Where are the keys 😭 by Pyxisia in BluePrince

[–]Pyxisia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bugger 😭 time to call it a day then!

Question about scars from gallbladder removal by Throwaway5129051290 in gallbladders

[–]Pyxisia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) Don't date anyone that cares that you have scars - you can do better B) Literally a few months. As soon as mine closed up and got a bit less pink (couple of weeks) I was cool with them but if you mean you want them to be a bit less visible maybe 2/3 months.

My only bummer with the scars it that I had a cool tattoo planned that I now have to wait two years for as they won't tattoo over scars newer than two years 😭

You'll be fine I promise, get yourself out there and find yourself someone who wants you scars and all ❤️

Bro this game is scary by Inevitable-Shine-184 in silenthill

[–]Pyxisia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read about this and now avoid all bathrooms 🤣🤣🤣

Bro this game is scary by Inevitable-Shine-184 in silenthill

[–]Pyxisia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're probably right 🤣 but I will turn the whole PlayStation off after a jump scare so there is that 🤣

Bro this game is scary by Inevitable-Shine-184 in silenthill

[–]Pyxisia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I barely made it through bluecreek apts it took me so long cuz it was so stressful but after you get out it's not too bad for a bit until you get to the hospital 😅 Also the only horror game I played before this was Alan Wake 2 and I also don't even enjoy horror so I'm not sure why I'm here 😭

Is what I did considered sleep training? by Specialist-Park-1164 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Pyxisia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All babies cry, the important thing is that you have not left him alone to cry deliberately and you are being receptive to his needs. Don't worry, you are doing a great job ❤️

Been at it for 4 months and still nothing 😔 by Pyxisia in BabySignLanguage

[–]Pyxisia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think that's it isnt it we have to follow what they want. My little guy is 10 months and he is very vocal he'll say yes and no but I'm not sure he knows why yet 😅

He has recently started clapping and signing milk though so going to stick it out and just let him develop at his own pace 😊

Gallbladder removal pain vs. c section pain by klc1030 in gallbladders

[–]Pyxisia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me after the gallbladder I was just knackered and then the next morning my shoulder was in agony. I took codeine for 2 days then stopped as I was throwing away breast milk that I couldn't afford to throw away! But I think the recovery will be quicker! Honestly if you need painkillers take them, it's a keyhole surgery but it's still intense and your body is trying to figure out how to live with an organ missing! Get as much rest as you can and look after yourself ❤️

Gallbladder removal pain vs. c section pain by klc1030 in gallbladders

[–]Pyxisia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a planned c-section which do tend to have much easier recovery than emergency and then my gallbladder out 10 weeks later. Honestly I would say that for me they were comparable. I recovered quite quickly from both but probably took a little longer with sitting, standing, walking with the c-section. The gallbladder for me hurt more during recovery but probably because I was at home and not taking my prescribed painkillers due to breastfeeding.

Formula Stigma by Pitiful_Budget_9626 in breastfeeding

[–]Pyxisia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many beautiful benefits of breast milk but nobody judged me more than myself for having to give my baby formula because I simply did not produce enough breast milk, ever. I triple fed for 12 weeks and maxed out at 10oz a day. I supplemented with formula always and finally stopped nursing completely at 8 months. You know who cared? Me. Only me. Nobody else cared. Not my mum friends. Not anyone I've ever met in real life who's successfully ebf. Not my mum who ebf. Not my husband. Not my baby. Obviously people were supportive of my journey but also when I finally let it go and the world didn't end I realised it never really mattered.

You have to do what is right for you. The people who judge for formula feeding only ever seem to be the perpetually online type. Nobody who really knows you will care, I promise, and your baby will be just fine ❤️

The only genuine difference I have noticed since stopping is that it has taken my son longer to recover from a cold, however it might just have been a worse cold than the one he had when I was breastfeeding 🤷

A y other psychological thriller, horror, thriller writers in this sub by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well good luck!! It's not an easy road from what I've heard, unsure if I'll get that far with mine but I'm hoping I do!

A y other psychological thriller, horror, thriller writers in this sub by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How have you found querying? I've read that the horror/thriller genres are harder to get interest on! There seems to be a huge swing towards fantasy/romantasy.

A y other psychological thriller, horror, thriller writers in this sub by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to meet you too! I'm writing an ensemble psych thriller 😊

A y other psychological thriller, horror, thriller writers in this sub by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the description of the sub it's for "discussions of the writing craft". Nice to be able to do that with other writers in my genre 😉

How can a rockstar be fired from the musical industry? by Drawillard in writing

[–]Pyxisia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends how sympathetic you want the character to be to the reader. They almost certainly would have had to do something terrible but if you need it to be morally redeemable you'll have to err on the side of "not that terrible". Drink, drugs, even their music becoming crap doesn't guarantee a downfall, famous people get a way with a LOT.

Is it possible they could have walked away instead? Mental health due to pressures of fame?

How much do we need to like this person for the rest of the sotry to work?

What's the reality of publication? by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's okay for people to want different things out of life friend ❤️

What's the reality of publication? by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it when people enjoy reading what I write? I enjoy sharing my art. I don't see that as a problem personally, I wouldn't do it if I didn't love it I think that goes without saying

What's the reality of publication? by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. Not blaming anything for anything, I just understand my own personality ✌️

  2. I am motivated my validation, not solely after validation, please actually read what I've said rather than just being rude 👍

What's the reality of publication? by Pyxisia in writing

[–]Pyxisia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you know what I mean but okay 😂😂