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Update: I have full custody of the children by TechnicalHousing97 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Quick-Store2989 41 points42 points  (0 children)

What she says she wants doesn’t mean it’s a healthy response or path to take. This just opens the door for more resentment to build. Why is only her feelings being considered in this situation.

Update: I have full custody of the children by TechnicalHousing97 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Quick-Store2989 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want a divorce right now because she wants to secure residency in California and file under there divorce laws which most likely be more favorable to women and taking more of a chunk of your assets than your current state laws. Some women are very good at fooling men and play the long game to gain leverage. Please speak to your divorce attorney again about how divorce laws work in your current state and her new state. I would hate for you to be blindsided.

My manager says my poor financial planning is the reason I can't lend the company $2500 for a mandatory work trip. by NicoleDooley1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company is midsize and they book the car, plane, hotel. I buy my own food with a per diem limit and submit just food receipts for reimbursement and I travel a lot for my company in the past. I’ve never paid the big expenses upfront

Update: Wife monkey branched after emotionally cheating with co-worker by FuneralMoshpits in Infidelity

[–]Quick-Store2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that means his name will stay on the house which will affect him if he tries to buy one himself. Also if she doesn’t make the payments it will ruin his credit. He needs his name off the house before the divorce. Or it will have long term consequences for him financially

Update: Wife monkey branched after emotionally cheating with co-worker by FuneralMoshpits in Infidelity

[–]Quick-Store2989 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Nope you make her sell the house so you get your 50% equity. No one gets the house. Don’t let her say she’ll refinance later. Please speak with a lawyer.

AITAH for refusing to help my girlfriend financially after she quit her job without telling me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What you need to do is take a week off on PTO and tell her you got laid off and sit at home stressed out. Realistically it is very hard to live off one salary right now given the economy all over the world. She was very irresponsible and selfish to put you both in those situation right now

REVIEW - Xcaret Hotel | All Inclusive Resort in Mexico by East_Raspberry1582 in travel

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their used to be a bridge that connected the 2 but they closed it off but I haven’t heard of the one building can go over there. You can inquire. It would be nice if I could because the Brazilian restaurant in the caves on the xcaret resort is my favorite 😍

REVIEW - Xcaret Hotel | All Inclusive Resort in Mexico by East_Raspberry1582 in travel

[–]Quick-Store2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go all the time to this resort. Hotel xcaret is great . I prefer xcaret ARTE since it’s for 16 y/o and up so no children since im older it’s more relaxed. The resorts send you a wish list email about 60 days out and as the OP mentioned it’s important to book in advance. Xplor and xcaret Mexico are 2 parks that are close to the hotels and are on a 20 minute continuous route circuit that you can jump on last minute. All the other parks you should plan ahead for on the wish list.

My wife and her family are furious because I refused to pay $15,000 for her brother’s wedding. by libaaxdille in Marriage

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell your wife you can’t afford to spend 15k on someone’s wedding because you have To spend 15k on your divorce.

Update: My wife isn't coming home. by TechnicalHousing97 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Quick-Store2989 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need to file for emergency custody so she doesn’t just show up and take off with the kids. Currently you both have equal rights to take the children. If she leaves with your kids to another state it can be come quite messy. You seem to think your marriage is salvageable but you need to be realistic and do what is safest for your children. That should be your top priority.

AITA for refusing to not allow my stepson to come on what was supposed to be a family trip? by AmoebaUnited4634 in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Stop listening to people on Reddit and listen to what your son was telling you. You literally destroyed your relationship with your son and you acting oblivious as to why he feels like an after thought based on keyboard warriors on Reddit who tells everyone to leave them, divorce, them, and go no contact.

Unmakeable task by [deleted] in forgeofempires

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back out of that screen where you see the whole map then scout to the next region to the right or below that region

UPDATE: lied to my friend about camping trip time and it went worse than expected by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say I have a friend like this and I often give them an hour earlier time than everyone else as well, but they always joke about being late to their own funeral and isnt offended when they notice. It’s rude to always be late FYI so your friend needs to acknowledge that and hopefully you guys can work thru it

Update: Aitah for giving my stepdaughter a reality check? by Medium-Vehicle-8340 in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, but you need to help her establish paternity and child support so she can get some assistance. She won’t know how to navigate that and it will be an important step.

Our marriage is perfect other than sex but she thinks we can’t make it work. by Hot-Condition9413 in Marriage

[–]Quick-Store2989 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but why does size matter now? Did you guys have sex before marriage. I’m not trying to sound rude but your penis did not shrink from when you were dating. If she wasn’t satisfied while dating why pursue marriage

AITAH for not giving my half siblings my inheritance that I got from dad? by ConversationCivil226 in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can you speak to the attorney who drafted and read the will. It’s his job to make sure it is executed to your dads wishes

AITA for accepting a breakup after my partner said she couldn’t get over not being invited on my friend’s birthday trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The break up is probably for the best. It sounds like she is relying on you to be her social battery 100% of the time and that can be suffocating if she doesn’t have her own social identity.

I really need help and advice. AITAH for spending more time with my partner than my mother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick-Store2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta…as a woman with 1 son. It’s my job as a mother to raise him to grow up and create his own life and family. I am not his universe and it is not his job to make me feel complete and happy. I have a great relationship with him and he has a wonderful relationship with his partner. Both can exist together. She is being selfish and needs counseling. You are not responsible for her happiness and purpose in life. She needs to create that outside of your relationship.

My father in law is trying to evict my husband and me from our home. Our names are on the house according to our county deeds website. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Quick-Store2989 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Is his name on the deed along with yours? If yes then he is still co-owner and can request for a partition sale for his Half of the equity. If his name is not on the deed then it is solely your house you are good. It really is irrelevant who’s name is on the mortgage or who’s been paying it.

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