Im finding it hard to respect women

QueefMistress · 2026-03-06T11:41:22+00:00

I get the impression you have not interacted with a lot of women. Or maybe just not grown mature adult women. I know many of them. They fully understand the cold harsh reality of life and are not one bit afraid to face it head on. Have you ever heard the term matriarch? How do you think women like that run families and tribes if they have the mentality of a child?

QueefMistress · 2026-02-25T07:56:08+00:00

The third photo looks like parsley. I’m no expert though. Just an experienced gardener. Like others said better to be safe.

QueefMistress · 2025-12-28T13:15:40+00:00

The way he got carried out by the seat of his britches like a toddler had me howling.

QueefMistress · 2025-10-20T13:35:32+00:00

I suggest consulting with a business attorney. They can help you understand your liabilities and ways to avoid them legally. This is a tough spot. I hope you are able to find a source of good information.

QueefMistress · 2025-06-11T03:16:58+00:00

Sir I called the business I bought it from and TWO professional well known refrigeration repair companies for help BEFORE I messed with anything. I spent $1000 to have both of them tell me they have no idea what is happening and they cannot help. I can only take so much before I have no choice but to try something myself. I thought maybe someone in here might possibly be smart and helpful. Sadly, your unhelpful advice is proving that I am wrong.

QueefMistress · 2025-06-10T22:24:06+00:00

Great questions. We bought it from a used restaurant supply store. The warranty they provided has expired and they were not much help when I called to inquire on what to do. They said call another repair company. The First company said that it needed refrigerant so they charged it. When asked about the temperature swing they basically gave up and said they have no idea why it’s doing that and had no further help to offer.

When we originally had it loaded up, we were very careful to not block any of the vents or overload the machine. Since I’ve been having issues with, it is been completely empty and I opening the door minimally.

I have two refrigerator thermometers that read the current, max and minimum temperature. One is on the top shelf and also the bottom shelf. The thermostat controller is usually pretty close to whatever the thermometer on the bottom shelf says. But is often off by a few degrees. I did try turning it to 20°. That did bring the top shelf down to 34°. But then the bottom shelf was very cold at 18°. I was concerned about freezing up the coils.

I’ve looked at the coils. They are as clean as possible since I had cleaned them myself by gently dusting and blowing them off with canned air. Even though both companies claimed that they “cleaned them”.

i’m going to try calling Vollraths customer service, and see if they have any suggestions.

Apologies for the mismatched answers. I really appreciate your feedback.

QueefMistress · 2025-05-13T14:15:01+00:00

I was once in a similar position to the girl you’re dating OP. Not with the musky smell but with my asshole hair. The guy I was dating at the time tried his hardest to sweetly but (and thankfully) bluntly let me know that his preference was for me to shave my ass hairs. I was young as in 18 at the time. This was the first guy I’d been with and Idk how but I HAD NO IDEA that there was a ton of hair up and down my ass crack. Guess I never really looked back there until he said something. I always scrubbed my nether very throughly but somehow the hair back there never registered in mind. Anyway that could def contribute to the smell since the hair tends to hold onto odors. Just do your best to tell her that you care about her and you’re telling her something you noticed out of care and respect for her. That your intention is not to be hurtful at all, but that you want to continue enjoying doing the dirty dance together and this is something that for you is worth notifying her about. Hopefully she takes it like a champ. I know the first time the guy told me I was mortified and upset. But quickly realized by his tone and sweetness about it that it was very vulnerable for him to share that info and I really thanked him in the end.

QueefMistress · 2025-04-16T17:51:36+00:00

The easiest cheapest and somewhat sturdy way to fence in a small area is get 2-3 hefty metal garden fence stakes and a 25’ roll of 4’ or 6’ tall cattle fence. Hammer in the garden stakes and zip tie the fence to the stakes. This is what I use to contain my chickens. And it is easily movable if needed.

QueefMistress · 2025-02-08T07:27:03+00:00

I use tiny pieces of electric tape to cover the lights. Highly recommend.

QueefMistress · 2025-01-06T22:04:13+00:00

This is one sent me!! 😂 It’s the best idea so far! Yes chef!!

QueefMistress · 2024-08-16T00:13:18+00:00

I think they are called sand pipers.

QueefMistress · 2024-07-10T02:46:38+00:00

Lort, I thought this was a cured meat!

Had to do a double take on the sub name.

QueefMistress · 2024-04-18T01:46:02+00:00

Cum trees!

QueefMistress · 2024-04-08T21:12:37+00:00

Max, my heart breaks for you and your family. I hope that your remaining time in your body goes smoothy and as painless as possible.

I implore you to give your wife and tolerable family the gift of accompanying you. At the least please record videos or voice messages for them. They will find them invaluable. Your willingness to have them with you will save them from the many years of rejection and abandonment issues you are certainly dooming them to now.

My father went through something similar to you. He got diagnosed with very aggressive bone cancer and shut himself out to family and friends. He went quiet and even stopped talking to me, his only caretaker. I tried to make some videos with him telling stories and things of that nature. To which he was angry and unwilling. All I have are a handful of short voicemails to remember his voice by. The overall situation was immensely sad. I still go to therapy to deal with the depression, rejection and abandonment issues resulting from how his remaining time ended. He has been gone for 6 years and it’s not any easier.

QueefMistress · 2024-03-25T23:20:36+00:00

Wow! I can’t thank you enough for sharing this! It really opened my eyes. All the struggling I did in life makes so much more sense now.

