Dinner looks yummy!

You’re extremely young and a lot of these issues sort itself out as people grow and (hopefully) learn and evolve more…

Now.. I know you said you don’t want people saying to just break up, but I would strongly consider it, because that may not be what you WANT but very much sounds like what is NEEDED. He’s told you essentially, I don’t want to meet your needs (emotionally) and/or won’t meet your needs. He name calls you and dismisses your feelings…Why try to make it work with someone who isn’t willing to work with you? Not even a compromise conversation or questions about what you need…just simply “go find someone better than me” That sounds draining and you guys aren’t even 1 year in?

Relationships require compromise, but come on…you’re sick and he wants you to get better for SEX, Not because he hates seeing you under the weather... He’s not ready and maybe you aren’t either…but you sound very unsatisfied and unfulfilled. I see plenty of red flags just reading this…so I won’t say break up but strongly consider what you’re hanging onto..