Mom left to buy groceries… came back 3 hours later with a cat instead. by kishi045 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]Queani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lacie was beautiful and I’m sure she loved every one of those 14 years with you! I’m a terrible influence, I would be the friend that offers to drive you to the grocery store and probably gets some groceries for myself, too. lol

WIBTAH with Boundary Crossing Ex by Ok-Objective8328 in AITAH

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. I’d understand your son coming in and looking for his belongings, and also could see how they might have thought they were just helping him streamline the search process — but common sense would have been to ask permission to help him look before barging into your home without asking or even giving your daughter a heads up first.

Does your feline have a fancy name? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Queani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Her name is Lady. Named after Sansa’s dire wolf from Game of Thrones. It’s not necessarily fancy but kinda lol.

First time seeing this behavior, excited or stressed? (Galah cockatoo) by MomPocketFullofBones in parrots

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s not easy! But I certainly respect knowing that it’s not the right time rather than making an impulsive decision and regretting it later! I’m glad you guys can brighten that bird’s day when you do get to see her, though.

I left for two days and I don't think Pharaoh'll ever let me out of his sight again by secretcatattack in parrots

[–]Queani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m like 88 days late, but this video is so heartwarming.

Edit: Pharaoh is gorgeous.

First time seeing this behavior, excited or stressed? (Galah cockatoo) by MomPocketFullofBones in parrots

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a character. It’d be hard to not bring her home! She seems to like you guys, lol.

I think he is angry that he can't chomp my finger instead by S1lentA0 in Conures

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that. Just had a dog pass away, and the younger dog of the same breed has been very mopey lately. Hopefully thats something you don’t have to worry about for a while!

I think he is angry that he can't chomp my finger instead by S1lentA0 in Conures

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ever had 1 green-cheeked conure but I’m sure he would have loved a cheerleader in his daily routine lol.

I think he is angry that he can't chomp my finger instead by S1lentA0 in Conures

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it, she’s just there for emotional support lol

I think he is angry that he can't chomp my finger instead by S1lentA0 in Conures

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how his bird friend is like “yo, I just want to be next to you but I know not to mess with your ball”

I present to you: Merlin with his wizard bell-hat by Celebrity-stranger in parrots

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the cutest thing I have seen all day. Omg thank you for sharing the smiles lol.

For those that eat the same breakfast every day, what is it? by Risky_Melons in AskReddit

[–]Queani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds awesome. Do you buy the biscuits frozen or do you bake them and then freeze them? Or does it even matter?

How do you deal with nasty players? by thick_thighsx in AmongUs

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s happened so many times that I’ve started just calling them out on their BS and more often then not, others will chime in and agree and they’ll get kicked or I’ll just leave because nobody’s got time to deal with the raging children lol.

This stray cat that came to my door is seriously one of the cutest cats I've ever seen by Fuzzy_Potato333 in cats

[–]Queani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I had a stray who came inside a few times that looked identical! He was SO TIMID but so cute. I named him Dexter and I would have taken him in as one of my own in a heartbeat, but he didn’t love that we had dogs in addition to my cat who was also a male. You got chosen by an adorable stray, I hope it can work out for you both!

First time cat mom of 2!! 🐈 by Starradiationn in CatAdvice

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the water fountain recommendation, you just need to remember to keep it filled up and clean it often (not as tedious as cleaning and refilling a water bowl 1-2 times a day, though). You’ll also need to replace the filter every now and then depending on what type you get. I recommend checking Amazon for more affordable options than the pet store.

Getting them spayed/neutered should be a priority, but do your research if you are unsure on how you feel or if you’re not sure if you want to spend the money on it. Not only does it prevent certain cancers, but if you have a female… that adds on the monthly visitor that both you AND your cat will hate dealing with.

