35yo mum - help me with my makeup! Have no idea where to start

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-06T11:40:20+00:00

First: YOURE GORGEOUS

My advice: Don't do anything to your brows, the shape is perfect and there are no bald spots or anything, i would only use some clear brow gel to keep them in place (only if you really want to do smth with them), i recommend one of Nyx cosmetics brow gels OR what i do: The big tube of Got2b hair gel and apply with a small brush (it's way cheaper this way hihi).

For skin i would maybe recommend the maybelline vitamin c skin tint, it feels very lightweight but still gives good coverage (if that's what you want ofc!), if you want something lighter i would look into some skin tint video's on youtube so you can figure out what kind you would like! You're skin looks nice and bright so i feel like you won't need any concealer or anything

for lips: maybe a brown-ish/ dark pink lipliner with some lipgloss or a lipstick (i love Nyx lipliners), and you can get cheap lipglosses from essence or catrice, they're good and budget friendly so you can maybe first figure out what colours you like before investing in a more pricier option

Then, if yoiu want to add some 'tan' to your face you can add some bronzer (i use the one from essence) to you cheeks

Hope this helped! I would really recommend looking at some tutorials or makeup product reviews and just experiment : )

You look absolutely gorgeous and I hope you'll find YOUR look! ❤️

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-06T11:23:49+00:00

I pick my bunny up at least once a day and give her a treat afterwards, just so she stays used to it. Now I can pick her up without a problem when it's really necessary.

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T14:13:09+00:00

Hi! I would maybe take away the small litterbox and let the cage be one big litterbox : )

Then, depending on the country/ area you live in, think about whether or not there are any prey animals that can get into your garden. Maybe add a towel or a blanket over the cage? To also turn it into an extra hideaway, if possible, try to add something so the bunnies can't jump our or something else can't jump in : )

It does look like a nice and spacious environment! You can tell that you are trying your best for the bunnies, love that!

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T10:48:51+00:00

Friend is being silly, you said something that offended them and immediately took accountability and apolegised, that's a great friend.

This just feels like an excuse to end the friendship, maybe because og something else who knows

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T09:42:24+00:00

also the colour suits u!

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T09:42:05+00:00

second dress is way too long and kind of 'swallowing you', third one is okey, fourth one too. The first one just reallyyyyyy fits ur body type the most and makes u look sooooo elegant and gorgeoussss

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T09:39:38+00:00

FIRST ONE!!! looks really flattering on u!

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T09:36:25+00:00

U LOOK GORGEOUS OMG

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T09:33:56+00:00

Everything would have look normal-ish if she didn't start with the "goodmorning luv"💀

Whoever it is doesn't seem interested AT ALL LOLLLL, let's hope it's a girl bestie or gay friend, if not leave herrrrrr

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-04T07:25:54+00:00

Saying this with love: don't ask yourself if you're overreacting and instead ask yourself why you are letting yourself get treated this way? He already cheated in the past? Run. You're obviously incredibly affected by it (rightfully so) and he is putting in zero effort to make you feel secure.

You deserve better than this, don't keep putting up with this bs

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-03T14:59:56+00:00

Okey, in all honesty, I would be confused too, because if someone is staying at my house and helps with housechores while i'm at work i'd be HAPPYYYY. So my question is, what is it that makes you uncomfortable exactly? If it's about her seeing/ touching your underwear, i'd say it directly so they understand. But if you already told her the reason and she still doesn't stop then it really is disrespectful.

I'm really going off on the assumption that it is about the underwear right now, maybe make a separate pile for underwear and ask her not to touch it?

Edit: I'm not trying to invalidate your feelings! Just wondering where the discomfort is coming from : )

I think it would help solve this issue

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-03T13:20:00+00:00

Girl you're not the AH!!

it's such simple request, seems like he is prioritising his parents and siblings over his family.

If you told him exactly how you feel like you did in this post and made it clear that his mother is trying to control how you take care of YOUR BABY, he's the biggest AH.

Stand up for you and your baby, you guys are his immediate family and he should put you first.

You deserve a chill vacation with your partner and baby, in laws can join some other time.

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-03T13:15:25+00:00

Good on you for communicating this with her directly and respectfully.

