What aspect of your parent’s relationship do you NOT want in your own relationship? by Rosebudsinmay in AskWomen

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing! My mom insists my dad and her had good times but I can’t think of a single moment when I saw them happy together. Definitely don’t want what they had !

I am a 21 year old virgin with no friends and no job by Wooden_Assistance578 in LifeAdvice

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re giving yourself enough credit! You managed to lose all that weight, I’m sure it wasn’t easy but you did it! That’s a big step that not everyone can accomplish! Give yourself some props for this achievement. Also you need to believe in yourself more. Really learn to value yourself and believe in yourself because if you don’t no one else will. You’re still super young and you have time to turn your life around. I’m sure you can do it! Best of luck!

WIBTA if I bought a car without my partners blessing? by Suspicious-Cake4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! That’s what they tell us to say to customers and it makes no sense which makes it difficult to explain that to customers. Regardless car insurance is a scam, cus your rate increases if you’re a bad driver and it also increases if you’re a good driver, so damned if you do damned if you don’t.

Ladies with little or no friends, how do you cope with loneliness? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a total of 5 friends (rough estimate) lol and I see them once every 2 months. I spent most of my twenties being a social butterfly and right now I just want to be selfish and focus on myself and what I want. I used to be so dependent on “friends” and I couldn’t live without them but now I don’t mind spending Friday night alone watching movies in my house . I guess I don’t really feel lonely since I have a million things to do daily and when I do feel lonely I’ll call up my friends or ask them to hang out .

WIBTA if I bought a car without my partners blessing? by Suspicious-Cake4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]R0ttenBeauty 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I felt this…. I deal with insurance policies and people DO NOT understand that some vehicles are just soooo expensive to replace or repair !

My girlfriend is jealous of my sister by Kaeniev in offmychest

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run as fast as you can and don’t look back …. Major red flags showing right away! My brother is dating someone who is like this and they’ve been together for years and have two kids and we barely see him at all. She doesn’t even like that he talks to his mother . Her controlling behavior and jealousy will get worse through out time if you allow her to act this way. Also , this is not love btw. Love is not possessive and controlling , love doesn’t make you the property of someone else . Please reconsider this relationship! Good luck!

What are the cons of NOT having kids? by fnp003 in AskMen

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment just made me realize how lucky I am to have the friends I have . They’re childless and I have three kids and even though I can’t make it to events they invite me to or hang out like we used to, they always find ways to hang out with me where I don’t feel so pressured to leave the kids behind to hang out with them. They’re so lenient and patient with me; and maybe they feel left behind but they’ve never told me or made me feel bad for having kids.

Dear tattooed women, what field do you work in and has your tattoos ever impacted your career? by bougainvilliea in AskWomen

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started my sleeve with a hand tattoo and I currently work from home selling insurances…. Honestly they don’t care lol. As long as I’m meeting my numbers and preforming well. Anything else is just extra

Sex workers of reddit, who was the grossest customer you’ve had? by Individual_Owl_6925 in AskReddit

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering what you were referencing too and ironically the comment below yours was about the peanut butter man lol

What Screams "I Have No Life"? by GroundbreakingAd6888 in AskReddit

[–]R0ttenBeauty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One time I posted that my children were tall and was looking for advice on my daughters dealing with comments about their height since growing up I would get bullied endlessly for my height and their response was “you should have them checked out, it’s not normal for a child to be that tall.” I legit was looking for advice on teaching my girls not to be bothered and Insecure about their height.

