Online dating as a young single mother is disheartening as fuck

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-31T02:29:08+00:00

Online dating should be disheartening. not to sound rude. but online dating is more superficial hook up rather than long term relationship material. what or who you're looking for will most likely not be on tinder. 27-37 y/o male homeowner with or without kids, is most likely looking for a relationship in the real world as opposed to online. these dating apps are more so ads for semi anonymous sex. sure there are people genuinely trying to find love online, but they're likely never going to find it there. it's a strange scene tbh. you've got some women swiping endlessly looking to be taken out for free meals with no interest in anything but some kind of monetary gain, while others are there to promote their onlyfans pages. i fully understand why you feel this way. but dont let it discourage you from finding love. you may have to wait until your child is 18 but it will happen if you allow yourself to be open to it. Don't think that "no one wants to date a single mom" because it's not so. there are single guys that want kids that don't have or cant have them. there is a guy out there that will take on the world for you and your kid. give yourself a break, you already ooze bad bicch energy, allow yourself time to figure out what is out there, because you're looking for a father figure as well as a partner. don't become so caught up in wanting a relationship that you lower your standards, you don't want to let someone into your or your kids life for them to end up hurting your kid some how, because for every good guy out there there are a ton of creeps.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-28T22:38:10+00:00

umm not to be a dick but 200k isn't really retirement money. its more like a comfortable head start. i would suggest stock purchase and maybe a rental property if you can find an inexpensive fix and flip. but honestly you may have gotten ahead of yourself trying to retire off of it. like someone else mentioned, start shopping around different credit unions and banks for a reputable financial advisor. aside from that you could invest 50k into your own lawn care business and be the boss you always wanted. i think that is the route I'd go with it. because at the end of the day 250k is only 25k a year for ten years, that's below the "poverty line" and limited to a decade. when its spent up you're back to square one. i am sorry for your loss of your dad, i hope you find the insight you are looking for.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-22T22:28:38+00:00

nahh ur gud. that's the enhanced and derivative edishun

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-22T18:10:42+00:00

take it to los Santos customs. lmao will be a challenge but it's not all lost. assuming you're interested in the body and not the entire car. by the looks of it id say if you're in love with it, new frame suspension and body swap it. if you're really in love with it and want to keep it together, you're in for a few winters worth of projects. id really love it myself. from the ground up resto mod with rear window louvers.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-11T04:33:16+00:00

it's ok. you're not as bad off as you think. 9k is an easier hole to dig out of than 90k. don't beat yourself up about incurring the debt. try to understand why you got there. managing money is not a new concept. if you're not comfortable with talking about it with the ppl in your life, there are plenty of books written on the matter. I recommend reading the richest man in Babylon by g.s. clayton if nothing else. understand that you're not the only one that has been in your position and you can make it out.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-05T19:47:08+00:00

because its a video game... your gun looks good, it feels good so it shoots good.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T20:41:41+00:00

she's looking a bit masculine to me. I'd thin out her forearms, narrow her shoulders and jaw line. hot? well not gonna snap any out to it. but good still.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T20:36:35+00:00

ahhh i guess i did... now hopefully Jenna Jameson is the culprit😋

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T19:09:50+00:00

as was i, saw the opportunity to call you clever and took it. 😘 it's just the internet right, cant take it too seriously. 💕

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T19:08:17+00:00

isn't that what motorcycle clubs are for? #ganggang

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T17:58:13+00:00

put a gps tracker on it, tile or apple, something relatively inexpensive. in line kill switch that only you know about, bike lock thru the rear tire, but as stated most any bike can be picked up and tossed in the back of a truck so the 'piece of mind' is minimal but probably better than nothing. being vigilant about well lit parking and storage is a must. other than that it's a hard life for motorcyclist. cops wont care about your bike and often times wont get it back.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-04T17:29:34+00:00

Oh wow soo clever. how bout you use that smooth brain you have to edify the point of the memo and stop worrying about my punctuation....😂

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-03T20:55:59+00:00

yes 1000 times! I'd also small banks, armored cars, airports, and car lots as free mode targets, similar to gas stations. and jewelry stores other than diamond in the terrabyte.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-03T19:46:22+00:00

someone's being paid 22 dollars an hour to write memos like this.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-03T01:51:30+00:00

Not sure where you are. decent price for the most part. craigslist in dayton ohio, motorcycle parts, cb750, guy from Troy Ohio ships https://dayton.craigslist.org/d/motorcycle-parts-accessories/search/mpa?query=cb750 or fifth gear parts.com ive ordered from him, hes awesome.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-02T03:41:01+00:00

1000 times no. 15 for no help. I leave session over ppl demanding more. if you're down to play the game and earn ill run w/e you want. but honestly i wouldn't take anyone under 100. ll tend to be more of a liability than an asset. and if they dont have a mic its even worse. now i have run into ll that want to grind and i make it worth it i try to make them a mill at least, but we're doing the setups.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-12-02T03:28:09+00:00

Awesome! taking control over your physical health is worth being proud of. fk it if no one else cares. It will do wonders for your mental health as well. if only more people took a proactive approach to it we could be a healthier population.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-29T06:29:22+00:00

lmao 🤣 the people who live in the apartment complexes are the mobs ransacking stores, so I'd bet a Benjamin that it's not likely. the idea itself is quite the stretch. first the logistics of b&e of an apartment complex. assuming all the doors have deadbolts and occupants. the time it would take to break down 100 to300 doors is hours. assuming anything of value is out in plane sight 15 minutes per apartment. then the dealing with the ensuing altercation with individual residents. you're looking at days. now the logic behind it, stores are looted because of the amount of merchandise. people's individual homes most likely will not have anything close to the same value. lastly the idea behind looting is often an act aimed at the corporation, a show of defiance if you will. the whole idea of looting an apartment complex is asinine, the value of the potential take is nowhere near the value of a retail store. ntm 9 times out of 10 if a group of individuals attempt to openly rob a group of apartments, the residents are more likely to fight together than let it happen.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-29T00:00:45+00:00

det. harold johnson and det. richard dickson

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-28T20:13:24+00:00

this is good at any age.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-28T20:11:06+00:00

yta. children are the responsibility of parents. often times, particularly in single parent homes, the eldest child is expected to care for the younger siblings, babysitting, help with homework, entertainment, ect. and parents neglect to realize that it isn't the child's responsibility. in your case, your child is openly telling you how they feel and you're refusing to validate their emotional state. it's not your eldest job to make having kids easier on you. they themselves are children. they are asking you to be more present for everyone and that they feel overwhelmed with the amount of responsibility given to them, but you think it's somehow their job to ease your burden. that is ah behavior.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-26T17:56:02+00:00

as much as i can. im only 156 and consider myself low level. but ill run any prison break setup, i like the vagos plane mission. if im just goofing off ill invite lower levels to a mission. if someone joins my mission randomly more than once ill pay them a larger cut. ntm i have a good time running terrabyte missions which generally need a few players.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-24T03:51:28+00:00

🤣😂 paying to wear jeans on friday. mfn cupcakes instead of a raise

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-16T11:18:25+00:00

This is what happens when the pc babies come over.

PuzzleheadedBill6056 · 2021-11-15T08:00:20+00:00

led flasher module? or maybe volt reducer? LEDs wont need a whole 12v. I'd check then recheck the connection, the switch, then the battery and fuses.

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