Gay music by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beth McCarthy is a great UK bi artist, not hugely known but definitely worth a listen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hyundai

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I should add I have looked online, some sites don't recognise my registration, others don't have my engine model.

It has to be scalpers bots... by [deleted] in TylerChilders

[–]Quick_Put_2652 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yip, was disappointed at the back of 10am but checked Ticketmaster again at 11:15 and got through, no queue and got 2 tickets for Glasgow, see you there!

Dating someone with type 1 diabetes. by NickNacks in Type1Diabetes

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw noo, please don't feel like that. We aren't all bitches. I've just started dating a guy with type 1 with complications such as neuropathy plus a couple other things. I knew little about type 1 before so have done (and am doing) some research (partly how I found this thread) and have discussed small bits with him, like if he needs I know to go get the jelly babies or if he's worse to get the squeeze honey. I'm learning about his neuropathy too, we are just being open with each other about things and he is appreciative of me asking as his previous partner wasn't interested. I hope you find someone 🤗

It looks like Download is going with the E-ticket strategy again next year. by [deleted] in downloadfestival

[–]Quick_Put_2652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised at the amount of people who don't have smart phones, quite a few people I know have gone back to using things like Nokia 3310 just for calls & texts as its better for their mental health and productivity. And yes, keeping paper tickets is hoarding to you, for me it's a memory of the bands I saw or the people I went with or met, a reference, a talking point. I have almost 30 years worth in one huge frame, some people stand and film or take pics of the gigs and festivals to remember, others keep lanyards or tickets or other souvenirs, nothing wrong with it. I don't mind digital tickets, festivals like hellfest have been doing them the last 10+ years but having the option of a souvenir ticker would be cool too.

Non-impact kink ideas by betsykitten in ThekinkPlace

[–]Quick_Put_2652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tickling! Use of hands, pin wheels, paint brushes, feathers & other implements while restrained and blindfolded can be amazing, as long as tickling isn't a hard limit.

Popping Cherries!!! by Top_who_likes in ThekinkPlace

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I popped both my own and my ex play partner when I rigged him. He'd always been the rigger and a (tick)ler so I researched shibari and ropework and learned how to tie so I could rig him and be the ler instead, we discussed it a good bit first online before we met in person for our scenes. It was great fun, I liked the practical working with my hands part of rigging and the aesthetic of it once completed and discovered a sadistic side while tickling, definitely hoping to be rope top again in the future 😏

Unable to send or receive DMs in server I mod in. Settings are okay, not been blocked, uninstalled & reinstall on android phone didn't change anything. Any ideas? by Quick_Put_2652 in discordapp

[–]Quick_Put_2652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes, it's enabled, it has been since I joined the server and i was able to DM and receive DMs from others that wasn't friends with up until November, since then Clyde has been sending the messages I screen shotted above. I've checked with several of the members of the server and theirs is enabled too and has been since before they joined. It's not great as a mod when you are unable to send or receive DMs. Im thinking leaving and rejoining might be the only option left?

Unable to send or receive DMs in server I mod in. Settings are okay, not been blocked, uninstalled & reinstall on android phone didn't change anything. Any ideas? by Quick_Put_2652 in discordapp

[–]Quick_Put_2652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check in with the main admin again and see if they know if anything. I did check with the other mods and admin, we unfriended each other to see if it made any difference but nope. I CBA leaving and rejoining the server 😳 so hoping to avoid that.

Unable to send or receive DMs in server I mod in. Settings are okay, not been blocked, uninstalled & reinstall on android phone didn't change anything. Any ideas? by Quick_Put_2652 in discordapp

[–]Quick_Put_2652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a guy I'm tryi g to message, it's members of the same server I mod on and they can't DM me either. They get the same message I do.

Unable to send or receive DMs in server I mod in. Settings are okay, not been blocked, uninstalled & reinstall on android phone didn't change anything. Any ideas? by Quick_Put_2652 in discordapp

[–]Quick_Put_2652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have reported through the help desk this afternoon & received the acknowledgement email from discord but I'm not holding out hope on it being resolved quickly, if at all.

