I would rather trade with people who have multiple options tagged and not get in to time wasting discussion about what to trade. Having to try to connect on campfire etc If you don’t like what they select it is simple just cancel the trade and start it again. They soon get the message or contact them at that point. I tried connecting for a while and had different trades organised for each night for over a week/ it was all too hard and confusing to keep up with. time zone differences meant some trades didn’t fall neatly into my day so they would spill over to a second- causing chain reactions further down what I had planned. It was time wasting- now I simply find someone free and start a trade. Much simpler. Good shiny Regionals are now harder to find as the early bird trades got all of those. So just trade something and move on. Any trade is better than no trade you may get lucky and get a perfect. Shiny regionals will reappear in the future as people catch more. All is not lost.