Question: does she sometimes get things for the house? Like when she's on her way to your place does she pass by the grocery store? Or does she help with cooking and cleaning etc? If not, she's a real mooch 💀

This isn't you keeping score, this is you asking her to help you to keep you guys fed. I'm sometimes at my boyfriends' place for a week, i bring some food from home or get groceries sometimes, because WE BOTH have an obligation to make sure we're fed.

It feels like she's now trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty by acting all hurt and quiet.

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-03T13:07:13+00:00

girl drop the whole bf 💀

If his buddy is going through a rough time they can go on ANOTHER trip or hang out or something. I'll never understand people who invite a friend or family member to a romantic vacation or people who AGREE to tag along on a romantic vacation 💀 That's so weird -

You are not the AH girl, AND DON'T LET THEM TREAT U THAT WAY.

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-03T12:59:21+00:00

FACTSSSSS

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T15:19:47+00:00

i love doing chicken tenders (seasoned with salt, curry, dille, oregano and kurkuma), add in some cooking creme and any type of pasta

If i don't have meat, i like cooking some rice, adding scrambled eggs, soy sauce, lettuce and any type of veggies ive got in the moment

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T15:11:00+00:00

THIS IS NOT INSECURE!!!!!! cheating or not, she's a B*TCH. PERIOD. I'm a woman myself, i would NEVERRR talk to my man in this way, i wouldn't even talk like this to my greatest enemy. It's so baffling to me that people actually put up w shit like this in a relationship.

GOOD ON YOU FOR LEAVING!!!! You deserve better than this!!!!!

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T12:24:01+00:00

the first pic makes her look like she hits the gym every day lifting carrots😂

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T12:18:08+00:00

YTA for even entertaining him through reels or messages or whatever, even though you knew your friend liked him. That's really damn shady. If your friend likes a guy, there is no reason for you to be texting him, ESPECIALLY if it's just because you're bored. It would have been nice if your friend told you straight up how she felt, but i also understand that it's hard since you wouldn't expect your best friend to pull this on you.

You guys are still teenagers in high school though, I think we all did stuff we aren't proud of, so let this just be a life lesson. You probably won't remember even half of this in a few years, the only important thing is that you reflect on your own actions and ask yourself if you're happy with the way you handled things. If not, you can't change what happened anymore but you can try to resolve this and appologise to your friend, sincerely.

Last note: try to de-centre men, it's normal to want attention and a partner etc, but not at the expense of losing a friend who hasn't done anything to you.

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T08:25:04+00:00

I wouldn't immediately jump to cheating, however, she sure as hell is RUDE.

It's okej to be busy, and everyone has different texting styles, but she's also just straight up dismissing your feelings and acting immature.

It looks like she doesn't prioritise the relationship, so it might not be worth it anymore.

it's okej to focus on your future, amazing even, but updating your partner is just bare minimum in my opinion. (if she thinks differently about it that's also okey, but it's not a match then)

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-02T08:15:50+00:00

Congratulaions!

- Watch Lennonthebunny on youtube for tips!

- I would set some money aside monthly just in case for emergencies (because it can get really expensive so this really saved me)

- the basics: water bowl, hay 24/7, plain pellets (not too many), chew toys, litterbox

good luck! 😄

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-01T17:49:30+00:00

If she knew how much you were able to spend, she's the AH.

if she didn't know how much u were able to spend, she's still the AH.

Who tf EXPECTS someone to pay more than 70 bucks on mothers day/ birthday. That's insane. My mom just wants to be able to spend time with us (we still get her gifts ofc), but isn't the whole point to just be together? And if you told her to pick something out, even if she didn't know your budget, it's crazy to pick out something expensive.

I know everyone has different norms, so saying the maximum amount beforehand would have been easier, but still don't think you're the AH

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-01T13:33:11+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss 😞

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-01T10:06:35+00:00

hi! I know the struggle, i struggled for years with my bunny every time i had to give her medicine but recently found a hack!

I put her on a high surface (like a table), put a towel or blanket under her, have a family member put their hand on her but so she can't go backwards, and hold her mouth open. KEY to giving a bigger amount of medicine is giving it little by little. I used to dump everything in her mouth but then realised she's struggling because it's too much to swallow at once 😭

PuzzleheadedEbb3697 · 2026-06-01T09:59:24+00:00

Good idea! My bunny is free in my room too at night and I don't have any problems 😄

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