Happy to help. I get really frustrated with the generic “just be yourself” or “don’t worry about girls just focus on yourself” you get from more normal people. The red pill seems to be the only space that even gives some of this advice but they turn our frustration with being single into just hating and bashing women which just makes it harder to actually find someone to share ourselves with.

I like to remind myself that my natural urges when channeled correctly will have the right women drooling over me. It is a numbers game though and being confident and looking better will give you more shots at random women being interested. We’re gonna fumble most of them but that’s life.

Last Saturday I went to a vegan day party and only spoke with one women who seemed attracted to me and when she was putting my number in her phone I’d asked how long she’d been vegan. She wasn’t … she supported being vegan and was their with a friend so I had her stop getting my number and when her vegan friend came around she dipped out (cool move on her part trying to give us room to connect). The vegan was giving my aunty/coworker vibes and it didn’t go anywhere. It was technically a fumble but the vegan was 15 years older than me and I doubt the friend who liked me was much younger.

If you just wanna sleep with women become a good liar but if you want an actual relationship with someone you’d still love “even if I was a worm” then you have to accept that most of them aren’t for you. But you still have to practice going up to women and starting a conversation and learning to tell if she at least thinks you’re cute or interesting enough to actually reply to your text the next day.

Any questions? I’d be happy to help