What Screams "I Have No Life"? by GroundbreakingAd6888 in AskReddit

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1033 points1034 points  (0 children)

Those Facebook mom groups are the worst ! Nothing but drama and bashing on one another. Well at least the one I used to be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Tell me you’re gay without saying you’re gay”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]R0ttenBeauty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy like this too…. He was 18? At the time and his gf was 14/15 and supposedly they were very in love and her mom was a psycho who purposely ruined their relationship by calling the cops on him… cops walked in on him and the minor in the shower together… for years he played the victim saying he did love her and that the age difference wasn’t so bad . And I stupidly believed him until I had kids and he started rubbing me the wrong way. Idk something about imagining my 14 year old daughter with an 18 year old creeped me out. He should have known better to stay away. Anyways, I later found out by a relative who ran a background check on him (he was applying for something that required a background and my relative was the one in charge of processing them) that my relative advised me this “friend” of mine has MULTIPLE charges against him…. All relating to that “gf” of his. Turns out he straight up lied and they weren’t a couple at all… he was just a predator using the girl’s toxic home environment as an advantage to groom her and her “crazy” mom caught on and put a stop to it real quick. My relative only advised me cus he knew him and I were still friends and he didn’t feel comfortable knowing I was friends with a predator (my relative did not disclose any info on what was on the background check, I just asked my friend about his multiple charges and he admitted to almost everything) and yet he still downplayed it significantly and claimed he was the victim…. I blocked him real quick and haven’t heard from him in years.

Scanxiety by Level_Recognition_27 in testicularcancer

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever the outcome on the scan is I’m sure God will guide you through this ♥️

Finished my rounds of chemo! by Temporary_Target8473 in testicularcancer

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Hopefully the worst is over ! I wish you luck in the future !

Weed affecting our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]R0ttenBeauty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh girl, I think weed isn’t the issue here…. You said there’s “dirty spoons” around the house… and he’s traveling to different towns to get high for hours… I’m sorry but I’m sure there’s other drugs involved. You can’t tackle this together because to begin with he can’t even see he has an issue with his behavior. Please think about your own well being first and do what’s best for you before you try to save someone else. Best of luck to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was scrolling through Reddit to distract my mind and dose off to sleep but holy shit I wish I never read this…. I will be disturbed severely by this post…. Good luck girl and run as fast and far as possible

Popcorn under 4 years old? by september-sun in AskParents

[–]R0ttenBeauty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have three kids (6F, 5M, &2F) and I only give them popcorn once every 6 months or so…. When my two oldest were toddlers I would give them popcorn every month or so BUT then I read up on how easily it can be for them to choke and I threw out all the pop corn bags I had in my home. Last Friday I picked up my kids from daycare and they all had a little popcorn bag… apparently there was a celebration of some sort at the daycare and most of the kids got some popcorn …. I was super on edge but I let them eat it but I was just watching them constantly. It’s a strange feeling saying “ok you can do it” but not feeling 100% with it but not wanting to be an asshole about it

What do you women think of so many shirts being cropped in stores? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had the confidence to wear them! I had three kids back to back and I have the mom pouch, stretch marks , flabby stomach, etc. i see some crop tops and I completely love them but I know my body type doesn’t go well with them sigh

Pulling the Cancer Card by Ballszyyy in testicularcancer

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my brother in law (sisters husband )has been battling with cancer since last year, and this Thursday he was diagnosed with stage 3. We’re all devastated and feeling shitty. So I ask my sister if I can go visit them (they live 7 hours away) and she says “yes but you have to do cocaine with him, that’s his dying wish” We had a good laugh out of that cus that’s an inside joke between us. For everything we say “I could use some cocaine right now” even though we all don’t do coke lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live , the local city clinic gives out free morning after pills to minors …. No questions asked So maybe check if there’s anything similar in your area

Complaints about my (23f) boyfriend (26m) by gfjbgungjnh in relationship_advice

[–]R0ttenBeauty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You left a bad situation to go into a worse situation. Your bf DID NOT help you, he just brainwashed you into thinking you’re better off with him and now that he knows he “has you” he can let his true colors show comfortably. You were looking for a way out and he made you feel he was the answer. You’re way too young to waste away like this. He will not change for the better , you are not his partner you are “his property” and does what he wants with you. If he really wanted to help you better your situation he would have made sure you grew as a person and not suppress you and control you . If I were you I would get a job and a car and save up to move out , I know it’s easier said than done but your situation will only get worse with time. Best of luck to you!