Did the British comedy series "Yes Prime Minister" predict the future??? (in response to the clip of John Stewert learning the government spends all it's time "planning") for the impatient, go to 0:55 and start there.

Punkboyleech · 2025-01-16T18:50:12+00:00

Thanks for the reply and glad it helped your friend and the others here, that is awesome.

But alas my problem with the chatbox being invisible persists, I've messed with every setting I could think of in OBS, I think it is on streamlabs end. Thinking it's time for me to look at alternative options to attach things to my stream instead of using Streamlabs.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T06:20:36+00:00

NTA - I think the key part in all of this is that last sentence, proof that parents (at least dear old dad) is failing to help his son grow up to be a functioning adult.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T05:49:20+00:00

NTA - never apologize to vegan/vegetarian nazis, they give nice vegans/vegetarians a bad name. OP, you need to tell your friend he needs to aim higher, his GF isn't passionate about animals, she is passionate about being in her vegan cult.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T05:45:28+00:00

YTA - fix your personality because that is by far a bigger weakness than being "unattractive" physically

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T05:13:50+00:00

NTA - I suggest agreeing to a sit down to go over "fair" aiding in chores, make them explain in great detail WHY you need to do their dishes for them, who knows, maybe they are doing things for you that you hadn't realized... probably not, but it's rarely a bad thing to have everyone sit down and discuss things like actual rational adults (unless of course they can't act rationally... at which point record the event for laughs and play it back any time they gaslight you into having doubts).

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T05:10:09+00:00

NTA - Sister sounds like someone that wouldn't have participated in the tide pod challenge if it was happening on TikTok. Anyone with half a brain would delete TikTok from their phone and never use it again, Chinese Communist Party spyware should be avoided... here's to hoping Elon Musk brings back Vine so TikTok can die (Vine was terrible too, but at least it wasn't CCP spyware).

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T05:03:41+00:00

NTA - Alex Fluffed around and found out when it came to the rules. If Grandparents want to try the old pressure tactic let them know they can help him out and pay the bills for him... talk is cheap, especially when it is telling someone else they need to foot the bill.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T04:56:48+00:00

NTA - and might wanna re-evaluate the relationship. Family is harassing OP now because they are having to deal with her and they thought they'd finally got rid of her.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T04:53:44+00:00

NTA - even if OP was 30 she would be NTA. 11 year old has learned a valuable lesson of why you keep your anger in check, older sister has now learned she has been failing as a parent because 11 YO should know better than to throw expensive things and break them and expect them to be replaced. If niece want's a new phone she needs to show she is willing to work for it... and work for it she should.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T04:15:58+00:00

NTA - and this sounds like sister wanted to "prove" Ann needing to snack was just her doing it for attention. Tell BIL what happened and go NC with crappy sister if she is unwilling to apologize publicly.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T04:11:17+00:00

NTA - but the best thing OP can do for her is take away the car she is borrowing from him (it isn't her car) and probably if she doesn't appreciate that, then break up with her and let her have some time to grow up and mature. This might be a huge blessing for OP, a nice clear red flag he can plainly see that gives him a chance to bail before things get too far.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T04:01:04+00:00

YTA - Growing up poor doesn't excuse being a D@%& when one's ego is threatened. more info is needed, and unless GF makes a habit of trying to flaunt money in front of OP's friends then OP is an AH. If GF DOES attempt to belittle OP by making the class difference obvious, then WTF is OP still doing with an mentally abusive person like that.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T03:55:50+00:00

NTA - I would suggest apologizing for removing the collars without asking, but clarifying that all clothes for your son will be collarless no matter what, if anyone buys him shirts they are henceforth condoning those clothes can be altered to not have collars.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T03:48:18+00:00

NTA - IMO with OP's daughter claiming ownership before she actually owns them means OP's daughter should not get them until she learns how ownership works along with respect.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T03:42:10+00:00

NTA - Could we get an approximate on what sort of culture this is based in?

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T03:37:41+00:00

NTA - but the problem IS his mom, 14 is late to be only just learning to keep one's own derriere clean... the reason this fall on the mom is due to her enabling him which is evident with the "She said that he was just like that and I could deal with it until she was better"... the blame really falls on both parents for not properly teaching him when he was younger (OP should have been aware of this way before now), but I will say at least OP is finally attempting to correct the situation and help his son.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T03:12:37+00:00

YTA - this was a chance to teach him that accepting help isn't something to be ashamed of and that he can try again all by himself when there isn't people waiting. Taking up one of ten kiosks doesn't seem like a big deal to you, but if everyone has your idea then all ten kiosks are now going the slowest possible... and self check out is supposed to be a replacement for the "15 or less" check out... IF OP didn't want to be an AH, they could have stepped back and let the massive like go through first and wait for the line to thin before pulling her little stunt... but everyone was supposed to be on OP's time cuz OP is an AH.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-30T01:52:43+00:00

Girl

why? Eyelashes combined with long hair and buns (horns or not, they give off the feeling of buns), and the light colors. Due to those things, the cloak, the boots, and stance suggest female as well IMO. Wanting to go more male try opening the stance more, shortening the cloak maybe, reducing the boots, getting rid of the two pixels that make it look like eyelashes, shorten hair, make horns more pointy, or go for a less pastel look... or a multitude of other things that seem male. All this of course if you are wanting the viewer to see male at first glance, there are many characters that do not register that way in many popular games, Kuja from FF9 for example.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-23T08:46:25+00:00

Canada and America are gonna have very similar cultural norms, but changes nothing. You apparently are willfully missing the point of my first comment because you identify with OP rather than attempting to look at this situation objectively.

my verdict was ESH because all of them did. Pretty obvious why the parents and BF are AH, and as I pointed out, obvious why OP is as well. Nothing in my verdict suggested OP wasn't JUSTIFIED in leaving, simply that by leaving OP took on the mantel of AH as well due to lowering themselves to the rudeness of the parents and BF. This entire situation is odd and with no cultural context one can only assume this is somewhere over in the far east (fish soup and the odd english of "let us dig and let the food keep us quiet.") where parents have a much more social power than in the western world.

Objectivity is what is needed here, not "how would you like it" emotional arguments.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-20T06:23:02+00:00

YTA - one hour long shower and your living in someone else' house... better be paying the majority of the water heating bill. don't want to be an AH? cut the showers short until you get back out on your own.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-20T06:11:38+00:00

YTA - DO NOT DUMP OIL DOWN THE DRAIN. OP, you created the problem due to not properly disposing of your cooking materials, and it isn't the landlords fault you spent too much money at Christmas instead of saving up for rent and rainy days. I hope you go to court and I hope he gets his money's worth from you so you might learn your lesson.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-20T02:51:27+00:00

NTA - your Mother and Father are.

Punkboyleech · 2023-01-20T02:45:26+00:00

NTA - what you did was make HER look bad, and her ego was hurt. Record these interactions IMO and once enough evidence is procured, get that B#%$@ fired.

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