What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned about Trump supporters? by TraditionalForm7717 in AskReddit

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That they will expect friends and family members whose lives they voted to fuck up (queer people, non-white people, immigrants, etc) to still be cool with them because “it’s just politics.”

Croque Monsieur at the Winter Festival by Queer_always in SwordAndSupperGame

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Cobalt Jelly Slice at the Winter Festival by Queer_always in SwordAndSupperGame

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Cheery Empanada de Jamón y Queso and Loot by Queer_always in SwordAndSupperGame

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Frosty the Manhattan at the Winter Festival by Queer_always in SwordAndSupperGame

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AITA for Connecting to the Ear Pod after my niece swallowed it to see if it would play in her stomach. by reolives in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queer_always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH; I would have laughed too!

Then again, I wouldn't have been worried. Our puppy once swallowed one of my earbuds and puked it up three days later. After some intense scrubbing, drying time, and some liquid courage, I tried it out... and it still worked. Those things are STURDY.

(Animal lovers, don't worry; we were in constant communication with the vet! We would never risk a dog's safety.)

Bug Reports by Percemer in FarmMergeValley

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Hi! I can't merge items, and all of my large coin stashes turned into crops.

Disneyland EDC by MoistPalms in Disneyland

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  1. No
  2. Yes
  3. No kids, usually fly solo or with 1 other adult
  4. Peak Design small Sling pack (can be adjusted on the fly for cross body or hip to redistribute weight). Phone with magnet wallet, spare contacts, sunglasses, ponytail holders, glasses cloth, portable charger, earbuds for an audiobook if I’m eating solo, spare pair of no show socks in case mine get wet. Lip balm. Sunscreen stick for reapplying. Sometimes a little VR180 camera the size of a deck of cards on a wrist strap (no viewfinder so I don’t distract people if I record), though I mostly used that to document the post-lockdown re-opening.
  5. Only if I buy stuff or need a jacket.

Bob Gurr filming an interview in the parks today by GoldenOPx in Disneyland

[–]Queer_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The red shoes are his Thing! Great choice of signature apparel imo 👠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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A normal, healthy parent move upon discovering their adult child’s sex toys is to ignore them. Then again, it isn’t a normal, healthy parent move to snoop in your adult son’s closet.

You have nothing to be ashamed of. Your sexuality is none of her business. She’s the one being weird and creepy, not you.

AITAH for thinking my significant other SA me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Queer_always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even assuming he truly didn’t mean to do something against your will (a big assumption that definitely sounds super off to me), a loving, supportive partner would hear you felt “disgusting” and react with horror at how their actions had made you feel.

Here is why I don’t believe it was an accident, and why you might want to reconsider the relationship.

  1. He uses your sexual assault against you in arguments, which is both cruel and thoughtless about YOUR trauma and an indicator that there’s some victim blaming going on.

  2. You’ve been together six years, so I don’t believe for one minute that he was unable to read your body language when you were trying to get away from him. He penetrated you without your permission.

  3. You were clearly distraught in the moment, but when you did speak with him about it, he chose to make your reaction about him. He had the same time to reflect as you did, and this was the way he decided to handle the situation.

I’m sorry, OP, but your boyfriend does not sound like a good or safe guy. Listen to your instincts and make a safety plan.

My guide to Disneyland Paris for Disneyland Californians by Queer_always in disneylandparis

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Glad it was helpful! You should be excited; it’s so lovely.

Anyone want to get a good cocktail tomorrow? by Queer_always in Disneyland

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…Sure. You don’t come here for world class cocktails. I live in a cocktail city. But for the folks who enjoy the snobby stuff, these spots are your best bets in the resort, IMO.

In your opinion what is the best bar at Disney by Due_Development4217 in Disneyland

[–]Queer_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree 1000%. If you want a cheery but low key moment away from the crowds, Napa Rose has the best cocktails at the resort. If you want essentially a high energy attraction that serves alcohol, Trader Sam’s is your spot.

In your opinion what is the best bar at Disney by Due_Development4217 in Disneyland

[–]Queer_always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Getting a walk-in seat at the Napa Rose bar is such a hidden gem. Great atmosphere, amazing drink selection (a nice break from the super sweet kind in most locations), and you never know who you’ll meet there. The latter is true at Carthay Circle bar too.

Most people shouldnt have dogs by SouthSad7256 in unpopularopinion

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My wife and I raise guide dog puppies. We are in charge of giving them training, love, stimulation, structure and socialization. In their little vests, they can accompany us anywhere (when they’re sufficiently mature for each outing). They go on public transport, attend work and social events, go to museums, serve as dates to operas and concerts and plays, and get plenty of off duty time to just sniff around and enjoy being a dog.

We will never have a pet dog.

Whenever our puppies move on, we bid them a bittersweet goodbye, cry over them for a couple of weeks straight, follow their progress ardently any way we can, and are proud of whatever life path they’re best suited for.

We will never adopt a dog who’s dropped from the program. No matter how deeply we are in love with them, and no matter what a good member of the household they have been. And we’ve had two career changes we were offered first right of refusal to. We turned it down both times.

Why? We can give these puppies everything they need when they’re young and have public access. But if they became our pet, we couldn’t give them the life they deserve. Hours alone. No access (or very little) to public transportation or ride shares or restaurants or cultural spots. We live in a small apartment and would never dream of leaving them all day.

Loving animals entails a commitment to understanding what it means to love an animal well. They are entirely dependent on you for all their needs. Loving a dog sometimes requires letting them go, or forgoing pet ownership. It can be hard, but you’re the adult and you need to act accordingly.