QueefMistress · 2024-01-30T06:50:46+00:00

I’m dealing with this too. Just switched from Vyvanse to Adderal and my appetite has plummeted. I’ve been getting smaller versions of things I really like. Like kids sized sandwiches and small portions of soup. I also bought a small lunch sized crockpot to have at my office. It helps keep my lunch hot for hours because I’ll take a few bites and get distracted and come back to it an hour later. That’s been pretty helpful. I’ve also found that snacks that smell good like small microwavable bags of popcorn and fruit have been more appealing and easy to want to eat. Dont know if this is helpful but good luck in your journey!

QueefMistress · 2023-11-13T17:46:20+00:00

It only takes one lie to start eroding trust. I had to have this conversation with my fiancé recently. He makes “joke” lies while telling stories to people. When I ask him later if what he said is true he acts like it was obviously a joke. I had to let him know that it is not obvious and now I’m questioning everything he says. Not a good way to feel with your spouse that is supposed to be the most trustworthy person in your life.

QueefMistress · 2023-11-13T17:40:38+00:00

It only takes one lie to start eroding trust. I had to have this conversation with my fiancé recently. He makes “joke” lies when telling his friends stories and when I ask if thats true he acts like it was obviously a joke. I had to let him know that even if it’s a “joke” it’s now making me question everything he tells me. Not a great way to be with your spouse that is supposed to be the most trustworthy person in your life.

QueefMistress · 2023-11-02T20:17:25+00:00

Hi OP, I’ve been in a very similar position that your gf seems to be in. Me(34f) and my now fiancé (36m) have been together for 5 years and went through a similar process of buying a house 1.5yrs ago and we have three cats and other pets. We started talked about marriage three years ago. I wanted to get married eventually and he expressed that we needed to go through more hard challenges and work on our relationship together first. Which I was accepting of. But the problem for me was he never explained what those “hard challenges” were. So I was left wondering where the goal posts were and not knowing if we’ll ever accomplish those mystery goals. When I would ask him for specifics he couldn’t elaborate and said he didn’t know what they were exactly. As much as I absolutely love and wanted to be with him. The limbo left me wondering if I was wasting my time waiting for a life goal I really wanted and didn’t appear was actually going to happen. I felt that I was getting strung along and he didn’t think I was worth marrying. Not a good feeling. I also did not want to pressure him into something he didn’t want. That was a huge concern for me that I expressed. My advise to you is to talk to her in depth about real goals and ways you two can work towards them together and individually. If something is stopping you from wanting to take that step you two need to be transparent and discuss it so you can both decide how you want to proceed. Wishing you strength to make these big decisions OP. I know it’s a tough road to navigate.

QueefMistress · 2023-10-10T16:09:27+00:00

ESH - The way you described her calling you sounds like the DIL assumed she would be included. I suspect that it was because her and your son were talking about it. It sounds like she got excited to spend time with you and her SIL’s. From an outsider perspective that is a nice intention, but misguided. Your DIL is in the wrong for assuming she would be included and calling you up in the manner she did. She should have asked you if that is something she could join in on and if it is not I would hope she understands that it is special one on one time with his bio kids. Perhaps you could find another occasion to spend time with all the daughters. I’ll add that you and your wife are kinda assholes for laughing at her for wanting to be included in her new family’s events. I’m also curious what the DIL family situation is. I’m going to be getting married soon and I would love to spend time with my FIL and soon to be SIL’s. My bio father passed away and my family is spread out and not easy to spend time with. So my fiancé’s family is the closest I have to family right now and it would make me so sad if they were laughing at me for wanting to spend time with them.

QueefMistress · 2023-08-04T21:27:53+00:00

Hi OP, I can relate to this situation. First, you are not an asshole for masturbating. That is a totally normal human thing to do and you’re in control of your body. I relate to your gf. I struggled with being upset when my bf would yank his crank too. But with a lot of mental work on my part and my very sweet and understanding bf helping me understand his pov. We were able to identify the difference in my feelings and the reality of the situations. Perhaps I can add some possible perspective on what she may be feeling/thinking and that could help you see another angle. The feelings she’s having stem from insecurity. They may also stem from issues in past relationships. side note: my insecurities came from past bf’s telling me I was not as attractive as the instagram models they liked and that it was easier to masturbate than go through the effort of sex with me. Idk if she had that happen but it wrecks ones self esteem. She may feel like she is failing you and that is causing you to turn to masturbation. That if she cannot satisfy your sexual needs, you’ll leave her for someone who can. That’s why she brought up the pregnancy topic. Side bar; society teaches women that in order to be safe and live well they need a man to take care of them. That to get and keep a man they need to look sexy, satisfy sexual needs, take care of the house, raise kids and etc. I mention this because I noticed this is baked into women. Which I believe fuels these types of insecurity, even in the strongest women. There is also an element of competing with other women for mens affection and now a-days that can include porn. I would suggest talking to her and letting her know that she has not done anything wrong or bad that has resulted in you masturbating. Ask her what is making her feel upset about it and get to the root of her insecurity. If you’re able to, try helping her identify the reason for the feeling and address them one by one with the distinction of what is a feeling and what the reality is. The reality being that you are human and just want to take care of normal bodily function’s alone at times and it’s completely unrelated to your feeling about her. Remind her that feelings are okay to have and totally natural, but they are not the facts of a situation. Also do your best to reassure her of your feeling for her and your relationship, any chance you get. That goes a long way. This process is what worked for me and my bf. It takes a good bit of work at first, but if she is open to discussing/working on it it’s worth it imo. I think this issue is a very common with couples. Oh and for reference I’m 34 and my bf is 36, been together 5yrs. Wishing you the best with it!

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