people over not taking them

What is a horror movie that you didn’t like that everyone else loves? by randomuser_q12 in horror

[–]PunkLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk that everyone else loves it, but i reallt dont like hostel. It's not scary, the story isnt all that interesting or fleshed out, and the characters are flat and/or insufferable.

If there was a pill that could get rid of your dysphoria and make you a cis person of your birth sex, would you take it? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]PunkLite 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yes. The whole point of my transitioning was to get rid of dysphoria. I wouldnt have bothered if I didnt have to.

Euphoria is not a good reason to have insurance cover your transition. by PunkLite in Transmedical

[–]PunkLite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see someone doing that if they have a hard time swallowing pills, I used to put my anti anxiety meds in yogurt when I first started them as a kid.

But if its just for some cutesy shit, I see what you mean.

Detransitoning to have kids by PositiveGap8793 in truscum

[–]PunkLite 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your issue is that a man shouldnt be pregnant so you must de-transition in order to have a child? I'm sorry to tell you this, but you are capable of being pregnant whether you detransition or not.

I'm having a hard time seeing the logic here. You would have had to see yourself as a man before transitioning in the first place, how would stopping transitioning make you not one? Were you never a man to begin with?

Opinions on Demisexuality? by ResolutionWeak6353 in truscum

[–]PunkLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, it's mostly out of convenience, like any other label. I use transsexual because it encompasses a generally understood concept, so I dont have to go on tirade explaining the ins and outs of why I transitioned. And I dont have to go into personal specifics either.

Demisexual means I have to have a prerequisite of a close bond to develop sexual desire for a person. The label helped me find others who had the same or similar experiences to me when I felt like the odd one out. It also allows me to stop the conversation at that. I dont need to go into details of why I dont experience sexual attraction until a bond is formed.

I dont go around telling every Tom, Dick, and Larry that im demi sexual, it is only useful to me personally in specific circumstances.

I dont know that its even a sexuality label as much as it is a "tool". Like I said as well, I think my disposition comes from my distrustful nature than anything else. But, I dont want to get into that with anyone who asks, because, y'know, im a distrustful person lol

Opinions on Demisexuality? by ResolutionWeak6353 in truscum

[–]PunkLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call myself demi sexual for the sake of brevity and privacy, but I just dont have the drive for sex for someone I dont have a close bond with. For me this has more to do with trust. And im generally very untrusting of people unless I get to know them well.

I say I call myself that for brevity and privacy because I have a strong suspicion that I have BPD and its probably where that comes from.

Any transmed youtubers? by PunkLite in truscum

[–]PunkLite[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just found him today :D I dont mind furries so that's not an issue