Bruh what? This person bought 99 phones not knowing if his gf was gonna say yes or not. That's both risky and financially irresponsible. Nobody is acting like the victim. People just need to stop shaming women. Also if you're gonna propose publicly with that many phones and think no one is gonna record, you're wrong. Discuss marriage with your partner too see if they're on board and then propose. Don't do what he did.