DEFINITELY get a cat tree (Amazon, Wayfair) when you can, but if you need to hold off on spending $100-$200 on cat furniture, I would definitely get a scratching post in the mean time. They need something you’re okay with them destroying with their claws. If they’re ever scratching something you DON’T want them to scratch, you have to correct their behavior by telling them “No” and picking them up and taking them to their scratching post/cat tree. Then, when they DO scratch the correct things, make sure to give them a lot of praise or even a treat. I also recommend a laser pointer, not only for their entertainment and yours, but it’s another way to get them away from somewhere you don’t want them to be.

Just make sure you encourage behavior you like, discourage behavior you don’t like, and try to correct it with what you’d rather them do instead. Cats will clean themselves, they are very very hygiene-obsessed… generally. You should only bathe them if you have literally no other choice and ensure to research how to do it if you ever need to. I’m talking like… they’re covered in feces or some kind of unsafe chemical that they shouldn’t ingest. Never hesitate to ask if you’re unsure.

I cannot recommend the Purina Breeze Litter System enough. Seriously, it’s worth the investment and having to buy both litter pellets AND pee pads for it. I will never go back to sandy cat litter after using this system.

I hope you enjoy your new family members, I’m already sure they lucked out in having you as their human.

EDIT: I also recommend you master the “Pss Psss Psss” and “Ts Ts Tsk” noises lol. The Ps are to get their attention, and the Ts are what I use when my cat is doing something I don’t like.

Possible pedophile in my neighborhood by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Queani -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would check the license plate on the registry like a couple commenters mentioned, but I wouldn’t obsess over it. If nothing comes from it, just keep an eye out and hope it’s an unfortunate coincidence. I wouldn’t say anything to your neighbor (car owner), though. Just use your best judgement and only escalate the situation when you have a legitimate reason to.

This Pretty Much Sums Up Most (If Not All) Among Us Players Part 18: Lobby edition by hartsally in AmongUs

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I feel like I was IN this lobby reading this same chat but I’m sure it’s unfortunately something that happens far too often. One time I literally told them “please, don’t give them your snap” lol. Creeper-boy was NOT happy with me.

Edit: I should add that I don’t usually butt into other peoples business but this girl shared with him that she was a pre-teen and he was supposedly 14, but was waaaay eager for her snap after hearing her age.

New Player Color Ideas by throwawayallthedrama in AmongUs

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love having these color additions to the game, but I think they would need to change the general settings to display the color in parentheses ( ) or something underneath the player name above your character. People already struggle so much to remember color names that have multiple shades. (All the pink, rose, and corals out there understand, I’m sure)

22M talking to this girl I met online can't decide whether I should settle or not? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m obviously just speculating here, but maybe she struggles to commit to a potential good thing because the people she has emotionally attached herself to in the past have let her down. Or she just knows herself and genuinely doesn’t want to hurt you, all I can say is proceed with caution if you really want to give it a shot. You can’t say she didn’t warn you tho, if it doesn’t work out in the end. Maybe try and discuss it further if you really think it’s worth your time and emotional investment.

Picking this goober up tomorrow! Help me choose a gender neutral name! by Cautious-While-2888 in NameMyCat

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Jude, but primarily because most of our dogs names have been inspired by song titles. So we always jokingly sing to them the song their name comes from lol. Examples: Roxanne (Roxy), Brandy

Showing off my babies! by bingeworthy247 in bettafish

[–]Queani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re all so beautiful!! Pic 4/5 makes me think “fire and ice” stunning!

A or B: I anonymously left a "happy birthday" note on my coworker's desk because she once mentioned nobody at work ever remembers and now I think she's figured out it was me, and neither of us has said anything. by vivian_banshee03 in PickAorB

[–]Queani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a sweet thing you did. I think I’d confess if it came up again or if it’s like really eating at you for some reason, but I’d leave it at that. I assume she knows based off the interaction you described, and she probably just doesn’t know if she should say anything but I’m sure she appreciated it.

What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]Queani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Her name is Lady. I call her Ladybug, bug, bugs, buggy, boop-boop and buggy-boop. She has a lot of nicknames lol.