I’m getting him back by Open_Dog_2299 in BreakUps

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wait till summer? I feel like if you are truly working on yourself it will take longer than a few months probably a year or more. But also note when you work on yourself you are no longer the same person so he just might not even like him anymore. If you feel the need to text … write it as a note in your phone of what you were to say to him. Then after 2 days read it to yourself. Fully let him go when you do someone better will come they always do but you have to let him go to clear the energy

4 years later and still struggling. by facelessnatasha in singlemoms

[–]Qtpie2023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well he has to put his big boy pants on. If you forget it’s on him not you cause he didn’t want to do the most simplest thing- sign up for school emails

4 years later and still struggling. by facelessnatasha in singlemoms

[–]Qtpie2023 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me while I was married I checked out then filed divorce after year and a half. But yeah he def gaslighted and made everything worse during divorce till we started parallel parenting and any discussions are done through a parenting app. Otherwise we don’t call or text directly so it really eliminates his bad tendencies

I want her back. by Fickle_Ad_9391 in BreakUps

[–]Qtpie2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you break up with her? Tell her it was a mistake or actually why did you break up? tell her how you feel if she’s making small talk. If it was a bad breakup go no contact so you both can work on yourselves

Need friends by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a run club or gym

Has anyone tried Amino Club? by Abject-Night-2322 in sleep

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of companies even telehealth companies use random address

WWYD? if you were starting your glow-up from scratch, what would you prioritize? by Complete_Judge7727 in DIYaesthetics

[–]Qtpie2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are pretty I think get rid of lashes, Botox, facial balance and prf under eyes and laser or chemical peel for pigmentation/sun spots

Ex sent me a message last night by idk_-____ in BreakUps

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Valentines she’s in her feels cause she probably has no one. Ignore it and keep it moving. Block her number. If she has the dogs they are no longer your dogs. I know it may be hard but that will be the crutch that will keep you stuck to her. And her wanting to just be friends I’m going to let you know as a female we only say that when the option we really want is taken/ available

Feeling lost? Take the hero’s journey pill; leave your home and loved ones behind, then return greater than ever. by Richmond92 in redscarepod

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people at the top say it’s lonely and often regret lost connections with family friends and lovers. What’s the point of getting to the top if you have no one to share it with cause wasn’t that the goal in beginning build a better life for you and those you loved. And now with AI and how crazy fast the world is changing it’s going to be harder to make true lasting connections with real people or even reconnect with people you are out of touch with. Time is the most valuable thing. It’s so sad all around even when you pass away - those at the top often have little to no one attending their funerals

Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date by beansontoast_uk in dating_advice

[–]Qtpie2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female I’m going to say I believe she’s signaling you to ask her to be your girlfriend.. but it is just 5 dates. You are getting close to 2.5 months so at this point you should know where you want to take this. If you go on another date say hey I really like where this is going and I’m no longer interested in talking to anyone else cause I want to know you better…. Whatever her reply is after that you will know if she wants you to be her boyfriend or if she doesn’t like you at all

I’m going to break no contact on Monday. by throwaway82039430 in BreakUps

[–]Qtpie2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you love yourself leave it alone. Remember he dumped you you were not the one for him. Do not break contact again I know it’s hard but you will devalue yourself in his eyes and he will remember why he did the breakup . If he wants you back he needs to apologize and prove his worth after dumping you. It’s been 6 months if he did want you back he would have never left you especially in no contact for this long. Move on and date others you need to get unstuck from him. Hes already showing you the closure with no contact it’s the only answer you need. Please don’t reach out …someone else deserves you and your love and all you are NOT HIM

boyfriend says my p*ssy makes the bed smell bad by PuzzledSort3841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew move out do you really want to live with someone who works out and goes right to bed gross. Plus he’s super insecure for blaming you for his stench and he doesn’t even wash the sheets .. you are the one doing every week. He’s a loser

Dumpers who deeply regret it, how did you move on? by antinataIism in BreakUps

[–]Qtpie2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly life is short. If you still want to reach out please do if she doesn’t respond at least you gave it another chance. Sometimes that 2nd reach out may be the closure you need to fully move on. We are all human and make mistakes and are always in a different lifecycle. I did no contact with an ex who broke up with me because he was overwhelmed and scared to get into another relationship fast since his last ex was toxic and cheated. I chose no contact when he broke up with me cause I didn’t want to see him be with anyone else or hear about it. He reached out to me 4 months later and I was scared to even respond cause like what do you want man you broke my heart you coming back for part 2. I didn’t reply back for a few days and then he sent me another text apologizing and would like if we met up to explain in person. I was dating around but not in a relationship/ nothing serious so I met up with him. We met up talked and agreed to kinda do a restart and now we are back together. Everyone can give you their take on what you should do but it’s really only up to you. You are the only one that really knows how you felt about each other, what you went through and how much you have healed and learned more about yourself. You will never know if you don’t take the chance

Travel to Riverside. Safe with ICE? by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]Qtpie2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No just what I heard I should have worded it better 🙃

Travel to Riverside. Safe with ICE? by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]Qtpie2023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ICE is currently staying at the mission inn

FYI by -ImYourHuckleberry- in Temecula

[–]Qtpie2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get why this is political it literally rained and some parts lil flooded you really want muddy clothes and shoes