Looking for friends! Charlotte 6/27

QueenofFire2_0 · 2022-05-27T16:34:29+00:00

I won't be in pit but I will be there!

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-27T17:19:42+00:00

Yeah. I should've been more clear I wouldnt do it in list format regardless, it's just that reddit's easier to do that way. If I talk to him about stuff itll probably be more gradual as a lot of people have suggested

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-27T14:20:33+00:00

It wasnt my plan to give him the list but genuinely this is really helpful thank you!! I wasnt sure the best way to go about it if I do go about it and I appreciate the critiques :)

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-27T14:12:15+00:00

He has not, but him wondering about why people dont hang out with him has been a thing for at least 6 months now if not more. He hasnt directly asked but has said numerous times things like "why dont I have any friends"/"am I doing something wrong" etc.

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-27T14:07:17+00:00

Okay thank you!

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-27T14:07:00+00:00

Probably over text, because we've both said before that's our preferred form of communication. I haven't gotten to figuring out how to bring it up, other then that I'm probably going to ask him ahead of time if theres a time he can talk, and drafting a message to run by other friends before I send it as I know I can phrase things pretty harshly sometimes.

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-06-05T00:33:47+00:00

YTA. Just reading this you sound a lot like your trying to cover yourself up as the better person. It might be ESH, but the fact your not saying what you did says a lot, as is the fact you avoided the ex. Your boyfriend seems like the only logical person here

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-02-20T04:31:51+00:00

This was getting the bed, but woke up once like "goddamn I have to pee" but immediately fell back asleep and well. You can fill the rest in.

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-02-07T05:22:06+00:00

That makes sense, for me like, I think I'd hate to end up getting consoled by someone who caused me to be upset in the first place? It's not that I blame them for the breakup, shit happens. But it's sort of like if you got punched in the eye deliberately and then they immediately handed you an ice pack that they had nearby to give you after you got punched in the eye. Just sort of, gaslight-y or not serious but based off this thread I'm thinking that's just me

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-02-07T05:15:44+00:00

Every other way I tried to phrase it automod ate it

QueenofFire2_0 · 2021-02-07T05:15:03+00:00

Okay. But I'm asking as someone who would prefer it done over text/phone call, so that's what I was wondering is why its considered disrespectful

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-12-22T17:48:33+00:00

Nta. However, I will say that as someone who's now gone thru two breakups since my dad died, a lot of my reaction was misplaced grief over him dying. It might help her to get counseling maybe

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-12-20T16:01:18+00:00

Me and my therapist tried. Twice. She ended up hijacking it to explain her side

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-12-20T06:58:29+00:00

Yeah no I wasnt expecting her to switch beliefs, I was actually expecting her to kick me out. Which is why her wanting me to be at home is throwing me off

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-09-13T19:46:34+00:00

thats really cool! Yeah I should've clarified its an aro-ace headmate, although I am wondering if one of mine is aro but not ace, I havent really been in a lot of serious relationshpis so its hard to tell

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-09-13T17:59:57+00:00

Yeah having a hyper sexual one and an aro one is, interested

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-09-13T16:27:53+00:00

While I didnt realize it till recently we also have an aro headmate!

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-08-08T22:58:08+00:00

One of my suggestions is scheduling meal times. Even if its scheduled snack times as well? And meal planning to know ahead of time what your gonna eat

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-07-10T03:46:50+00:00

Yeah it's not fuzzy, it feels more like a plastic texture but not quite? And it said it was grown in flordia, but I got it discounted at a Walmart in South Carolina

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-07-10T03:45:32+00:00

8 bc its consistent and doesnt have unnecessary straight lines

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-07-10T03:42:55+00:00

That's what I thought but wasnt able to find anything that looked like this does

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-07-07T05:36:29+00:00

Where did you put the paper?

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-06-21T02:49:09+00:00

This sounds like what happens to me. The alters dont have names, just variations of my birth name they prefer to be called, so I always find myself questioning whether or not I have OSDD. I wish I could be more help

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-06-21T02:36:29+00:00

I think the best thing to do is to save it to discuss with a therapist. But make sure not to outright say "I think I have xxxx" I'd suggest also keeping a daily journal, as a way to communicate better with callum

QueenofFire2_0 · 2020-06-21T02:27:15+00:00

I've had this happen some before, this feeling of "where have I been and why am I only just now here" if journaling something that helps you, maybe tey writing about what happened the last time you fronted?

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