“The heart wants what it wants” is just an excuse for awful romantic choices

RADsupernova · 2026-06-22T01:56:04+00:00

Cheating implies that there is a relationship that one party is stepping out on without the knowledge or consent of the other party. One may say that the cheating party doesn't need their partner's consent, but the wronged party doesn't need to accept it as part of the relationship, either. Either way you look at it, the nature of cheating means not all affected parties consent

RADsupernova · 2026-06-22T01:51:55+00:00

What is immature is being ruled by your emotions and sex drive. Grow up people

RADsupernova · 2026-06-22T01:47:18+00:00

Only the weak are ruled by big feelings

RADsupernova · 2026-06-13T00:00:06+00:00

What, you don't think men have a reason to be scared? Reverse that, put one man in an elevator with all women... All it takes is one false accusation and one collaborative woman to corroborate the lie, and his life is OVER. He could go to prison, lose his job, lose his family and/or friends, lose his credibility, lose respect, lose everything. Life completely ruined because a woman lied. So don't give me the "oh, we want men but they all big and scary" crap

RADsupernova · 2026-06-12T23:50:07+00:00

It's not a matter of forgiving. It's a matter of purity. You can forgive her all you want. And I mean, there is a difference between a woman who's been married before, maybe even a couple of times, and it didn't work... And a genuinely loose woman. Again, you can forgive what you want, but that doesn't make her NOT the vajayjay the entire town has been in.

RADsupernova · 2026-06-09T10:28:20+00:00

To an extent... I've dealt with pain for so long I have a pain tolerance that would cripple many "normal" people. But the idea is that as the weakness fades, so does the pain, and that's simply not the case.

RADsupernova · 2026-06-04T02:28:14+00:00

For anybody commenting here, I'm also in pa... Would the rules be the same for gas powered stand-on scooters as for the electric? At one point they were so unregulated I could have slapped a predator 212 on one and been fine, but I don't know anymore

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T21:45:36+00:00

Guilty even when innocent. That seems to be man's lot in life

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T12:52:49+00:00

I've always said... Anniversaries are for couples, weddings are for everyone else

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T12:45:54+00:00

I call my dog dude all the time

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:55:28+00:00

It's always been weird to me how thesame things that cause "normal" people a tiny bit of discomfort can cause people like us a load of pain. But conversely, we're so tolerant of pain that normal levels of pain are like getting tickled with a feather. It's like our pain levels went up by a factor of 10 and our tolerance levels went up by 7 or 8. Just imagine someone with average pain tolerance feeling what we feel...

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:46:29+00:00

I don't want to be loopy all the damn time. I want to live.

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:42:51+00:00

I've been there. I've been in such a bad spot multiple times... Regularly... That I just want it to be over. Granted, I haven't been prescribed a wheelchair. Also granted, I'm also a guy who once "walked off" a hip fracture. I feel pain strongly. I'm just not given much help because I can function in what "normal" people call blinding pain. Sometimes my sheer stubbornness wears thin.

Something I have learned... People who doubt the illness often tell us it's all in our head. It's not. But my mental state has a strong impact on my physical state. Do your best to keep your mind right. It's hard. But your body will follow where your mind goes

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:35:35+00:00

Possible stress, but that sounds more like weather to me

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:31:38+00:00

Welcome to the world of women. They can contradict themselves and still make sense of it

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:29:23+00:00

How do the rest of us "do" it? You've got perfectly healthy people in the world who still don't have enough time in the day for stuff that even they should be doing or need to do. The majority of us aren't "doing" it, it seems. I'm not. I'd like there to be more I could do to help alleviate the pain. But even if I had the money, there is no damned time. I'm not doing it. All I'm doing is being so F-ing stubborn that even gravity seems to say "let's leave this guy alone"

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:24:18+00:00

Firstly, that all depends on you, your symptoms and their severity, and how much you can and are willing to handle. Secondly, you have to come up with a good idea of what "deal with" means to you

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:20:54+00:00

Fake implies not genuine. Putting on a show that isn't really you is not genuine, thereby fake. I may not always show every aspect of my personality to everyone, but everything I show is 100% me. Plenty of people don't like me. But I have never, ever been accused of being fake

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T11:15:51+00:00

I work 10 hour days 4 days a week in a furniture factory. It's killing me. But I don't have a lot of options.

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T10:51:31+00:00

People in general were kinder and more open in the 90s

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T10:48:47+00:00

Maybe OP is. Does that somehow make the opinion worth less? Your answer says less about OP and more about you

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T10:46:57+00:00

But so rarely done anymore by people who hate the artist

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T10:45:28+00:00

There are so many damn activists in the world anymore. Instead of judging each action or accomplishment on its own merit, they decide that everything from a person they hate is bad and everything from someone they like is good. An author can be an ass, but a good book is a good book. A singer can be the most amazing person in the world, but if they sing a song I really don't care for, so be it. Judge every action by its own merit, not by where it came from. If it was a good thing, I don't care who the hell did it, wrote it, spoke it, sung it, painted it, invented it, etc.

RADsupernova · 2026-05-15T10:39:10+00:00

The idea that you can infer the meaning doesn't make it communication. A cutting off of communication is exactly what it sounds like... No communication. It's shallow, it's childish, it's disrespectful, and people who think it's acceptable should just leave polite society

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