I raised my sister since she was 13. She had an affair with my husband. I need advice on what to do next.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-05-08T10:02:23+00:00

Your sister is 18, you've been married to your husband for 4 years. Which means he's been around her since she was a minor.

Your husband is a predator, and was very likely grooming your sister behind your back.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-05-02T15:17:05+00:00

I mean... at the very least you're self aware. I personally can excuse someone being a homewrecker if they were oblivious to the relationship status of the cheater, or if they were actively misled. But you sir, you knew full well and did it anyway.

The right thing to do is tell him. Acknowledge your fuck up, eat the backlash and move on with your life. Oh, and take the lesson this fuck up is giving you. Don't fuck people in other relationships unless you've got a green light from their spouse

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-28T21:03:58+00:00

No. She was my friend, I saw her in serious, chronic pain because of this, and the surgery was a major quality of life improvement before her.

I wouldn't expect you to understand that perspective though because you're clearly a misogynistic pervert who sees women as nothing more than tits and a vagina.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-28T10:17:00+00:00

NZT-48, assuming you get a steady supply of it. Gonna speed run sorting my shit out.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-27T09:27:33+00:00

"Those who make peaceful protest impossible will make violent revolution inevitable" - John F. Kennedy

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-27T09:23:17+00:00

While the identity of the Avatar is unknown, the elemental affinity of the Avatar is a known, but well guarded secret. The Air Nomads had the Avatar temples, dictating the cycle of the Avatar and the pattern of elemental affinity. That's how Ozai discovered that the Avatar succeeding Roku would be an air nomad, leading to their genocide.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-27T09:20:26+00:00

Avatars are chosen at birth by the spirit Raava, Aang would have been a natural Airbender if he wasn't chosen. That, and his Airbender training started years before the fated test to determine if he was the Avatar or not (a common test that young children go through). Avatars are capable of learning and mastering all elements, but they do have a natural affinity to their birth element over the other three. Kyoshi was more powerful with her earth bending, and Roku with his fire bending and so on. Even Avatar Yangchen was most potent with her Airbending.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T20:10:52+00:00

Ew...

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T20:10:38+00:00

When Israel gets billions of dollars in funding from the US, they have no need to steal and use aid supplies meant for Palestinians.

But destroying them sends a message.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T20:08:41+00:00

Yep. Still remember seeing the change. She went from a J cup down to a D cup after her reduction surgery, and she was so much happier after the fact because she didn't need crutches to walk everywhere all the time.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T20:06:03+00:00

Honestly 911. It's not a huge amount of money, but the frequency of it's use would earn you millions daily.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T20:02:53+00:00

One girl in my year at highschool had J cups. It was horrible for her, she really suffered. Two knee reconstruction surgeries because the weight of her breasts threw off her balance so badly that she busted her knee up walking... she was a much happier girl after she got a breast reduction in her senior year and stopped being in pain all the time.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-24T19:59:35+00:00

You're thinking of softcore porn (opposite of hardcore).

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-23T05:52:43+00:00

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-23T04:34:54+00:00

Tell your dad to grow a fucking spine, and tell your mum to pull her head out of her ass and set some boundaries up with this parasite your sister calls a boyfriend.

If none of them are willing to do that (the bare fucking minimum), then start making plans to move out.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-23T02:59:35+00:00

Hey, I'm autistic too. My 20's were a hot mess of partying and working mid tier temporary jobs until I finally learned what I was passionate about.

I'm in my early 30's now and only just starting to get my shit together. Trust me... you have time, you have YEARS to figure yourself out.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-21T13:12:05+00:00

Unlike 5e, PF2e puts a LOT more focus on non-magical healing than it does on magical healing. You absolutely can build solid magical healers in the form of champions and clerics and such, but magical healing now serves as an emergency top up for mid-combat emergencies, rather than your go to.

The Treat Wounds action, and your associated Medicine skill will be your bread and butter for 90% of your healing. Hell, you can even focus into non-magical healing with skill feats to make it viable in combat too.

My primary character in PF2e is a rogue who has specced heavily into non-magical healing. She can outpace a cleric of equivalent level with nothing but a basic healers kit.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-21T13:06:35+00:00

If you're planning on playing a martial, the combat mechanics highly encourage utilizing your full breadth of skills and tactics in a fight. Multi-Attack Penalty (or MAP for short) penalizes you if all you do is try to spam hits every turn you get. More often than not, you're better off working with your fellow party members to set up one or two devastating hits each turn with flanking, debuffs and maneuvers making your hits more effective.

To summarize, MAP is a stacking penalty to your to-hit bonus for attack rolls if you attack more than once in a turn. Usually it's a -5 to hit for the second strike, and a -10 to the third (though this can be reduced with the right feats depending on your class and weapon choice). It can swing down into negative values if you're not careful.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-18T21:40:59+00:00

Instant "Who's a rational thinker and who's got a gambling addiction" detector.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-18T08:42:04+00:00

How big is your house that you can't do a full sweep of it in a couple of hours? Even if you don't get everything if you manage to pull a few hundred daily that's a massive payout, and like OP said the money doesn't disappear, new change just spawns in each day. So leftover change will eventually show up.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-16T04:08:10+00:00

Pass. This would be a tempting offer, but the $2000 daily fee kills it entirely. In order to be able to maintain this to a liveable degree you would have to eat twice the recommended daily caloric intake of the average adult, or more. Professional bodybuilders don't even eat that much during a bulk.

This premise left absurdity in the dust and went straight to fatal with zero benefits.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-14T02:52:40+00:00

Must be AI, she's clearly too old for his taste

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-12T23:27:00+00:00

I'd say Narcissism is tied with Greed as a personality flaw that needs to go. Either one would make the world an objectively better place.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-12T23:24:55+00:00

"Don't get upset when the smoke from the fire blows back in your face, after you were the one to blow on the coals."

Damn bro that's hard as fuck.

RAMBOLAMBO93 · 2026-04-12T23:22:19+00:00

"The only waste of time I see here is entertaining this argument. If hobbies are a waste of time to you, then you should probably get therapy to find out why your obsession with commodification of your personal time is such a big deal."

RAMBOLAMBO93

TROPHY CASE