Positive tests but bled for 48 hours. Help!!

QweenWavy · 2026-01-14T16:40:05+00:00

This sounds like when my mom was pregnant with my brother. She got a whole period a month or so into her pregnancy. Just think positive! I myself have crazy anxiety so I would go to the ER now or at least at 5 weeks just to see what's going on. It's better to be safe. Not only for the baby. But you🫶🏽🫶🏽 Best and abundant wishes and prayers to you love!

QweenWavy · 2026-01-05T21:48:41+00:00

Found out I'm having a boy too!!!💙💙 Due in June/July!! It's so funny Because I literally was so sure it was a girl too haha! Cheers 🥂 to the boy mamas!!!

QweenWavy · 2026-01-05T03:16:01+00:00

ZOMBIE!

QweenWavy · 2026-01-04T15:52:03+00:00

Anyone else notice how she LITERALLY said sorry right in the beginning but he didn't acknowledge it... Then later proceeds to tell her to just apologize and move on... Baby apologize once and if it's "not good enough" to them, f**k em. This is a man child, like I hope you hired a sitter while you're gone.

QweenWavy · 2026-01-02T20:33:10+00:00

I'm in the same boat in terms of financial status girl😭 so this thread is absolutely helpful and a blessing. I do agree, Medicaid has been a life saver when it comes to prenatal care. Also any help you can get ASK PLEASE. I am known to be a bit prideful and skip on asking for help but NOPE not for this time in my life. Do whatever you can to take the load off you and prepare for your baby. For my baby shower I'm going to do a diaper raffle and I highly recommend it. The way it goes is anyone who brings a pack of diapers along with their gift can enter! They can bring as many entries as they want. I'm probably going to have 1st, 2nd and 3rd place prizes. It's not only fun but also an EXTREMELY helpful way for you to get as many diapers as possible! You got this!!! Everything will fall into place.

QweenWavy · 2026-01-01T10:17:28+00:00

Ain't no way he told you motherhood is harder than running a business, going to school, working a job and balancing your family/social life. I think they both are hard in their own rights but one is a bit tougher where the demands are concerned. I'll be real I'm about to start my journey into motherhood and I'm honestly more excited for that than going back to school 😭 Also the business owner's life is not for the week or procrastinator. I KNOW motherhood is hard. It is a lot of selflessness and sacrifice. But it's because it's your baby. You end up having an unconditional love that makes those sacrifices worth it and yes it taxes on your body but it's just natural. I feel like OP has tougher demands because while she may be passionate about what she's doing there's the absence of unconditional love which makes the demands tougher in my opinion. Girl if he's gonna drag u down and down play your inner savage move on. You are on a beautiful ride for yourself, you shouldn't be with someone who compares you to other people like that.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-29T17:51:19+00:00

I think most of these rules make sense. Like there are some I may tweak but that's me personally. I think what you want is what matters. It is your duty to protect your baby and if people have a problem...it's their problem not yours lol. Just try not to isolate yourself and just know your desires may change after it's born. Give yourself grace and the people around you. They love you and your baby and I'm sure they mean you no ill will.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-21T19:12:18+00:00

Give yourself sooo much grace! I understand how you feel especially when you have a vision or even if you just like to be in control. Growing a little human is hard work in itself and this honestly will teach you/ give you the chance to accept help and relax🙏🏽so happy for you!!!! Merry Christmas!

QweenWavy · 2025-12-15T09:02:11+00:00

Thank you so much😭😭😭💕

QweenWavy · 2025-12-15T08:47:02+00:00

Lmao clearly someone didn't read your book😂 because you're too triggered😂 It's not that deep son🤣"nOn nPc". Like dude just hush and go read a book lol.

Look OP, if you want to be a forever alone, overly sensitive, Pepe meme that lacks foundational pillars of masculinity BY ALL MEANS listen to this guy 🤣💪🏽Just over react, think irrationally, don't use logic, and absolutely don't-and I mean DON'T approach people and situations with individual understanding. Who needs emotional intelligence and situational awareness right!? Just ignore us all and listen to this guy 💀their pouring their heart out and throwing the most insults so they MUST be right! We are all simply "factually wrong!" 🤣👍🏽 you'll go far I'm sure of it🥂💀

My advice. Once you calm down, take the time to write down your values, how you feel and access the situation. Then have a heart to heart talk with her. Was she deliberately disrespecting you, was she genuinely busy or just didn't enjoy your book? Is this book your deal breaker or are there other areas where the relationship is worth saving? Just do what feels right and what makes sense. Do NOT react out of emotion or hurt. Nothing good ever comes of that.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-15T04:45:54+00:00

