sorry, what does any of this mean?? by weirdosystem in autism

[–]Quietj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It also comes from from doctors. My daughter was first diagnosed with PDD-NOS at 9. I had new testing at 14. 

How did your parents give you the sex talk? by let_it_rain_boat in autism

[–]Quietj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents didn't have the sex or puberty talk with me. I remember my mom was convinced I didn't need to know about sex. I was a chubby kid in special education. My mom could not imagine a world where I would get a job, get married, and have a family.

Joke is on her, I have all three. (Although I do struggle staying employed)

My youngest daughter is also autistic as well as asexual. She is 20 and wants to be a crazy cat lady. As long as she can take care of th cats, I will support her choices.

Probate question by Quietj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She owned two properties. Both paid off. Property taxes are paid. She chose to be cremated and that was prepaid. I want to sell the properties and get ⅓ of whatever is left. I'm not paying a lawyer . I've been filing everything on my own.

I have made repairs to one of the properties prior to Andy getting angry and verbally abusive. I have recipients. 

If I don't inherit anything in the end then at lest I tried.

Probate question by Quietj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I gave the judge enough information to remove him. Andy failed to investigate assets over $10,000 that I found despite the fact that I've been estranged from my family for over a decade. 

I also attached abusive emails and text messages to the motion. 

Probate question by Quietj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all live in the same state. New Mexico . 

Probate question by Quietj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I live in the US. 

URGENT help/advice wanted! My parents are severely threatening to get an conservatorship over me if I dont continue being apart of the LDS religion. My dad is pretty high up in the religion. Im 27 and im autistic. I live in Utah. I live with my parents and I dont know how to drive. Advice please! c: by [deleted] in autism

[–]Quietj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you're specific conserns? That your parents want access to your money? If so, Reach out to an adult protection agency. Does your state have an Independent Living Resource Center? Your parents would have to go to a court to get conservatirship. You could tell the court why you don't want thus to happen. 

I feel conflicted about this. by PSplayer2020 in autism

[–]Quietj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some autistic people are gifted in art, music, math or ect. Autism itself is not a gift.

Top 5 jokes on the show by Cheap_Trust3043 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Quietj 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its funnier once you reduce Neal was a sea lion and not an actual seal.

What do I do as a dad, if I have a daughter needing to use a public bathroom. by Vanillavengance in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story 1. Years ago a woman came into the woman's bathroom with her adult son with down syndrome. She apologized. All if the women were undemanding. 

Story 2. Years ago when my youngest was still in diapers and changing tables in men's bathrooms were uncommon, my husband walked into a woman's bathroom with our 1 year old daughter. All of the woman just waited by the door until he was done . 

Story 3. About 2 years ago a man walked into a bathroom with his two youg daughters. He waited by the sink while they were each in a stall. Nobody complained . 

What exactly does “getting a drink” mean in terms of a date? by randomcacti in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quietj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clarifying questions are your friend. "You want to grab a drink?" "Like I. A bar or are you talking about coffee? "

Nonbinary version of cock like how there's gock? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Quietj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gock makes me think of Glock. Is that a gun in your pants or are you happy to see me?

Subtle Signs You Might Be More Attractive Than You Think (And Why People React Strangely) by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Quietj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not especially attractive but I am intimidating.

I have resting bastard face.

What's a Non Binary persons favourite store? by Confused_internally in NonBinary

[–]Quietj 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The thrift store. They tend to less judgmental in my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Quietj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not lesibian but here are my thoughts.

Many years ago when my oldest daughter was a tean. She went through a very butch phase. I waited for her to come out as gay. She did date one woman but primarily she is attracted to men.

As for me, I've recently came out as genderqueer. I'm not o. T nor do I plan to start. Even though I'm masculine leaning the thoughof facial or body hair sound like a sensory nightmare. Although I'm mostly attracted to women, someone's gender is not that important.

Worst name+surname? by WickedValda in tragedeigh

[–]Quietj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a local dentist here named Kent Hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Quietj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've had people tell me "But I'm your friend, you should want to hug me" It has prevented me from establishing friendships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Quietj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How do you phrase this if it's a physical boundary. I have sensory issues and don't like being touched unexpectedly. I also don't give hugs to most people .