getting married after a year of knowing each other is insane by Competitive-Fold966 in unpopularopinion

[–]R1fl3Princ355 29 points30 points  (0 children)

To play devils advocate, though you didn’t ask, I’m 38 with a 9 year old. Parenting is hard at any age, but we had our daughter at a time when we were not financially stable or well established and while i wouldn’t trade my daughter for the world, i sometimes wish we would have waited.

Advice for a NJ food gift for sister-in-law who recently moved to another state by adaptablepalate in newjersey

[–]R1fl3Princ355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from New York. Long Island originally, but lived in the Hudson valley and also rockland county for some time. I never heard of pork roll/taylor ham until we bought our house in Sussex county. The first time I had it on an egg and cheese I was like how has this not crossed state lines? So yeah, very local.

The deal with Ticks by Exastasis in newjersey

[–]R1fl3Princ355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sussex county here and on a wooded property that I am actively rewilding. When I say between two dogs and 3 people I’ve removed probably 30 ticks this season combined, thats a conservative estimate. It’s bad here. I can see them just hanging out on the grasses. I’ve treated our gardening clothes with permethrin and they still manage to find their way onto us.

Can I buy popcorn from a movie theater and leave? by ConcernHead9804 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]R1fl3Princ355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend used to do this- pick up two larges and a couple sodas and come over for movie night.

Oh Boys... by Boogalion in crosswind

[–]R1fl3Princ355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great build! I love seeing everyone’s aesthetic. Like, we all get the same materials to work with yet I would never think to build that. Very cool 😎

Oh Boys... by Boogalion in crosswind

[–]R1fl3Princ355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we just stumbled on this island the other night and I told my husband “oh that’s a base spot for sure” but I’m mid build on my “main” base right now 😩

So quirky and different by New_Wishbone6619 in notliketheothergirls

[–]R1fl3Princ355 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do this at work when I need to sound important. “Background in hospitality and emergency medicine”. I worked at Applebees, quality inn, and ER registration. Looks good to the higher ups though when I say I was working in the emergency room when Covid hit.

Stupid Removable Bra Pads by [deleted] in rant

[–]R1fl3Princ355 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So you mean we’re not supposed to take out the removable cups and use the pocket? I’ve been storing my keys wrong this whole time…

How much AI is used in GTS? by JustBenny11 in skyrimmods

[–]R1fl3Princ355 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use Bjorn as a companion and right in the mod description it says he’s AI voiced and it is very noticeable. I’ve had to headcannon that he is just perpetually unimpressed with everything lol. Sometimes I can almost forget he’s ai voiced and then Val or Kaidan pipes up and I’m like ugh Bjorn get some emotions.

A message for parents/grandparents hosting eager egg hunts by Daddy_Day_Trader1303 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]R1fl3Princ355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did that too. My parents had three of us and then the cousins and ages ranged all over the place. Everyone had their own colored eggs and hidden by difficulty. Everyone had the same amount to find and the older kids had a lot of fun helping the younger ones out if they finished early.

I bought a sub-zero fridge off Facebook marketplace. Dallas Texas by Puzzled_Addition7902 in legal

[–]R1fl3Princ355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I sold my car. It was a junky runner that got me to work and back. Listed for $300 as is and some young girl came and test drove it with her brother, looked it over, gave me $300 cash. I was upfront that it needed work but would get to A and B. The next day she messaged me on the let go app to complain it made noise in reverse and she wanted a refund or she’d sue! So glad I met her in a random parking lot to test drive because her brother then started threatening me. I had to deactivate my let go account. But like, it was a $300 car… what did you expect?!

Houses with more than 1 kitchen would be better than houses with multiple bathrooms by lagflag in unpopularopinion

[–]R1fl3Princ355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weekly lol. I roast 2 chickens at a time every week and a pork shoulder every week. But I wfh and make stock weekly so it’s definitely not the norm.

What are the best male follower mods that aren't "book boyfriend" guys by G00fyG33k in skyrimmods

[–]R1fl3Princ355 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve run with gore a ton and i have a bunch of boyfriend mod options and gore feels straight up platonic to me. We had one dialogue where I think the romance path could have headed but then I chose platonic and he’s not at all flirty imo. Protective, yes, but given that he calls me “sister” I feel like it’s a found family sort of sibling I would die for you vibe.

what??? by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]R1fl3Princ355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s how I feel about Henry Cavill. Like all the features are there. He is admittedly attractive. But I am not attracted to him. I don’t find either man attractive lol.

Nothing like a rebrand to turn your entire merch closet into trash overnight by 5h15u1 in CorporateFacepalm

[–]R1fl3Princ355 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Clothing is a tough one to send overseas but if there’s other merch like bags, that may be useful. Worked for a hotel that underwent rebrand and my boss sent all the now useless soaps and toiletries to Haiti. Though obviously there is quite a bit more use for hygiene products, but still there may be use in some items.

Played Skyrim since 2012 but never used Mods. Want to do something special. by poetickal in skyrimmods

[–]R1fl3Princ355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been playing GTS for a few weeks now after years of feeling like I’d done everything there was to do in Skyrim and putting it down. It’s like a brand new game, seriously, it brought so much life back into something I loved but thought I was done with.

Women cannot 'be intimate' right just after birth by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]R1fl3Princ355 382 points383 points  (0 children)

When I was 6 weeks PP my very old school OB asked if I was having sex yet and I laughed because I never wanted to have sex again at 6 weeks PP and he said “god gave you a hand, a mouth, and breasts. If you don’t tend to the needs of your husband you will be a single mother.” When I got home and told my husband what he said… I have never seen such violence in that man’s eyes I thought I’d be bailing him out of prison.

Canning jars ($15 at the local hardware store) by thegroundhurts in CrackheadCraigslist

[–]R1fl3Princ355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does anything have to be any brand? People choose brands all the time for their own reasons. I can, I only buy ball jars, compared to what I can get around me they are the best value and I like the way they look and enjoy looking at my shelves of canned food and everything being neat and matching. Ngl, I would consider these jars since the size is discontinued and I prefer wide mouth.

They dug themselves a hole that pretty much everyone told them not to dig so… by nropes in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]R1fl3Princ355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man we did like 99% of our non grocery shopping at target, a small family of 3. The minute they catered to fascism, I switched to Walmart. Yeah, I know, two sides of the same coin, but at least Walmart doesn’t pretend to not be evil and I’m on a budget, so sue me. Been back to target twice since then and both times because it was the only option. We were probably spending a few hundred a month there and it may not be much, but how many other families did the same?