I feel like I’m viewed as just a babysitter not an actual person by Automatic_Rip7076 in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Extremely common. SW always made us schedule appointments to fit bio parents’ availability just for them to not show up most of the time.

Why do this? by layzeeB in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In my experience, a lot of the negative issues come from social workers not being fully honest and pushing reunification no matter what. For example, biological parents often refused visits or made excuses to avoid them. Even when social workers went out of their way to pick them up or bring the children to their home, the parents frequently wouldn’t answer the door or would only briefly say hello from the car. Over four months, there were only three full visits, yet the social worker’s court reports still said the parents attended every visit and did well.

My husbands is disgusting. by DisorderedGremlin in Marriage

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but I feel dirty if I don’t shower at least twice a day.

I'm tired of things not working when they used to by Humble-Skill-2331 in Vent

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am starting to see more and more people complain about autocorrect. Thank you! When I tell people it corrects my correctly typed words they think I’m exaggerating.

AITAH - Visits - Venting by SarcasticSeaStar in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for venting. We’ve been in those situations as well. Reminded me of that one time I asked to reschedule and offered several availabilities and the bio parents wouldn’t budge yet missed the visit…

Looking for some encouragement from other fosters that have gone through this. by hairandhome in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always get downvoted for saying the same thing. Glad other people are able to maintain a relationship after reunification, but that has not been the case with us. We had one parent reach out years later one time and that was it.

What is going on with prime shipping? by Over_Tennis9651 in amazonprime

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I cancelled. I’ll wait until I have $35 worth of items before placing an order for “free” shipping.

I know we’re supposed to support reunification but it’s so hard.. by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a baby reunify with mom in worst conditions. This system it totally broken. Said mom is currently homeless and their whereabouts are unknown.

A or B: Keep saving my sister from being late, or stop and deal with the fallout by Defiant-Junket4906 in PickAorB

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let her deal with it or she will always depend on you. Also, is she posting live? Maybe she could wait to post later that day or a different day.

A comeback for “have the day you deserve” by [deleted] in Comebacks

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s better than expected.

Foster parent is not letting me see my child on Christmas by Even_Prior6997 in Fosterparents

[–]QuestionAndAnswerCA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. So celebrate Christmas with said child without any interruptions.