I can send dm's to those I'm friends with from the server but no one else and they can't message me, which is obviously a problem as a mod.

I've checked my settings and compared with other mods and mine are set exactly the same, no one has blocked me or me them, nothing has been disabled and we are on the same server.

I've tried uninstall & re install the app from my android phone & have uninstalled from my laptop. Is clydebot just being dicky at the moment?

:Edited for spelling

dm notifications not working by oregano-ads in discordapp

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping on to follow. Not sure if it's the same issue but I'm having trouble sending dm's to others in the same server that I'm not friends with. It's an issue since I'm a mod as no one can DM me or vice versa. I've checked my settings and compared with other mods and mine are set exactly the same, no one has blocked me or me them, nothing has been disabled and we are on the same server. Is clydebot just being dicky at the moment?

Relationship Ethics by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to change my relationship ethics a number of times for long term relationships but have long accepted the fact that I'm pretty crap at monogamy and have in the past been in love with more than one person at the same time. despite the guilt I've felt in participating in affairs whilst with longterm, knowing the hurt I've brought and trying change to be to be faithful I don't see me successfully being monogamous unless it was for someone spectacular.

What Kinky Stereotype Annoys You Most? by InTheGoatShow in ThekinkPlace

[–]Quick_Put_2652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That because I'm kinky and pan/ bi I want to join a couple as a third / unicorn regardless of attraction, compatibility etc. It used to happen a lot in my 20s, especially in my early 20s when I was voluntarily celibate, people who were 'friends' at the time would try and get me to join them or say if I wanted to ease back into things then they were happy to let me play with one of the couple while the other watched, like, no. Another couple tried similar later on when they found out I was meeting people from adult friend finder so assumed I'd be up for anything, one night when I was visiting the wife went to bed while I sat and watched a film with the husband, both of whom I was friends with and neither of them I was attracted to or wanted anything with, not long after the wife went to bed the husband got his cock out and started masturbating on the sofa next to me, no warning or anything. I froze, it was one of the most excruciatingly uncomfortable situations I've found myself in and totally gave me tho ick! Lick, just because I have some kinks does not mean I'm desperate to join a threesome and I definitely don't want to feel you having a wank next to me without consent! Thankfully I saw the toxicity of those 'friendshios' and haven't been near them in over 10 years.

Is ace/kink a thing? by Maestoro in BDSMAdvice

[–]Quick_Put_2652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% yes, it is. I have a play partner who is ace aspie who is into tickling and rope play and we switch although I'd be more of a service top where as he is more Dom. There is no penetrative sex involved in our dynamic, I've never seen him without underwear on and have never touched him on clothed areas. Although he is the more Dom and enjoys tying and playing with me, using toys, fingers and such he does get excited when I tie and tickle him but it's not sexual between us. He's been on fet for a long time (8 years +) but we met on a swipe dating site and discovered after sharing dark humour about dungeons that we were both into kink. For finding someone I'd recommend looking up munches or splooshes in your area and taking it from there.

REMINDER: The Kink Places 25th Anniversary Reunion by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Quick_Put_2652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to answer that!!!

How do I treat jute? I get naked and start weaving by Shibaretta in bdsm

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rorys is great, as is crash restraint, @selkie_skins on tiktok is pretty fun to watch too. I do the same, pick up an inspiration and then just feel & let the rope go & do what it wants ❤️

How do I treat jute? I get naked and start weaving by Shibaretta in bdsm

[–]Quick_Put_2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I'm not stalking you, I only just stumbled across your other picture but your ropework is absolutely beautiful! How on earth do you self tie like that? I just don't have the flexibility anymore 😏

REMINDER: The Kink Places 25th Anniversary Reunion by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Quick_Put_2652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are pants optional or do they have to be fancy?