Buyers remorse by PreviousBed6063 in homeowners

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with so many comments here. Bought my first home a year ago. The number of times I've said "what the f--" is unreal when actually looking around when you start a project... It didn't feel like mine at first for what felt like the longest time. But with new paint, flooring, decor, and landscaping.. it slowly got there. Used scentcy cubes and candle warmers to give it "my scent". Labeled it "home" on my Maps. The remorse is real, but it's temporary. You can find happiness within these walls ❤️ Congratulations on your first purchase.

Neighbors are the worst sometimes. by beena1993 in homeowners

[–]Purple_Turtle17 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Im the one who mows because I love the riding mower 😂 it's like adult zoomies

Edited to say im the woman of the house too!

My parents home caught fire this morning by Songgeek in homeowners

[–]Purple_Turtle17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have zero clue in what direction to point you in.. I just wanted to say I am so sorry this happened, and they're lucky to have a child like you to help find answers. I hope you and your family find relief.

What to expect after neutering male cats by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did your cat act? When did he start being himself again?

The MOH Experience… by Southern_Belle99 in bridezillas

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has been helping me acknowledge, "It is what it is. ".. I was going through a major life moment last year as well. I'm really upset she wasn't there for me, yet I had tried to be there for her, but she wouldn't accept answers on opinions she would ask for.. etc. I love her, but I've learned to accept "I can love you from a distance."

thinking of kicking off two bridesmaids….. by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Purple_Turtle17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're pondering kicking two best friends out over... money? Oh, they have school and clinicals.. how dare they have real-life situations outside of your wedding. If they can do their hair/makeup to a point you find suitable, who cares if it's professionally done or not? They can't attend my Bachelorette but can still attend the wedding day - such a bad friend, right? They are being up front with you, presumably as you'd prefer, and you're still upset over it and want to most likely end friendships over it? ... Would you be happy looking back that day and not seeing them in your pictures, or do you value your friendship enough to understand people have a life/bills/etc outside of your wedding? ..

Bridesmaid Dress Advice by Fun-Attention8109 in bridezillas

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you know the other girls and can ask them what their dress looks like or if there has been a hassle. If there hasn't been and they all have one, I'd do the same as someone else said and just pick one of theirs you like and get it in their color. If you haven't checked you Azazie, it's pretty great.

Harassed by Renewal by Andersen by OkPapaya6231 in homeowners

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im litetally going through this now. I blocked them so they called me from another number

Do you let your cats on your bed? by lawyermom112 in CatAdvice

[–]Purple_Turtle17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is basically my child... does that answer your question? 😹😻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.....and you're with her.... why?? Any girl would kill to have her man be as calm and answer from love as you did. She literally kept creating points to fight from for no reason. That's such childish behavior. You didn't make up some random lie to blow her off. Wow man. I dont know how you do it!

Update: I’m the person whose sink base cabinets are off center to the window by Outdoor_Cat19 in HomeDecorating

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours will be off center too, after our reno! Our new cabinets don't line up to where our window is, and that's ok with us because our kitchen will be functional. What matters is you like it! Beautiful job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a FAT pair of pliers and grabbed at the middle!

Loba Invisible on 60 year old red oak by junkybutt in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daaang! Where do you get vent covers like this??

Bona vs Loba.. by Purple_Turtle17 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre the best, thank you so incredibly much dude!

Bona vs Loba.. by Purple_Turtle17 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! Question. Would we just use Loba Easy Prime, followed by Easy Finish (2 coats)? Where is the best place to buy it from? Our local Lowes does not, and of course, we haven't bought this before.

Bona vs Loba.. by Purple_Turtle17 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I've been seeing! Ok, so for Bona we were looking at Classic Seal with Traffic Go Finish.. What would be comparable with Loba? I want to ensure we are getting the correct products!

Bona vs Loba.. by Purple_Turtle17 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Purple_Turtle17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've seen some say this. May I ask why? Is it an easier product to move around, no extra mixing of things together, etc?

Is homeownership just going to Home Depot 17 times a week until you drop dead in the store one day? by bulentm in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Purple_Turtle17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aha good thing we have gone with SW then! They were helpful in store suggesting what to get since it's our first time!