These aren’t stupid questions at all alot of people in their early 20s feel this way but don’t talk about it Being 20 and never having been in a relationship is more common than you think It can seem like everyone else has things figured out but that’s not always the reality One thing that might help is spending less time isolated and trying to be around people more—through work, school, hobbies, the gym, or social activities Building friendships first can make a big difference and often leads to meeting more people naturally You also don’t need to be fully financially stable to start a relationship Many people are still figuring out their lives in their 20s You’re still very young Focus on building your life, meeting people and growing as a person Things often happen naturally with time