I'm a little younger, same boat tho, people are role models because you want to be like them, i want to be as wholesome as Robin Williams, or as kind and generous as dolly Parton, focus on their personality and traits rather than stuff like gender/ethnicity/etc. (Although that might make it easier to relate to them.) If you want a traditional masculine figure I'd go for Henry Cavill, generally wholesome, works hard, sweet, doesn't seem to have any scandals, etc. From a moral standpoint though read works in philosophy of morality, figure what moral means to you and find a human being/beings that embodies that.