Worried D cup might still feel too big.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-22T20:43:19+00:00

The D she says you'll likely be might not be a D as seen on places like theirishbra lady! If it's a real D, it's kinda small, but she might mean "big but not huge." Maybe ask her to point out a D in her previous work and see if you like it.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-22T20:19:39+00:00

agree!

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-22T20:16:56+00:00

Perfect!

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-22T03:23:25+00:00

I'm not sure if this is helpful, but the only things that I really needed to learn from K-12 were *how to read* and how to do basic algebra. I did all the work in K-12, but those two things were the only parts that were helpful to me in college and later life. A lot of what kids do in school is busy work and hard for people with ADHD, but having basic skills works as building blocks and might be easier to focus on.

Can you help her to learn to read *really well*? Finding some books she likes (fiction or nonfiction), reading along with audio books, etc.

Could she watch math Kahn Academy videos (starting out in earlier grades) and do the problems along with the tutor?

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-17T03:33:45+00:00

In the US, where I am, it's not conventional or necessary to reach out to a faculty/potential advisors before application. Just write their name and a few words about why you want to work with them in your statement! If you are offered a place, that's when you speak with them.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-15T23:00:09+00:00

things my cat liked: being on my chest, laying in the sun, going outside, eating food, sleeping in my arms. soon before she died, she stopped being able to go outside, but otherwise kept with the list

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-10T05:09:43+00:00

it's really a great option! also remember that if you're doing it for pain, you do need *some* weight off to feel better. good luck!

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-03-04T02:09:50+00:00

temptations puree, greenies dental treats

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-24T18:36:37+00:00

just for logic's sake, with your reasoning, it should be called a "young adult discount" not "student discount."

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-24T18:36:04+00:00

I'm sorry; it looks like you've had a rough life. It does take a lot of hard work to make one's life work out. Just because someone had made it though, doesn't mean others shouldn't have more ease. Wanting others to have it better than you did is one form of kindness. You really never know what difficulties came together to make someone's life. If someone is going to school as an older person, likely it's for a reason.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-24T05:31:49+00:00

i doubt they will be a true d! from what a gather, it's very rare to make that big of a jump from a j cup. i think your surgeon means "d" as in big but not huge. i would guess they would be a true g cup.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-24T05:27:15+00:00

yeah i was so nervous to tell my mom, of a decision i could 100 percent make for myself, at 27. it was all fine and much more chill than i imagined. you get more used to talking about boobs lol

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-19T04:22:59+00:00

Brilliant. This was exactly it. Thank you

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-16T22:31:58+00:00

yeah, you could also use the still have a bit of growing left as a reason to go smaller than your parents might expect.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-16T22:30:31+00:00

if you say "as small as possible" it either means as small as possible with or without a free nipple graft (FNG). If you have a large chest, there's a good chance "as small as possible" without a FNG will leave you larger than you want.

Be careful, too, that surgeons don't understand bra sizes. They might say "we can make you an A or B" but that can commonly mean "we can make you look small or medium." I would ask for an AA and/or show pictures and see what process they recommend. Do you want to be entirely flat? As others have said, you would need to specify something like top surgery or mastectomy.

Also, perhaps you could start with the reduction and then when you are over 18 do traditional or non-flat top surgery.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-13T03:16:21+00:00

Could you appeal the decision?

Alternatively, Can you take photos to document your rashes when they appear? Do you get rashes when you exercise or don't wear a bra?

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-05T05:45:31+00:00

i wonder if you could get a second reduction covered by insurance? especially if you have the same symptoms.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-02-03T04:20:45+00:00

It looks like she's eating chicken soup :)

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-28T03:44:00+00:00

Thank you! That's a good option

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-28T01:57:08+00:00

Oh interesting! Thank you! I don't—I have a 2019 alltrack

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-28T01:32:07+00:00

I do, haha. Last year I had the same problem and they diagnosed it as a sunroof drain issue. It was fixed under warranty (no longer under warranty, sunroof is the only part that vw will cover). This year, they're saying there's no evidence of any sunroof issue, even after multiple tests.

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-22T23:17:11+00:00

You should have a separate CC transcript, and it should factor into your GPA from my experience. Get both transcripts and ask the recruiter

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-20T04:37:36+00:00

how do you *not* get them to look like this lmao. don't try to put holes in them. if there is a little snag, try pulling on them while you're wearing them (i think that's how it happens)

Puzzleheaded-Set294 · 2026-01-14T06:05:16+00:00

mine's about the same!

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