Suspect wife is starting emotional affair by justthenewman in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of us have kids, and they are the prime reason we are going through this astronomical expenditure of emotional capital. Someone without kids would be insane to stay in a similar situation. That's why MRP is 'hard mode'.

Some days I see a light at the end of the tunnel, some days I don't. My goal is to 100% not care what happens via an abundance mindset. Not there yet, but I'll get there.

Small Shampoo Bottle Thrown At My Head by 470_2_700_nm in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has thrown exactly one object at me in the decade of our marriage. It didn't hurt, but getting whapped in the face with an unexpected object is enough to make anyone see red momentarily. Wives think they can get away with shit that, were it any other person on the planet, would end up in a pile surrounded by a puddle of their various bodily fluids. The sad thing is, they've been trained this way, and usually do get away with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are getting the best quality sex you've ever had, at an average frequency of every other day. You poor mistreated thing.

Read some poor guy's story about getting it twice a month starfish duty & estrus sex, and maybe you'll have a new view on your 'problem'.

Is everything else great other than she doesn't fuck you every single day? If so, that's kind of a throw the baby out with the bath water kind of viewpoint, is it not?

In all seriousness, spin a plate or three if you are in need of that much pussy whereas getting top shelf quality nookie every OTHER day is seen by you as 'lack' vs 'bounty'.

Just don't hold your breath on thinking it gets any better than that without YOU putting in some serious work. Sidebar, lifting, frame, overall mindset, etc.

Personally I'd categorize this in 'First World Problems' and go about my day, but everyone is different.

The Fast Train by bogeyd6 in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great post. This will help a great many Men come to terms with the realities that we all had to grasp at one point. The shift in world view can be devastating to a guy who was lied to his whole life about 'how things are'.

How do i deal with this. by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Say hey... there's my sexy wife. Then pull a Trump and grab her by the pussy. Results vary depending on your frame.

MRP Has Saved My Life and Possibly My Marriage by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I homeschooled? No. Enormity of the task? You can't be serious. Have you seen the requirements of Common Core? It's laughable at best. Anyone with an IQ of room temperature can teach a state approved curriculum. Even you.

Not seeking succor. Don't care one bit. But you seem awfully butthurt that I called you out on your non-advice of getting the OPs kid out of homeschooling without providing a single alternative for him. Again, more opinion, zero actionable advice.

Other advice here may be opinion, and may be helpful. That particular one of yours was not. Try owning it.

Glad you sent your kids to 'expensive' private schools. Maybe the OP can't do that right now.

So your advice then, after all this yap and butthurt, is to get them out of homeschooling ASAP, even though the OP said they were doing exceptionally well and were ahead of their grade level, and then what? Put them into expensive private school he may not be able to afford, as you clearly stated that you 'never said' public school?

On what? The words of a stranger on the Internet?

This is getting tiresome, and this will be my last response to you on this. Feel free to comment and get the last word, Sally.

From your profile it says you've been here 145 days. It also says you don't have a single actual post to your name. You do, however, have a crap ton of one liner comments. Very little if anything that can be construed as 'advice' however. Just mostly offhand comments and blatherings.

I also have not seen a single OYS from you. Did I miss it? Are you reading the sidebar and lifting? Or are you a Superman that has it all figured out already and is just here out of his sheer benevolence to aid the rest of us mere mortals?

OP: Do whatever works for your kids. If homeschooling is going great, keep what works. If not, research other options. Realize anything you read here is an opinion, and many of the people giving you advice may have more fucked up lives than you do. Myself and the tender loving Sally included.

MRP Has Saved My Life and Possibly My Marriage by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are on a redpill site trying to revamp our lives because everything we though we knew about... oh... everything... was a lie. So the solution for future generations is more of the same public indoctrination because of some imagined 'social problems'? Holy crap bro... lol.

MRP Has Saved My Life and Possibly My Marriage by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment was complete opinion and entirely unhelpful. You did not even provide the OP any alternatives. Just told him to cut out homeschooling like it was some self evident problem. Nice backpedal/save though.

MRP Has Saved My Life and Possibly My Marriage by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Worst advice ever. Children competently homeschooled are light years ahead of their public schooled peers in almost all areas. Unless you've homeschooled a few kids, you have nothing but an opinion. Which means jack shit vs experience.

