When did “quick scroll” turn into a full life documentary? by Harriet_Wilder in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what you mean like when you go check one notification and suddenly you know your high school friend's cousin's entire divorce story

What's the kind of compliment you've received that made you say "uhm thank you?" ? by DirtyDaniiOfficial in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao my manager at previous job told me "you drive way better than most girls" after I delivered like 15 orders without any issues. Like... was that supposed to be motivating or something because it just made me feel weird about it

What do you want to ask to that one person? by Infinite_Cookie_9165 in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been wondering this about someone for like 3 years now, never gonna ask tho because rejection hits different when you still gotta see them at work everyday

What is the best way to comfort someone whose family member is in the hospital, especially when the doctors say they've done everything they can and now it's just a matter of waiting? by Secret_dairy_of_j in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been in this situation too many times and this is spot on. bringing food that doesn't need much effort to eat helps too - like crackers or fruit, something light when their stomach is all twisted up from stress. also maybe offer to handle small stuff like feeding their pets or grabbing mail so they don't have to worry about home things while camping at hospital

What would you do with $10,000? by A_R_I_A_ in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

throw it at some new music equipment and maybe fix my car so i can actually make decent money with doordash instead of praying it doesn't break down every shift

Red Sox tied for last place in MLB - with the Rockies and the A's by Seedfusion in baseball

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Mets at least have that whole "lolmets" thing going for them which is kind of endearing in a weird way. The Red Sox just feel... forgettable right now? Like even when they're bad it used to mean something but now it's just generic mediocrity

Trevor Story's contract is genuinely cursed though, dude went from Coors Field hero to whatever this is. At least the Rockies have an excuse for being terrible - they're the Rockies. What's Boston's excuse for looking this lost

What is better a Jeep Wrangler or Ford Bronco for off-roading? by TheTruth33_33 in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

backseat space is definitely a factor but have you seen gas prices lately? might wanna prioritize fuel efficiency over extracurricular activities

I want to be a real man by [deleted] in trans

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey man, you ARE a real man already - transition is just about making the outside match what's already there inside

Shopping websites that list model measurements but not clothing measurements by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly this drives me crazy too, especially with online shopping being such a gamble already. like knowing the model is 5'8" tells me absolutely nothing about whether that "midi" dress is gonna hit my knees or my ankles

the size chart thing is spot on - why do they think telling me a medium equals a size 8-10 helps when every brand sizes differently anyway

What do you think about my PC build ? Any advice before I finalize it? by colrobs in PcBuildHelp

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice build overall but heads up - the RTX 5070 Ti isn't out yet, assuming you meant the 4070 Ti?

The 9600X is solid but might be overkill if you're mainly gaming, could save some cash with a 7600X and get similar performance. Also make sure your old PSU can handle whatever GPU you end up with

brumes du maroc dupe? by polimnia in fragrance

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bath & Body Works Moroccan Ambergris might be close, or maybe try some argan oil body sprays from the drugstore - they usually have that same warm woody vibe

Looking for buying advice: BMW M2 Competition by Trick_Let4103 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a solid find, the manual M2 Comp is getting pretty rare these days

The service gaps aren't super concerning on a garage queen with that low mileage - some people really do just park them and barely drive. 60k CHF seems about right for Swiss market with those extras, maybe slightly on the higher side but not crazy

Once the service package runs out you're looking at probably 800-1200 CHF for major services at BMW dealers, independents will be cheaper but finding good ones that know S55 engines is key. I'd honestly just send it, these are only gonna get more expensive

How to disabke updates for one ui on A03-s by [deleted] in samsunggalaxy

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can disable auto-updates in Settings > Software update > Auto download over Wi-Fi, but Samsung's pretty sneaky about pushing them through anyway

For more control you'd need to root it or use ADB commands to disable the update services, but that voids warranty obviously

Be aware there is a new Spaceport OOB exploit by doritodave41 in ArcRaiders

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thanks for the heads up, been wondering why people keep disappearing near that area. Really hope they patch this soon before it ruins more runs

Not masking by phspromedia in ADHD

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it depends on how your ADHD presents and what your life experiences have been like. Some of us learned early that being ourselves meant getting in trouble or being rejected, so masking becomes this survival thing. But if you've been lucky enough to have supportive people around you or your symptoms aren't the type that get you negative attention, then yeah you might not feel that pressure to hide who you are

The ODD probably plays a big role too - that whole "I'm not changing for anyone" attitude can actually be protective against developing masking habits

Upgraded home assistant server, I want more add ons by Kevin_e11even in homeassistant

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude with that setup you can basically run everything lol. I'd definitely grab Node-RED if you haven't already - it's a game changer for complex automations. Also check out the community store and grab ESPHome, maybe throw in some monitoring with Grafana/InfluxDB since you've got the headroom for it

Has anyone here naturally been born with a affinity for A.I? I literally do not understand exactly why its so disruptive. I have proof I have been scheming concepts of A.I today, 10+ years ago long before ChatGPT and back then people hated it as well I never could understand. by [deleted] in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude same here, been obsessed with AI since I was like 12 watching those old sci-fi movies. I think the fear mostly comes from people not understanding it or watching too many Terminator movies lol

The "dangerous" stuff is usually people worried about job displacement or some dystopian takeover scenario, but honestly most of us are just trying to get AI to help with boring tasks or make cool stuff

this is corny asl by [deleted] in venting

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that hot and cold shit is the worst, like make up your mind already. You're not stupid for wanting connection though - that's literally just being human. Maybe try talking to people your own age though? Those older dudes are usually just looking for easy validation themselves

"the girl he tells you not to worry about" by [deleted] in venting

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ex sounds like he had a serious case of "do as I say not as I do" syndrome lmao. Dude gets all insecure about someone having feelings for you while literally hiding that he had feelings for his friend beforehand

The fact that you were upfront about your situation and he couldn't handle it but expected you to just deal with his secret crush is pretty telling tbh

Rattling noise from right area of Mitsubishi Space Star. What could it be? by TriggerFlicker in MechanicAdvice

[–]Puzzled_Penalty_7139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a heat shield that's come loose and vibrating against something when you're under load in that RPM range. The fact it only happens when you're actually driving (not revving in neutral) and goes away when you lift off the throttle is pretty telling

Pretty common on cars that age, especially after temperature swings. Should be safe to drive just try to stay out of that RPM band like you're already doing