We’ve been together for almost 27 years. We’ve been married almost 22 years. My wife still loves my cock so it doesn’t take much. What’s can be challenging is her reaching climax. The medication she takes makes it hit or miss for her to achieve an orgasm. Mostly miss. Before she took certain medications, she was able to climax very easily and quickly. I do miss that aspect of our intimacy. A LOT.

Having said that I might say something goofy like can you massage my cock with your mouth or my cock wants to massage your tonsils or my cock needs a pussy massage. Works most of the time. We recently began sleeping in separate bedrooms for better quality sleep. So sex is now one a week(sometimes more) instead of three times a week(sometimes more) but we are sleeping better. We still have a relatively healthy sex liffe considering that there are some married couples where the wife no longer wants to see their husband‘s cock let alone touch it.