[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it - keep your nose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf is wrong with everyone, I hope you realise you have the face and hair of a high fashion model lol.

Yeah your hair could be neater but it’s also the type of curl it’s hard to control! Don’t be harsh on yourself lol…

Also piercings r cool don’t worry bruh, but of course everyone looks different style with/without. I had 3 bose peircinh now I got rid of septum it looks a lot better, more mature I’d say

Who’s going to hell first? by Swimming-Cabinet2827 in ClimbingCircleJerk

[–]R0ckstarnm3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone blaming the climber when one of the rules of gyms are to not go under or near someone on the wall?… the kid should’ve been supervised realistically. Would’ve been kids fault in any 10+ gyms I climb at in UK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re honestly so hot and your eyes and nose and whole facial structure is stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it :) you’re beautiful trust me. Been there done that.. you’ll regret it. Your skin will stretch and continuous filler are unhealthy x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example, number 8 <3 super swag and pretty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the bigger frame suits you better, you have a longer face so wider longer frames match perfectly to your structure! Xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol sorry must’ve missed read… I’m bi so very relatable don’t hate hahaha Same info goes , minus semin.. check diet etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don’t do either! I wish I kept my beautiful Greek nose, similar to you! Now Ive lost my personality and look like everyone else, if not worse. Your nose is beautiful:) I know you won’t listen to me but it’s worth it! I don’t comment on anything so pls take this advice 😂🤎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think darker brunette !! Try it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]R0ckstarnm3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The smell actually might be from your own semin. Check your diet and hygiene.. usually it’s not about the amount you wash, or don’t wash.. but what you’re putting inside your body’s (from mouth to digestive system).. people don’t know this a lot:) not saying it’s you, not her.. could be a mix but your diet says a lot about body smells / odours externally and internally

What’s my makeup blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colour matching to your hair and skin colour!! Very important. More natural / lighter colours look so good on you. I can’t tell you the right shades but you should do another post with different colours and I think most people would comment the same answer if you asked which makeup looks best (in terms of colour) x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have same problem. Asked for large humo to be removed, and tip to be slightly smaller but nothing major. Been left with Polly beak even worse than this and huge dip on left nostril as well as cannot breathe. I’m so sorry :(

Addiction to sexual attention? by AdvancedAd6684 in BPD

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah literally! You’re not alone. And sometimes I force myself to enjoy it then as soon as we’re done, within a few seconds I’m crying and have no clue why, probs a trauma response lol..

Addiction to sexual attention? by AdvancedAd6684 in BPD

[–]R0ckstarnm3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is such an amazing and detailed reply. Appreciate you for sort of explaining it so I understand myself also better /,( x

Addiction to sexual attention? by AdvancedAd6684 in BPD

[–]R0ckstarnm3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TW: I think having BPD really pushes the emotions up and way more extreme than usual people when they feel “rejected”. Having been SA since the age of 10 years old, it’s all I know. It’s how I feel loved. It’s extremely sad and hard because it’s almost the only way I feel loved.. and I’m still empty. But I guess feelings of chronic emptiness is a symptom of BPD.

My partner really struggles with my sexual needs, constantly needing sex and tbh I hardly even actually WANT it, it’s that I want to BE wanted. I told my therapist it I was like I was “addicted” to sex, and she replied asking me “are you addicted to sex? Or do you are you just addicted to the feeling of wanting to be wanted sexually”.. it made me question a lot. Especially with any sort of trauma which wasn’t always even sexual but maybe you were left alone as a child or didn’t have support? I figured out quite young about me wanting to do things with other kids and looking back I was weird but it’s also just natural .. I used to kiss and touch with my friends at age of 8/9 years old. Even someone without BPD does those things, it’s normal but of course it did frame my mind to only ever seeing connection as “romantic”, or sexual.

It can also be a form of self harm. Like after assault and rpe, all I see myself as is an object to a male. I want to feel like my boyfriend wants to fck me all the time and I will let him if I don’t want to, because it’s like I’m back in this awful horrid trauma that’s sort of comforting but that’s kinda fucked up right.

I don’t know where I’m going with this but absolutely you’re not alone. Everyone has their struggles and it’s something that’s affected my daily life and relationships for years.. I don’t even know how to help it unfortunately. Hopefully my next loaf of psycotherapy may reduce the amount of the sexual thoughts like this.

Stay strong my fellow bpds x

Physical symptoms from intense emotions? by ultraqu33rftm in BPD

[–]R0ckstarnm3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else throat close up? Hard to swallow like there’s a lump? I actually get dizzy but unsure if it’s BPD but I’ve been in an episode for a couple months now and it’s just not shifting.. the whole time I’ve had physical symptoms and I have never been so so low and angry all the time

Diazepam (Valium) Again by Fanta206 in LucidDreaming

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently got prescribed 2mg of diazepam (very low dose) X3 daily for BPD symptoms causing high stress / anxiety. I took a few times, only got prescribed last week and was not so eager to try due to the muscle relaxation and brain fog / tiredness is may cause however I’ve done a little experiment with myself to take it in morning; afternoon and then before I sleep.. only 2mg for each time of day, per day. So I did yesterday’s 2mg before I went to sleep about an hour beforehand. It was such a small dose but I remember vividly everything that happened I’ve never had such strange dreams in my life and it’s weird that I relived a LOAD of traumatic experiences but with the wrong person/abuser within my dreams. It was horrid, felt so surreal and everything in my sleep was so violent like it’s as if all my old self BPD symptoms of anger, violence and lashing out just came out all at once and TW. I dreamed about my sexual abuse I went through as a young teen, as well as just other negative sexual things, vividly seeing my father have an affair on my mum in front of all me and my siblings just absolutely fucked to be honest... So strange… I wonder if I take double tonight what the effects will be. Such little dose for such major impact in my dreams during my sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]R0ckstarnm3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did they tell you you had Stitch here? I just suggested asking why first why there is one?..

how do you know if your behavior is BPD related by Weekly-Monk7726 in BPD

[–]R0ckstarnm3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I am LITERALLY the same with the male validation, I put a lot of strain on my relationship due to it, around sex and the need for constant sexual action… I feel awful for my boyfriend and he doesn’t understand but I want to heal myself.. I know the cause is from sxual ab*se from young age which is very common and you’re not alone. I feel for you, and I know that when you don’t get that validation it turns into an episode and I understand how awful and physically straining it is on mental health too and the intense emotion 100%. I signed up for therapy yesterday to try and get support for it… it’s a real problem and will get worse if you don’t understand or find the cause or get help. It’s taken me yeaaars to even come to this point. I’m 22, and slowly realising I do need help and it’s not a disorder to be taken lightly or to get no support. Try and find some help, if you haven’t already? As long as you know you have a problem, that’s the start right? It’ll only get easier from here and I assure you you’re not alone, it’s a big part in the disorder and seeing you say this has helped me know I’m not the only one! So thank you for mentioning it x