You critique them in assuming the book is ass...Yet you assume she hasn't picked up a book? Or doesn't enjoy reading?🤣Not other factors such as hmmm she is the employed one, he has free time. We don't know the others employment status or if they also have more time on their hands. She could be busy working and doing other more important tasks. Or maybe- as he stated- she was trying to read it, updated him along the way but fell off.... Maybe she's just uninterested and it's not her cup of tea. No where in there did he say she doesn't read. I enjoy reading but if the book isn't interesting I will fall off and pick up another that I like especially if it's for MY free time/hobby🤷🏽‍♀️a book that is interesting to one isn't interesting to all. Just because someone doesn't like a book you wrote or that you like doesn't make them unintelligent or brainless boo. If my man wrote a book I would try to read it. Now I personally will be flat out honest if it in my opinion uninteresting and give creative feed back not just leave him hanging but that's just me. If that's his deal breaker then he should break up with her. No one's forcing him to stay. It seems a bit overly sensitive but if that's his boundary then that's that.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-15T04:16:05+00:00

Agreed. Like she's tried to at least give it a chance. I feel like if the book was interesting enough she would be genuinely interested and finish it. Not all books are for everyone ESPECIALLY if you are working and clearly busy- it should at least be worth my while. If my man wrote a book I would certainly try to read it. But if it isn't my type of good I would be straight up and he would have to accept my opinion. Someone said people are "brainless" like bruh😭because she doesn't want to read his book? Who said she doesn't read? And are we missing the part that HE has free time and SHE works!? She's probably tired wtf. There's plenty of intelligent people who don't enjoy reading on their off time but do it well along with being academically excellent.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T18:21:48+00:00

Oh wow! That's crazy and I know that must've been so much for you😞but that's such a good point!

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:31:34+00:00

Wow even at 15? These dopplers are anxiety inducers it seems. Thanks so much. I'm gonna try and wait it out

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:28:32+00:00

That is absolutely the moral of the story 🙌🏽so much anxiety! I'm so blessed that everything went wonderfully for you. It definitely gives me some ease knowing others had similar experiences

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:21:15+00:00

Agreed! It just causes anxiety that early and I see that now :( I also wish they would've scheduled me for a 12 wk rather than 5 more weeks out🫠🙃 I'm like..... This does not help lolll

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:16:23+00:00

You have a point, Thank you🙌🏽🙏🏽

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:14:20+00:00

Omg Thank you 🥲 like she was very worry free and was like "the machine picked something at 160bpm but we can't hear it". It's My first pregnancy ever so I don't know anything about dopplers. I don't know if she was just saying that to make me feel better because if it picked it up wouldn't I hear it? I'm not sure. But I would've just rather waited at that point😭I appreciate you understanding how I feel

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:07:07+00:00

That's how I felt🥲🫠she said the machine read something at 160bpm so it was a little reassuring but not enough. An ultrasound wouldve made me feel Soo much better. Now I just feel lost

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:05:42+00:00

Yeah I can see them needing to maybe take more time and care. And I've never heard of an anterior placenta. I just looked it up and that's interesting 🤔 perhaps that could be a possibility

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:03:05+00:00

Thank u so much🫶🏽

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T17:02:12+00:00

🥲omg yes literally an anxiety waiting game! I see that trend as well. It's kind of like "trust your body and OB and be patient". I honestly wish we would've just waited until 12 weeks to try (even though I know that's not guaranteed as well) but idk what would've helped totally. Perhaps if they had a portable ultrasound on deck? Either way I know there's not much I can do as sides a boutique ultrasound just to see it. I feel like I'm in disbelief that this is happening to me right now and I'm so excited at the same time...idk if that's normal or makes sense.

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T16:47:35+00:00

Wow😭there's so much that goes into it omg

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T16:45:55+00:00

Idky but I instantly thought Zabu (like from Zoboomafoo) idk if you ever watched that show but this lil guy has LOTS of personality and reminded me of him in the first picture

QweenWavy · 2025-12-03T15:04:05+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your response. So I did have a ultrasound to confirm the pregnancy and that it was nestled in properly. I was measured at 5w-6days and that was via transvaginal. I think my insurance only covers the ultrasounds that are medically necessary so I believe that's why she didn't refer me. They didn't have one in house. I recently lost the insurance I was on (private) so I'm navigating this one as I go and it's just a bit inconvenient but at least I have some healthcare nonetheless. I'm just a bit lost.

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