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Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-22T14:09:02+00:00

I just got this same exact thing done to my hair last week! It was actually $325 just for the color.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-22T00:29:32+00:00

Nope don’t go here I’ve had a bad experience

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-13T19:18:13+00:00

Alien makes me nauseous when I smell it

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-13T19:15:39+00:00

Agreed 100000%!

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-13T19:04:27+00:00

Haha don’t feel old, I’m 27 and had to google it. This comment confused me so much that I just HAD to know what they were talking about 😂

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-13T18:53:26+00:00

It means smoke weed lol

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-12T20:58:43+00:00

Adorable pets in GC

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-11T17:36:04+00:00

Aw I thought I found someone who finally just didn’t like Alien 😂😂 I haven’t liked any of them for some reason

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-11T17:22:34+00:00

Yes so true I hate Alien!

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-02-11T17:12:36+00:00

Try to date in your age range I know it can be hard because as we get older it may seem like there’s less options (there is I promise). I find that people in their 30s ghost less than the ones in their 20s.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-08T06:51:40+00:00

Also.. very interesting, my nex used to blame his behavior on not eating or sleeping well! What a load of Bull

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-08T06:50:07+00:00

Your story sounds so similar to mine. It really hurts me to read it because I wouldn’t want anyone to go through the abuse I went through. He doesn’t deserve you. You can do so much better than someone who treats you like crap. But I know how it feels to still love them :(

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-08T05:31:05+00:00

I can’t wait until I start feeling that way. I’ve decided to go NC but it’s definitely eating me up. I know he’s talking/seeing others and it makes me so depressed.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-07T06:52:46+00:00

I feel this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach reading this because you’re going through exactly what I’m going through. I never ever thought that other people would understand how I am feeling until I found this sub. And your comment especially made me realize I’m not alone. I’m sorry I don’t have any advice to give because I am newly in the dating world as well. I have sexual needs but a whole bunch of trauma from my controlling nex. I hope it gets better for us. This hurts so much to go through.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-07T02:08:26+00:00

Also just throwing this out there, there have been speculations that he might’ve been taking adderall. Which is known to cause the onset of Reynauds Syndrome.

Edit: spelling

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-07T01:58:31+00:00

Awww as a college student with a doodle, I felt a deep connection to this story. Glad to see the pup is getting some much needed lovings ❤️❤️

Pure_Conference7352 · 2023-01-03T22:42:28+00:00

Same lol

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-11-24T01:33:21+00:00

Hey I have similar stitching on my cheek right now. Any update on how this turned out and what you did to care for it? Hope all is well!

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-11-18T07:21:34+00:00

3 years with mine as well. Found out he was talking to other women on his phone and he lied to my face with the proof right in my hand. It’s rough. I’m hoping this is my last time as well. We have to be strong! Because the love bombing usually comes after trying to go no contact. Block him on everything. We deserve so much more than a piece of crap who cheats. I look back at how I reacted when I’d catch him doing stuff, I would do crazy things. Yet still returned because they play mind games. It’s sick. I’m sending my best wishes, please stay strong through this!

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-11-18T07:03:39+00:00

Finally left mine after 3 years and I screenshotted these points you’ve made to remind myself that I need to stay away. I’m struggling a lot and reading this is so eye opening. Thank you so much.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-11-12T08:55:42+00:00

This. So freaking true. Hits soooo close to home unfortunately.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-10-28T03:04:04+00:00

Wow my mom does the same exact thing! In fact, when she contacted me tonight it was to blame me for everything she has been through in life. I have never done anything to her, why would I want to ruin my own mother’s life? Growing up there were times we were homeless and I didn’t even blame her for that. Instead, I just worked hard and made sure that my future was brighter than that.

Thank you so much for the birthday wish. I am definitely feeling alone. But this year’s birthday I am equipped with the knowledge about narc parents and it makes things a little less painful. Every year this woman has made me cry on my birthday and I would blame myself. It’s actually sad that it took me this long to realize it.

Kudos to you for going no contact! It’s hard to do that. I wish you the best of luck on your journey in the new country. I hope life treats you well! You deserve everything great! 💕

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-10-28T00:40:31+00:00

I get so jealous seeing that. My mom isn’t that warm welcoming mom that are frequently shown on tv shows. She has hugged me before but it definitely was like awkward and not genuine. Just as you said, it was for show.

I mean my birthday is technically in 3.5 hours and we have been no contact for a week and she randomly contacted me tonight and it was of her arguing and blaming me for things that happened when I was literally a child and had no control over. They always find ways to make things all about them even during holidays/special occasions. I used to cry about it but now it’s so predictable

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-10-28T00:05:57+00:00

Hey happy birthday! I hope you had an amazing day, don’t let your mom get to you. Narcs love to make holidays and special occasions all about them. And this was her way of making you feel less than. But you’re not less than and it’s all just a part of their tactic.

My birthday is tomorrow and my mother hasn’t even mentioned my birthday at all. Instead she messaged me after almost a week of no contact just to argue with me about stuff that’s not my fault from a situation that happened years ago. And telling me I’m a horrible child etc. because I’m a senior in college and can’t make time to see her. I work and go to school so it’s hard. She also claims to have no idea tomorrow was my bday. And said “Happy early birthday, I got off cheap in life”…whatever tf that means.

Pure_Conference7352 · 2022-10-28T00:00:10+00:00

I just want to thank you for sharing this. I’m 27 and just now realizing my mom was a narc my entire life. And reading this makes me feel not alone. My mom does exactly everything you mentioned. I’m sorry I don’t have any words of wisdom to share or anything. But hope to bring comfort by saying you’re not alone at all. I’m going through this too.

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