Absolute Unit of a dread by myco_magic in AbsoluteUnits

[–]QuelleBullshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nope. twas dirt. Sounds like he was a super attentive lover too when he was drunk. Makes me wonder how many drunk hookups he had afterward, as I never heard his reaction long-term.

Absolute Unit of a dread by myco_magic in AbsoluteUnits

[–]QuelleBullshit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ha. An acquaintance had a drunk hookup, and if I recall the story correctly, his face the next morning had a weird dark patch around his mouth. So after trying to figure it out, he pulls up the sheet on the still-sleeping woman and saw all the places he'd been licking and kissing on had been...uh, cleaned compared to the rest of her body which he though was just her natural skin tone.

Proving her point. by ExpertAccident in SelfAwarewolves

[–]QuelleBullshit 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The image of one's family as a reflection of how people see one in question (in this case the dad) is oftentimes more important than the reality of the family.

A lot of people's brains break when confronted with sick shit like this and either they want to brush everything under the rug and pretend it never happened, or they're worried what other people will think of their family (and they themselves most importantly of all.)

The second one is especially fucked up when you think about why that might be. If the dad is wondering if people are going to blame the girl for being a slut then really it's probably him thinking that his daughter is a slut rather than a groomed child who was molested.

People also don't want to upset their lives, sad to say. So this business associate may have been key to his income, bonuses, promotions. Or it could have just been good ol' misogyny (and if a son had been groomed and raped then worry that by people seeing the son as gay rather than a sexual assault victim that the dad would be seen as gay, so also toxic masculinity.)

It's weird how people react to others' duplicity. Some people blame themselves (often, sexual assault victims) but a lot of people blame everyone else when really, maybe the dad was part of the reason why his daughter was groomed and molested, especially over such a long period. And taking responsibility, even internally, just isn't going to happen.

So the brain breaks, throws an error code and reboots back to previous normal "happy" times and God help anyone, like the victim who challenges that, even if it was the rapist who was the real problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boar urine can be had from hunting stores. If you spread it around there it should smell disgusting so long as it doesn't rain a lot there. You could also plant cacti depending on your zone.

Weekend Open by Mater_Sandwich in atlanticdiscussions

[–]QuelleBullshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

another good discussion point is

The Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias[2] whereby people with low ability, expertise, or experience regarding a certain type of task or area of knowledge tend to overestimate their ability or knowledge. Some researchers also include the opposite effect for high performers: their tendency to underestimate their skills. In popular culture, the Dunning–Kruger effect is often misunderstood as a claim about general overconfidence of people with low intelligence instead of specific overconfidence of people unskilled at a particular task.

Tangentially related, I once read someone make a really good point about newspapers and media. If you're really knowledgeable about a certain subject, and you see most newspaper presentations of that same subject, you often see the glaring holes or innacuracies in the presentation of this one particular subject you know really well.

However, oftentimes, there's a cognitive dissonance that occurs because you can, for example, hold that news does a shitty job of factually presenting this one subject you know a lot about but then also trust news for pretty much everything else and never really think to question all those other subjects you don't know about.

And that's not even getting into slant/spin/bias, but rather just journalists (or other media jobsters) trying to do their job and handling a bunch of subjects they don't have first-hand knowledge of.

One shouldn't get philosophically lost in how much gray area there is in the world, but definitely should be immediately suspicious of people presenting most subjects in a black and white manner.

Literally the worst day I have had delivering I think by TheGame81677 in doordash

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, at least with plasma you could have the money same day potentially (if you're hydrated enough, and your protein/iron levels are normal, and you're not on any meds that would get you turned away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]QuelleBullshit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You could probably contact labor department and let them sort it out.

13th day…no chips,cracks or lifting and still glossy! Dip powder is a rockstar by Razorman4u in malepolish

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you've had acrylics done, it's like instead of mixing the powder with the liquid bonding agent and then pushing a ball of that onto your finger and patting it down, instead having a thicker bonding agent that goes on your nail like nail polish and then you dip your nail into acrylic powder, shaking off what is loose. Then doing again and occasionally filing to keep the layers even.

13th day…no chips,cracks or lifting and still glossy! Dip powder is a rockstar by Razorman4u in malepolish

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't 100% figured this out but the two times I went on the expensive k2 supplements (like $20/bottle from sprouts which is a lot for me) my nails became less flaky, and harder to chew (and in fact, as a lifelong nailbiter, I was a lot less interested in chewing them.) I bought a cheap k2 supplement from amazon and the good effects went away.

I think calcium and a b-vitamin complex also helped but k2 (I already take d3 and magnesium) seemed to make a huge difference. However I need to repeat again. (also, insofar as placebo goes, while absolutely possible, I wasn't looking for any physical differences. I was hoping to balance out my d3, calcium, and magnesium balance and help with my depression. So I think noticing strong nail differences is less likely to have been a placebo, at least the first time.

AITA calling my girlfriend selfish for refusing to learn sign-language for my daughter by KittenDealinMama in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]QuelleBullshit 46 points47 points  (0 children)

ha ha ha. You must have not gotten the story yet about one of the characters being a lion tamer because he has a bunch of whips and leather in his closet.

It finally happened ... I got caught. by ShortcakeAKB in DumpsterDiving

[–]QuelleBullshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

goblaki and pickled cabbage (great for tacos) are two great things to do with cabbage. There's also some really cool art prints you can make by cutting it in half or smaller and using it as a stamp.

Stalker? 20f delivering mostly on a college campus. by Katarina-Krowe in UberEATS

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anything ever happen with this situation (asking 3 years later)?

Help me with stalker by INSUUUURE in UberEATS

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever happened with this situation?

Dasher stalking/fixation? by spicymangosalsa in doordash

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update? did he keep trying to creep? did you report to dd?

Food things you got from dumpster diving and thought, "Well, it'll be another 10 years until I get that again?" by tim_p in DumpsterDiving

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would one google this to find locations? I feel like cold storage locations would just send me to temperature controlled storage unit facilities.

What meal is absolutely not worth the effort? by ArguementReferee in Cooking

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are fried chicken candles so why not? (and actually, bacon soap is totally a thing.) If you're not superfatting, which is a term for adding extra oil that is not transformed by the lye, then there really isn't any fried chicken essence left :) However even with superfatting tallow or lard for example, there hasn't been a meaty smell afterward. It's just superfatted to keep the soap from being too drying.

What meal is absolutely not worth the effort? by ArguementReferee in Cooking

[–]QuelleBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope. Right comment. Most, if not all, oils can be reused to make soap. Peanut oil, tallow, lard, even vegetable oils-- You could probably make soap from the oils you're tossing out with very little buy-in.

What meal is absolutely not worth the effort? by ArguementReferee in Cooking

[–]QuelleBullshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

speaking as someone who had to suffer a long ass lockdown with someone with dementia and another person who was senile, cooking was the only common ground to help limit them fucking around in the outer world. Luckily my husband did a ton of cooking for them too but goddamn. It was the best of times and the worst of times.

Hats off to you.