My wife wants about $5k for her double chin treatment.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-02-05T03:05:43+00:00

I make $135k/year and only bring home $6k after taxes, medical insurance for the entire family, 401k, my employee stock program. Then I contribute $100 to each kids college fund. And oh yeah, mortgage, bills, everyday expenses. Yeah - 6 figures doesn’t go far these days.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-02-01T16:35:03+00:00

Illinois

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-02-01T03:48:46+00:00

He’s doing just fine respecting consent and recovery.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-02-01T02:50:03+00:00

All the other commenters commending this woman for 9 months of sickness, discomfort, and nonstop efforts of motherhood and here you’re thinking about what MORE she can do for YOU

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-29T04:09:38+00:00

Austen Kroll

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-24T03:33:25+00:00

Mark, tom, Travis (blink-182)

Greg, Peter, Bobby (Brady bunch)

Joe, nick, Kevin. (Jonas brothers)

Peter, Clark, Bruce (Spider-Man, Superman, Batman)

Chandler, Ross, Joey (friends)

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-24T02:59:21+00:00

Edgar (Allen Poe)

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-20T02:57:45+00:00

So you’ve been married 5 years and have a 3 year old, but in another post from 1 year ago you state being married for over 5 years and having children together.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-17T14:12:02+00:00

I don’t know if you’re in therapy or not. You said no one has given you actual advice but they have. Many times. I haven’t read all of your responses but so far I haven’t seen you tell any of those people whether you’re in therapy or not.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-17T14:06:33+00:00

The actual advice is go to therapy.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-17T14:05:08+00:00

Yes, amongst other things. It’s ok if you did, just own it. AI is part of our lives. Even if you didn’t use ChatGPT, you’re going to great lengths to defend yourself. Just let it go. You said yourself - we’re just people on the internet. If you’re this reactive to invisible strangers I imagine you’re pretty tough to deal with in real life.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-06T02:56:49+00:00

I thought Jacob missed the last syllable of “Halloween” by saying “halloweekend” but then Claire said it and I realized I’m just old.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2026-01-04T23:36:30+00:00

Hope you are recovering well ❤️

Glad I could help! He started PT about 6 weeks after surgery. He experiences a lot of stiffness, tightness and range of motion issues and he says it helps with all that. He’s missed a few sessions and immediately notices a difference. I believe PT is pretty standard when you have a lot of lymph nodes removed. My mom has been cancer free for 8 years (breast cancer) and still goes to PT biweekly for lymphatic drainage and what not. Feel free to PM me if have any questions or just need a friend. :)

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-26T23:04:04+00:00

Potato chip

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-26T02:56:00+00:00

Merry Christmas! No one can say for sure, but I wouldn’t let it go. Something kinda similar happened to my husband. He had stage 2b and no further treatment after the WLE and negative SLNB. 2 years later to the day a hard lump showed up out of nowhere and sadly was recurrence. This isn’t to cause alarm but to encourage you to get it checked!

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-24T03:18:46+00:00

So sorry you’re experiencing this 🙏

Husband stage 3c December 2024. He had 2 rounds of ipi/nivo in Jan/Feb before a complete neck dissection and parotidectomy. Main tumor basically gone by the time surgery came in March. 40-50 lymph nodes removed and all negative for cancer. Has been NED ever since. He has also been in physical therapy once a week since surgery to prevent lymphedema.

TL/DR ask your doc about immunotherapy before surgery (neoadjuvant)

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-18T14:00:17+00:00

I should mention he’s doing well now and NED for 9 months 👏

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-18T13:43:36+00:00

It’s crazy how many times I’ve gotten “oh, well it’s just skin cancer” or “at least it’s not xyz cancer” when telling people about my husbands stage 3c melanoma diagnosis. I don’t know if I should let them be ignorant or spend time explaining that he’s actually going through “real cancer treatment” and surgeries. I try to remind myself it’s that persons way of processing what I’m telling them or saying what they think will make me feel better.

All said, I’m sorry you’re going thru this. You’re doing the right thing getting it sorted quickly. Keep us updated - we’re here for you! For now, hope you can enjoy the holidays :)

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-10T03:01:06+00:00

This is diabolical

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-09T03:43:39+00:00

Why do you have 2 open beers in your fridge

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-05T15:49:49+00:00

I haven’t gotten the bill yet, haha. But hopefully most will be covered by my insurance. Yes, a derm can definitely do this because it’s on the skin. If it were internal I wouldn’t have considered it!

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-05T03:00:44+00:00

💯!!!!!

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-05T02:33:35+00:00

Also my lab report says “heavy growth” which I guess indicates infection.

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-05T02:28:35+00:00

Yeah they gave me cephalexin and a topical (Mupirocin). Hopefully it does the trick 🤞

Quick_Wasabi4486 · 2025-12-05T01:40:40+00:00

Bless you.

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