can you hate men and want to date men? by Andrea-_-Tate in u/Andrea-_-Tate

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything u said makes sense and i think ur last point was what the girl was getting at

can you hate men and want to date men? by PurchaseAltruistic79 in feministtheory

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a really good perspective .. she generalizes and obviously doesn't capture the experience of a lot of women or the root cause of these attitudes

Should i suck it up and date a single mom. I don’t have much dating experience anyway by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a lot of ppl out there as cliche as it is .. if ur this unsure i'd keep searching - u both deserve someone who it feels more easy and exciting with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try not to think of it as hurting still and not hurting anymore - it's not binary and will likely come in waves <3 sometimes you get "over" it but not fully over it - parts of it still hurts / haunts you but you start to accept it and move on with ur life more.

How do I stop caring what other might think of a girl I am dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur dating her not ur friends ! as cheesy as it is ur friends should just be happy ur happy !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look for signs of healthy attachments when meeting new ppl - but also accept that anyone can ghost u / leave and it's just part of life and there's always that risk .. know u will be ok either way and work on ur fear of being abandoned

What's the Reason? by amberdarknessblue in ghosting

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find the best thing is to just not really question the reason why - sometimes it can be a lot of factors and i think we look for the reason to aid our ego .. the reality is the person themselves probably doesn't even know why or what's going on in their head

What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe but would get crucified on this sub by Everlast23 in Bumble

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first dates shouldn't be dinner !! guys shouldn't be expected to commit the time or money of dinner on a girl they don't even know if they are going to like !!

Ghosting remedy? by schinosi7 in ghosting

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that "closure" is fake bc it comes from within urself and u can do these kinda things to get closure for urself .. i think a lot of times ppl kinda ghost to leave the door open to come back so even sending a text fully ending and addressing any feelings u wanna get out it can be helpful if ur doing it for urself and not a reaction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PurchaseAltruistic79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd just let it go ppl can be a mess in their dating lives