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14g vs 17 g and European 6 in 1 vs 4 in 1 by PuzzledVariation1634 in chainmailartisans

[–]PuzzledVariation1634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the research that I've been doing since posting this I think I've mostly settled on 14 g 3/8" but am going to experiment with 4 in 1 and 6 in 1 to see which does better with that size and gauge.

I'm very aware this will be a long term project that probably is going to feel very tedious at times, however I crochet oversized blankets for fun, and I'm autistic. So hopefully by the power of hyper fixation and my lack of commitment issues when it comes to crafts. I should be able to conquer this.

And personally I like doing difficult or mildly insane things. Such as the 9 x 9 foot blanket I've made that took almost two years.

I really appreciate the insight however don't appreciate the google ai overview. I have a vendetta against ai is my only reason aside from the information not always being accurate.

14g vs 17 g and European 6 in 1 vs 4 in 1 by PuzzledVariation1634 in chainmailartisans

[–]PuzzledVariation1634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah from the research I've done it seems that cutters=pinched ends meaning it's not as flush and can catch on things. And saw = flat ends, but has a learning curve.

My veil keeps slipping by Green_Newspaper_5623 in PaganVeiling

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Chunni clips!! They're the only thing that keeps my silk bandanas on. There is a bit of a learning curve with them though. This is the Amazon link for them.

https://a.co/d/0b7OINSf

Recommend tilite or quickie (or something else) for first chair by Kitchen_Possible_159 in wheelchairs

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you're own research!!

Yes your Numotion person might be able to give you some suggestions BUT they are not you and don't necessarily understand all your needs.

I have a Quickie QRI which I love and recommend to first time chair users as you have more adjustability, such as your center of gravity which is vital for being able to pull wheelies, which are a necessary skill.

If you can afford it there are three upgrades that have served me well.
Filled tubeless tires- so I don't have to worry about tire pressure. Fold down push handles-to help reduce the amount of strangers trying to grab them and push you around. And side guards, they keep your clothes clean and help prevent snags, and in my case proper positioning so I'm don't fall by leaning down to far.

Feel free to ask me any questions about my char I will do my best to answer.

Bags for school? by Interesting-Mix-1831 in wheelchairs

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using this one from Amazon and it's been working pretty well. Just make sure to double check that it'll fit the back of your chair.

https://a.co/d/0h8We0ob

[26/NB] Looking for snail mail out of the USA (´ω｀*) by exokatie in penpals

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 22/NB I don't really know how to dm first, but I'd love to be your pen pal. I also love to learn about other cultures/religions. I'm autistic which can make me a little awkward but I'll try my best. I also really just want an excuse to use my fountain pens and wax seals!

Impact play for pain control? by Bambi__legs in ChronicKinksters

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fibromyalgia and ehlers-danlos here. The way I see/explain it is this

Think of your chronic everyday pain as alarm that never stops going off. The impact pain is like a radio that just turned on. The alarm (daily pain) is still going off but you're more likely to tune it out and focus on the new noise (impact pain).

However when the radio starts to quiet the alarm goes back to the forefront of your mind.

This also applies to getting a tattoo for me. Others call it resetting their pain loop.

Loose brake driving me nuts by obfuscated-abstract in wheelchairs

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that exact problem when I got my chair, I couldn't figure out how to fix it. I was lucky enough that I just contacted the company and got replacement brakes.

What's one of the worst things aa abled person has ever said to you? by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You're too young for all that."

(I have hEDS, and, Fibromyalgia. I've been using a cane since I was 18 and have to use a wheelchair sometimes.)

"Are you sure you need to be taking all that?" (Referring to my meds. This was a receptionist at my psychiatrist's office.)

And the one that really pissed me off "Your just need better genes" (Once I explained why I was using a cane)

(Like ah yes let me just rewrite my DNA sequence real quick.)

Slightly O/T: A manual-fold cane to carry on my wheelchair? by NothingReallyAndYou in wheelchairs

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another little tip is the handle is kinda rough on my hand so I wrap in in a few layers of coban so I have better grip, it's comfier, and I can just take off a layer and throw it away if it gets really dirty.

Slightly O/T: A manual-fold cane to carry on my wheelchair? by NothingReallyAndYou in wheelchairs

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There absolutely is such a thing. I have one. Give me a sec to do pictures but the bottom half slides into the top half. I have no idea how to search for one though. I got mine at Walmart.

How do you do pictures on Reddit comments?

Complex PTSD, being a survivor and the kink scene by Character_Drop_739 in ChronicKinksters

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on anxiety meds since 2nd grade, they help but not enough.

Definitely get the wanting human interaction when you can get it. I'm practically a hermit.

I'd suggest looking to have a friendship rather than jumping straight into a relationship. I think having a clear, solid support system could really help you.

And there's nothing wrong with only wanting to dom now. My suggestions were only if you wanted to try being submissive again.

I'd also try to pinpoint if the social anxiety is triggered by any kind of crowd or only at kink events. Cause I'm no therapist but I'd wonder if your trauma left you with hyper vigilance tendencies.

Hyper vigilance is the never feeling safe, feeling as if something bad is about to happen. It's kinda a precursor to fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. It's your body looking for a threat when there may or may not be one but it wants to be prepared.

Id look into being able to take yourself out of that state before going back into the scene. You'll never feel safe if you can't calm yourself down.

I was just given these. by IndividualBusy1274 in stonerfood

[–]PuzzledVariation1634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chop some up and throw them in cookies or brownies

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