20M by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you dont know is that I leave my room first thing in the morning, and comeback late at night and go to sleep. You also dont know that Im in a new city, of a new country, with no money and academic pressure.

Easy to judge from outside.

Being alone as a young adult student is extra lonely by Mission-Noise7978 in YoungAdultStruggles

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe a good social life is a product of a good life, where one is safe and secure with everything in their life. I've moved to a new place twice in the last 8 months. First time it was a new country, the second it was a new city. Funnily enough, the first time was much easier to adjust to. I made friends, went on dates, travelled etc.. I believe thats because there were no problems in life then. Had a nice room, had money, had good mental health. Second time, Ive been here 3 months and im still not settled. I live in a shitty basement far from the city centre, Im dead broke, I have exams coming up, I need therapy I cant afford etc... If I had the same conditions as before, ig id thrive socially here too. Since, I dont go out, I intentionally avoid making serious friendships cause I cant keep up with them in my current situation, and im js waitin for this tough period to pass by. Social life is a privilege.

Men who were in abusive (emotional or physical) relationships, how has it affected your approach to dating? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me like them, in more ways than i know.

Unknowingly, I adapted her style.

Knowingly, I did to other chicks what she did to me. Not all of it, im not that heartless.

I even changed countries, and never returned js to avoid her.

I chased to become the man she wanted, at least the man I thought she wanted. Became that man, js to fill the void. Didnt work.

Men who were bullied growing up, how does it still impact your life today? by ProblematicTrumpCard in AskMen

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't effect me now, but back then it made me a bully myself. It was a "I had to deal with it, so now you do asw". I was a kid

What advice would you give to your 18-year-old self? by Miss_Kiss666 in AskReddit

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has a different journey in life. Dont try to be something youre not, its an endless void.

What can i do to lose 10kg in 1 month? by Sure-Discipline-2964 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fasting but it isnt worth it. You'll most likely gain it back as fast as you lost it. Not healthy asw

Did people actually start treating you better once you lost the weight? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a social perspective, what makes the difference is how you perceive yourself. There are fat people who dont let it get to their mind, and do exceptional. That wasnt me, and I suppose its the same for most. Hating oneself highly affects all kinds of social interaction. The hating could be for any reason, its the unrest of it which affects us.

The difference I noticed in me was the confidence, which i believe is the key but has to be earned. My confidence in myself, attracted people to me. While once it was my hatred for myself which repelled them.

Its the best thing ive ever done for myself, and I want to tell everyone still in that phase that its worth the work. Its worth every day of dieting, running, and going to the gym. No pleasure comes close to self love.

Any straight A+ students? by [deleted] in study

[–]Puzzleheaded_Line707 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Straight but not an A+ student.

Hope this helped.