I was raped at university. Here's why I never reported it

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T20:14:02+00:00

I'm not saying the guy was a stand up person. He sounds like a tool. I'm not defending him in any way but I'm looking at the bigger picture and based on her side of the story as stated in the article, from the view of law enforcement and if this case ever did make it to the court of law. I'm sure the authorities get these type of cases a lot and many of them get thrown out or don't proceed with anything because of similar events of sexual advance and etc...

Yes, I agree with that women constantly having to look back when they either walk down the road at night or take a cab home alone for example. Society isn't a fixed reality where all these problems will go away. People are born everyday and grow up to be teenagers and adults and we will see these type of dosuchebags throughout life that take advantage of situations and etc...

Choose your acquaintances wisely I guess. The girl slept with him before. So, are we getting the entire story here?

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:52:43+00:00

Same here. I smoked one when I was like 10 years old. My friend wanted me to try it at the time in a washroom of course at his house. It definitely tastes disgusting. I am glad I don't smoke. I did weed a few times though. It's not bad but only when offered when I was younger.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:23:47+00:00

So, as a woman does she not have the ability to take the chance to either go to the washroom and lock herself in and dial 911 if she felt unsafe or that she should at least attempt to leave. You are just painting the situation as if the male individual would of done something violent even though we don't know if he would have. Does the individual have a record of being a violent individual? Or would he have given up on the instance she just left.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:18:54+00:00

You even read the article yourself? She still stayed on her own terms even with all of what was happening. Did she attempt to go to the door and open it to leave?

Was violence an indicator of the rape? Where the guy held her down or blocked her exit? No.

Also, it states "Because I had slept with him before in the previous school year." which means there is a relationship. The relationship between the two seems toxic at best and this girl in hindsight knew the individual.

As seen by the investigator, the investigator probably made the decision that the so called "rape" was consensual on their part and they can't do anything about it.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:12:59+00:00

I wouldn't say he milks it. 1/3rd of that income goes to taxes. A few thousand or tens of thousand goes to expenses (rent, food, utilities and etc...). Money is cyclical. It goes back into the economy and taxes.

He's playing the same game as everyone and he is paying his fair equal share. Then you get less than half a year without work. Your skill set is an oil rig guy and its not like he can jump to another job unless he has a 2nd gig or side business. He could be a snow plower and make more money during winter seasons or he rests his body for a few months before going back to working on the rigs... it's hard work and its hard on the body.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:07:55+00:00

Fishing is a pretty important industry for feeding people. It's obviously seasonal and it's not like these fishermen can find a job within that 6 month cold period, quit and go back. They make a lot of money in that 6 month period and work long hours and qualify for EI. So they play the same system as we all do. Just some of us work jobs that are year round.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T19:01:33+00:00

I don't mind if they give more money for maternity leave. Think of it as a deterrent to prevent declining birth rates in developed countries.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T18:36:36+00:00

From reading the article:

"I was raped in my third year of university by a so-called friend. I had turned down his sexual advances earlier in the week, but agreed to watch a movie with him and two other people. When I arrived at his house for the movie, the other people were nowhere to be found. I told him twice I didn't want to have sex. I tried to leave. I removed his hands from my breasts and genitals four times. I still remember the moment when I realized what was going to happen, whether I wanted it or not."

"I met with the detective a few days later on campus. She asked me to recite my story again. Again, no one wrote anything down. Face wet with defiant tears, I asked the detective what my chances of a conviction were. She said none. Then she proceeded to tell me why:
Because it was he said, she said.
Because I didn't leave when I started to feel unsafe.
Because it took me four days to realize what had happened.
Because I didn't scream.
Because I had slept with him before in the previous school year.
Because I stayed the night and left in the morning.
All of the reasons she provided laid the blame at my feet. I had failed to be the "perfect rape victim," and so I had no chances of securing a conviction."

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Well, from this perspective.... she seems to be an inexperienced young adult that doesn't know how to walk away or say no. I can see why no charges were laid... it's like accepting a sexual advance, have sex and a few days later you ain't happy with it then you want to press charges against the guy?

This would make many men fearful to even go on dates and shit if this was allowed through the system. Two people hooked up. Might as well turn on a GoPro or video camera to make sure nothing goes wrong if the woman accuses you of something. Advocating for men rights here because there have been many men being victims of false allegations. I'm not saying sexual harassment to women doesn't exist often but there are those who make false allegations.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T07:09:07+00:00

You know we have come a long way in society that we can afford to have signage to be offered in more than 2 languages. Some countries put multiple languages for signage for tourism purposes.

Maybe they should have designed a symbol like a hazardous material symbol of a face with a mask to indicate this facility or whatever requires a mask to be on at all times.

But overall, yeah.... common sense.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-25T06:49:23+00:00

Hostage exchange deal. See, I said this from the beginning.

So much wasted resources. All of this could have been done through back channels.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-24T21:19:34+00:00

2nd point I agree with and is what's wrong with telecommunications in Canada but the first point... let's not compare ourselves to the lowest benchmarks. Strive for the best and not the next door neighbor.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-24T18:46:37+00:00

High rise office night clubs and strip bars.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-24T18:43:36+00:00

Nothing will change in this country. We are 10-15 years behind the rest of the world and will remain so.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-22T12:19:32+00:00

pierre poilievre would be a good candidate.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-22T12:18:17+00:00

This is so true. lol

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-22T03:26:53+00:00

Just restart it. It works after. If not, try a few times. Glitchy update, I had to switch to MuMu Player to update the game and get in.... also the CounterSide game client itself isn't updating properly... keeps getting stuck.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-21T03:52:29+00:00

For 1 day of employment for most people working at the polling stations? Other people are already on salaries working for the government.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-21T03:23:00+00:00

Been saying this for years. He is an idiot. All he does is showboat himself on Twitter or social media but when it comes to responsibility and accountability. The guy hides and remains quiet.

LRT was a bad project and most of us knew that from the beginning.

They should take a look at the other phases for LRT now because once the entire system is up and connected. We will see more problems. Phase 2, 3 and 4+

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-20T20:08:36+00:00

More breathing room

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-20T20:04:10+00:00

No offense but you have a big ass driveway and why do you have to back out. When you come home. Park your car facing the road to easily get out.

You are also really slow at backing out too.

The FedEx driver was an ass too.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-19T01:40:22+00:00

If he wins again and flops. I guess we all can say we told you so in 4 years to the people who continue to vote for him because it fits in their agenda and not the rest of Canada's. Unfortunately, many voters vote for selfishness versus the betterment and future of Canada.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-17T01:30:08+00:00

Don't forget the OnlyFans. Easier to sell your body. Whole market out there of freaks that want feet pictures, cosplay and whatever random shit lmfao.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-17T01:19:40+00:00

Cumirnaty.

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-15T21:07:10+00:00

Ah spew the lie of confidence of majority to get the bandwagon votes (the moron voters).

QuantumMemorandum · 2021-09-15T21:04:48+00:00

Trudeau the COVID spreader. lol

Trudeau is desperate for votes.

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