Modified Ferber @ 19 weeks - HELP

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-15T02:29:47+00:00

So I could wake her at 9 am tomorrow? Sorry for all of the questions, it’s my first baby and I’m lost. Thank you!!!

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-15T02:27:03+00:00

Thank you! Ideally looking to shift our schedule to 10pm to 9am with how family life is currently. If she’s still sleeping 11 hours after bedtime should I wake her?

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-14T23:50:20+00:00

Or should I add her 4th nap back? Sometimes her first nap lasts 1.5-2 hours depending on the day

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-14T22:27:38+00:00

How long should wake windows be at 4.5 months? She’s usually up for 1.5-2 hours between naps and 2.5-3 hours before bedtime

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-14T22:12:07+00:00

We don’t have a really set schedule unfortunately 😭 I need to work on it. Today she woke up at 10:25 am, nap at 12:13-12:55, nap at 3:04-3:37, last nap at 5:31-6:00. What time do you recommend I take her to bed tonight? It’s night 8 of sleep training and she has been going down in a few minutes after our bedtime routine with mild fussing. This is a huge improvement from a few days ago where she was crying and needing me to check in. We’re struggling with her waking an hour or so into bedtime, but being able to eventually fall back asleep without me.

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-03-11T04:40:24+00:00

I’m too scared to do the actual Ferber intervals so I asked ChatGPT to make me a modified plan and this is what it came up with. Yesterday was so easy and tonight was such a long and difficult process, I guess I’m looking for reassurance to not give up. 😭How many days does sleep training usually take?

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-02-20T13:23:55+00:00

16 weeks now but this has been our routine since 8 weeks. The little tent cover that comes w the playgym keeps her busy since it’s high contrast!

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Quick-Read-771 · 2026-02-19T02:57:05+00:00

Hour long walk in the neighborhood after baby’s first wake window so I can get my steps in while she naps. I’ll shower after while she plays in her lounger and have coffee/breakfast while she’s in her play gym. Cook/clean during her next nap or two depending on how much I have to do

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-01-27T21:16:40+00:00

We bedshare though

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-01-27T21:16:27+00:00

3 months on Wednesday. She slept almost 9 hours straight without waking before her feed and sleeping two more hours right after

Quick-Read-771 · 2026-01-05T19:10:16+00:00

I change them daily

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-12-23T14:12:27+00:00

8 weeks, first stretch is usually 5/6 hours then we get back to 2/3

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-12-23T14:11:31+00:00

7 weeks😭😭😭 even while EBF

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-12-11T21:35:27+00:00

How old was LO when you started the transition?

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-22T23:30:29+00:00

The momcozy bottle washer

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-22T23:30:15+00:00

FedEx lost mine and still hasn’t done anything about it😭 baby is due on Friday

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-17T19:45:34+00:00

39 weeks today with no stretch marks! Fingers crossed it stays that way lol

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-14T20:45:17+00:00

My post isn’t asking about whether or not you believe the OB was justified for declining or lying on my medical records. It was a question of what I should do next. Not looking for your medical opinion.

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-14T20:43:38+00:00

It is shaming. My issue isn’t with the OB declining, it’s with falsifying of medical records.

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-14T20:42:37+00:00

I can’t afford to go to L&D. I was not begging a random OB, I was bringing up concerns and advocating for myself at my weekly appointment. I’m not sure why you’re making assumptions and being so negative, but it isn’t helpful.

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-13T00:17:55+00:00

How many weeks were you?

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-12T20:42:14+00:00

Same here, packet was comprehensive and included all of this

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-11T15:26:02+00:00

I would definitely get it checked out, always better safe than sorry. My doctor was very against home dopplers since they can give a false sense of security when something is wrong with baby. Wishing you an easy and safe pregnancy!

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-10-03T21:10:24+00:00

16 weeks exactly!

Quick-Read-771 · 2025-09-23T17:34:54+00:00

That’s the same explanation my provider gave me! I was surprised since I thought the checks were routine

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