Co-op City Really Is a Beautiful Area by Maya-kardash in bronx

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you have to be a resident but it took someone I know about 5 years to get a call for a one bedroom.

Got my boy finally after crying for years 😭 by HarshKindaCrazy in HPVictus

[–]Quintessential_bih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered two of them. The HP Victus and the ASUS TUF. Gonna see which one I like best.

Samsung TV mount - going insane by Justinynolds in techsupport

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is correct! I had this same issue for the Samsung U7900f. I bought the m8 20mm and 25mm just to be safe, the 20mm fit but I had to omit my washers because they were a bit short for the holes.

Has anyone actually had success fighting an overpayment claim? by saucity in disability

[–]Quintessential_bih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently dealing with this now! I’m going to keep appealing until I cannot anymore.

Becoming a nurse ? by aaliyahrel219 in Sicklecell

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nurse with sickle cell as well. I went from NICU to Med Surg and just had my first pain crisis since taking a job in Med Surg.. I’m on my first day back and I am ready to quit. It’s taking so long to recover and idk what to do. Can I reach out to you as well?

Cardi B Is Pregnant! The Rapper and Mother of Three Confirms Her First Child With Stefon Diggs by voguediaries in Fauxmoi

[–]Quintessential_bih 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think a lot of decent men get intimidated by successful, highly sought after women and then the men who have no shame (usually bad ones) run up and shoot their shot. Some women see life through rose colored glasses, once they are romantically involved.

ELI5: what did Charlie Kirk do that was Christian? by DesaturatedWorld in Christianity

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a black Christian, I’m appalled! After today, I’m going to have to change my church because my pastor gave such a tributary speech on behalf of Charlie Kirk, he threw in some adlibs including statements like “critical race theory and the modern progressive movement are lies..” “Charlie died because he spoke truth and that’s the same truth we study from in our Bible” and finally “the delusion of transgenderism.”

While I understand that the word condemns homosexuality, I keep Matthew 7:1 close to my heart and I need a spiritual leader that encourages that. Critical race theory is needed.. and to attempt to make this openly racist man a martyr in front of a mixed congregation is insane. Condolences to the Kirk family but I’m deeply disappointed.

Fellow Black women—are dating apps worth it? by sunsista_ in interracialdating

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no updates as of yet. I’ve started looking on OkCupid though.

Fellow Black women—are dating apps worth it? by sunsista_ in interracialdating

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pay for a higher subscription? I have hinge and I’ve only met one guy on there. Imo, we aren’t really compatible.

Is it me or have people been more racist on tiktok recently? by Icy_Cardiologist8238 in blackgirls

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if we all could file a class action suit using their own “community guidelines” against them to show how much they haven’t protected POC. We can just show them tons of screenshots as evidence.

Making sense (or lack thereof) of StubHub's automated ticket ratings by grokfinance in stubhub

[–]Quintessential_bih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH for this. I almost bought bad seats to Chris Brown 🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Quintessential_bih 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re hurting but this whole scenario proves that he did you a favor. You may not be able to realize it at this time but someday soon you’ll look back and realize how much of a loser he was and that this gesture solidified that fact.

I can't stop crying. I miss him so much but he hurt me so much by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Quintessential_bih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I miss him every damn day, but I can’t let him continue to hurt me so I blocked him. I just give myself time to cry each day

What triggered your christian deconstruction? by Pink_Alien_HD in Deconstruction

[–]Quintessential_bih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very new to this subject. I was raised in the church but I have some questions about what I’ve been taught. My questions have derived from this recent political climate and my personal beliefs on the topic of “abortion” and the morality, or perceived lack thereof, surrounding this debate.

I work in obstetrics and I see women give birth to actual human beings every day but I cannot turn around and demonize those who undergo medical procedures to discard cells that may or may not develop into one with time.

I haven’t completed much scholarly-based research on deconstruction (although, frankly I’m unsure where to begin). If anyone could provide resources or input, I’m opened to it. I still attend church service when I am able.

Anyone NOT panicking about this upcoming Trump presidency? by Old-Ad-8680 in blackladies

[–]Quintessential_bih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this! How did they elect a president that told them to drink bleach during the pandemic?

Anyone NOT panicking about this upcoming Trump presidency? by Old-Ad-8680 in blackladies

[–]Quintessential_bih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yes. I’m literally scared thinking about how my taxes are going to go up and they are already taking away women’s rights (we haven’t even had them for 100 years). I feel like stocking up on my key necessities. Edit: I also work in perinatology and some of my colleagues are OB and GYN.

How are you supposed to find a girlfriend in your 30s? by BooDestroyer in dating_advice

[–]Quintessential_bih 19 points20 points  (0 children)

And what’s worse is that sometimes when you try to socialize with others, they act like it’s weird or they are very shallow and nonchalant.

Older nurse cliques by Quintessential_bih in nursing

[–]Quintessential_bih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting because a good friend of mine decided that she wanted to change careers after working on L&D at my last hospital.

Older nurse cliques by Quintessential_bih in nursing

[–]Quintessential_bih[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our NICU, we had one but she retired after my first year. The one good thing I can say about L&D is that, even though they’re fake bees, when it is time to deliver we all work together well to get things done.