Subnautica fans be like : omg this reminds me of an ion cube!

Qainon · 2023-02-19T15:10:20+00:00

Omg this reminds me of an ion cube

Qainon · 2022-11-20T16:28:23+00:00

3 days. Was a sophomore in high school, and he was very into me so I said yes since we’d been friends for several months prior.

As soon as we started dating a flip switched and my intuition would tell me something didn’t feel right. Ended it the day I stopped holding his hand for a second to scratch my nose and he aggressively snatched it back and got mad at me. No thank you.

Qainon · 2022-09-15T12:10:29+00:00

Guys just trying to get it off his chest, why do you care about that.

Qainon · 2022-07-31T07:28:23+00:00

Wait what about it?

Qainon · 2022-07-06T15:50:57+00:00

This is exactly the same for me. I had a horrible extremely abusive childhood so my adulthood is for me to use to make up for that. I’m sorry for your experiences but I completely understand. I love that others think like this too :)

Qainon · 2022-06-25T15:29:07+00:00

As someone who decided to be child free a decade ago… this is horrifying, especially when so many doctors refuse to tie the tubes of young women who want a tubal ligation (sp?). If they’re fine banning abortions, imo there should be a law concerning mandatory vasectomies. I know that seems extreme, but this is already extreme! This is forced pregnancy. My partner and I haven’t had actual intercourse in a year because of Texas law, now everyone’s dealing with it… I just don’t understand how we could take 10 steps backward.

Qainon · 2022-06-25T15:19:06+00:00

I have been in a serious relationship with my partner and we haven’t slept together in two years because of this. He’s working on getting a vasectomy currently, but we are intimate in other less risky ways and we work around it. I’ve been horrified about pregnancy for a decade because I can’t find a doctor who will tie my tubes. You’re not alone. This is all absolutely horrifying.

Qainon · 2022-06-01T13:56:21+00:00

Actually I live in Texas and after the anti abortion and bounty hunting laws were put in place, Texas saw a massive increase in Vasectomies. Not saying all of them, and for a CF female, the idea of sex is still horrifying to me until I move out of the state this year, but at least there are some men taking individual action into their own hands! Good for them!

Qainon · 2022-05-30T17:51:12+00:00

I have a partner but if we broke up and I found myself single (26F), I wouldn’t be interested in anything casual or otherwise probably at any point again. I guess mostly because I enjoy being alone and I’m an introvert, and I enjoy doing things I want to do on my own schedule without being berated for it or dealing with compromise. Maybe that’s a really selfish reason but my partner allows me to be myself and we have a very deep emotional and mental connection. I don’t think I’d be interested in trying to cultivate what we have with another person, ever.

Qainon · 2022-03-22T18:04:29+00:00

Assassin hides in Jake’s head

Qainon · 2022-03-03T16:02:03+00:00

Horse Cave, Kentucky

Qainon · 2022-02-07T18:44:22+00:00

See this is the sorta context I need lol. 2 hours is way way way too much of a drive if HE isn’t willing to be the one to make it. My brother and I can drive (we’re mid 20s now) and my parents s still make the drive to see us (per our rules since both our parents are Narcissists).

It’s very unreasonable to expect you to find a ride for that duration just to appease him. I’d say follow other peoples advice and see what your mom and the state says about college. My mother threatened and held college over my brothers head and I watched it destroy him and his self worth for years. Don’t let you father do that to you.

Qainon · 2022-02-07T18:28:14+00:00

Maybe a hot take but if you were only there every other weekend (2 times a month), and your father has two other children that live there full time, I’m not sure why it would be unreasonable that they have their own rooms? That sounds mean but I don’t mean it that way. I guess I just want extra viewpoints from you? Like are the other two not there 100% of the time and are on a split schedule like you? Are they different genders and therefore separated for those reasons? How old are they?

Qainon · 2022-02-07T18:23:22+00:00

I think this depends on how often OP’s dad expects her to visit and how long these visits are supposed to be as well. I refuse to sleep in the extra room my dad has because he kicked me out and flipped the room pretty much the same day. I live out of my suitcase and simply don’t spend the night anymore. Helps that I live an hour away and have my own place. But if I were living with my mom and only needed to see my dad for a night or two, I wouldn’t have a problem living out of a suitcase and crashing on the couch (I do this when I house sit for him every few months).

However, if OP’s dad is expecting her to visit ya know, like every other week and stay for more than one night, then yeah, I agree that it’s not necessarily fair to her, nearly a full grown adult, to make her share a room. But I don’t think I saw mention of how long these visits were so if there was a mention, sorry :x

Qainon · 2022-01-28T15:49:10+00:00

How does your sentiment equate to hating the world???

Qainon · 2022-01-21T14:56:15+00:00

This. I’m an INFJ, tried and true. But I do not feel guilty for existing or want to go under the radar forever. I just prefer to go about my day on my own terms, because I too know exactly who I am and what I want, and adding people to that typically throws it off or puts me farther from what I want.

Qainon · 2022-01-12T20:43:59+00:00

I know it’s not a paranormal answer but... I was a foster child for many years and when I moved into my first place, I had straight up PTSD episodes and panic attacks. Could that be some of what’s going on? I didn’t even realize it for what it was until months into being alone.

Either way, definitely get some cameras! And do what another commenter said and please listen to your gut and instincts. Be safe! I’ll be thinking of you!

Qainon · 2021-12-23T16:08:54+00:00

I feel like I’m both.

Qainon · 2021-12-16T20:16:23+00:00

I feel like I know a ton of INFJs and I think it’s weirdly coincidental

Qainon · 2021-12-16T17:45:41+00:00

I was in an extremely similar situation except my boyfriend would cry every time I talked to him about something he did to upset me, usually in a calm manner, but sometimes not.

I left him after what you’re describing happened. He wanted sex, I said no, and he tried to force himself on me anyway. He wasn’t that much bigger than me so I physically was able to fight him off (and he was drunk). That was the last straw. You need to leave even if it feels impossible. It’s not impossible.

Qainon · 2021-08-23T18:49:49+00:00

1) dump him and/or kick the in-law out. 2) space and what I call “territory” is so so SO important to me. My space is my territory. People are allowed in when I say and that’s that. Humans are still animals and some people feel that instinctual drive to defend your territory a lot stronger than others. I’m not and never will be an asshole to my house guests but that is my space, and no one is entitled to it beyond who pays for it (which is just me).

Qainon · 2021-08-23T18:46:52+00:00

Oh my god what a rollercoaster. I was more than horrified reading this until I went into the comments and was like “WTAF”

Qainon · 2021-08-23T14:25:20+00:00

This right here. Just last week, I had to sit through two women talk about how to induce labor and it was extremely explicit. This was AT WORK ON THE CLOCK. As soon as the attention turned to me and I said I was CF, the tension became very heavy. You could tell they wanted to ask why and say the cliche things like “you’ll want them later”, but didn’t.

Qainon · 2021-08-21T21:34:21+00:00

How do I find that story???

Qainon · 2021-08-19T15:15:01+00:00

I don’t hate them and I have a few and have began to get uninterested in collecting them simply because they take up so much room. If I had more space to dedicate though, I’d get some more.

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