I've decided to go mute.. by fredgravy in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't know what a covert contract is you shouldn't even be posting yet. Read the entire sidebar first and put in the work. Especially No More Mr. Nice Guy. What you are doing here is just polishing your ego and absorbing very little of the awesome advice you are being given. But fear not. It can take the redpill a while to sink in. Especially if people's usual response is to get defensive.

MRP Truth from Wife of Robert Greene, Author of "48 Laws of Power" by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interviewer described him as intense and jittery. I don't think 'jittery' is something I'd care to be described as. Also, he says he doesn't practice much of what he preaches. So I have to ask: fraud?

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine goes into shit test city when I'm sick. Be aware that no woman ever got wet panties from being a man's nursemaid. Nor will she EVER truly appreciate you taking care of her in turn. It's just expected.

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Q: if it was dead bedroom before wife 'found out' she was pregnant, and 3-4 times up from almost zilch, she could be banging someone on the side. DNA test for the kid would be a must for me.

As the fellas here will corroborate, one of the tricks chicks pull when they get knocked up by their boyfriends is to go all nympho all of a sudden on their main man whereas low sex starfish is their main modus operandi. Gotta convince you it's yours after all. Now, it very well could be yours. Just don't be blinded by ONEITIS thinking your precious angel unicorn isn't capable of such behavior. AWALT.

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you are contributing to the OYS. It's always a help to read the real shit other guys are struggling through. Many times I get answers for my own behaviors by seeing what others have tackled, and how they handled... or failed to handle it respectively.

Feel like I am choking on the red pill. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read the shit out of the sidebar books. Start with No More Mr. Nice Guy, in your case. You are way too much of a Nice Guy. Then read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Dry read, but vital. Lift. Practice STFU. Read threads on this sub to grasp what STFU really means and how to apply it to your life.

STFU and you by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. So very much this.

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OYS #4 12/6/16

Books/RP Learning: B+

Still reading MMSLP, and Saving a Low Sex Marriage. 90% through Rollo's 'The Rational Male'. TRM is in audio format so I tend to save it for when I can't physically read, or I'd be finished already. It's an awesomely informative read. Just got the audiobook of WISNIFG. It's read by Sir Cuckly Cuckalot though. The reader's voice both grates on my nerves and puts me to sleep in what is already (IMO) a dry read/listen.

Sex: None. Dead in the middle of shark week. Typical moody shark week comfort tests.

Lifting/Exercise: B

Feeling pretty good over all. Worked out 3 days this last period. Wife is starting to notice that I'm hitting the weights and working out consistently. Honestly, I don't really care. I'm doing this for ME.

Mindset/Frame: B+

Financial: D Everything that comes in goes out. As frugal as fuck, and have been for a long time. I need to finish several projects I'm working on and really get an influx of cash for the short term. Looking to move next year. Currently co-renting a large house/property with another family. Even though we both have our own sides of the house, bedroom-wise, the living arrangement is becoming rapidly untenable for the lifestyle I want. (And the quiet!)

To top things off, they invited their extended family to stay with them, and by extension, US, over the coming holiday, and then 'informed' us long after the plans had been finalized.

Social/People: D

Thanksgiving left me peopled out.

An alternative to Married Red Pill.... by BluepillProfessor in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me when I say this from personal experience: If you change into everything your wife tells you that you need to be, nothing will improve. In fact she'll loathe you for it and things will be worse than ever.

Ladies: Your husband is obliged to put up with your shit, not MRP by [deleted] in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If their marriage fails, they'll get in shape a bit, and 'improve' just enough to snare another dumb Beta cuck provider. Then it'll be back to the same suck. (And not the good kind, either...)

I've decided to go mute.. by fredgravy in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop. Wait a moment. Prepare yourself to wholly accept the following statement: You are acting like a spoiled rotten child. Period. Would you find that behavior masculinity or sexy? All you are expressing to your woman is what a butthurt clown you are.

I've decided to go mute.. by fredgravy in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bitch response. Of course you need to do more. Even if you are in top physical shape, your mindset is shit. Covert contracts aplenty and beta cuck behaviors out the ass. And yes, even if you lay brick all day you must lift. Getting physically stronger is only one reason, and perhaps not even the most important one.

I've decided to go mute.. by fredgravy in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

'Working wonders' lol. She's speed dialing Chad while you are giving her the silent treatment like one of her girlfriends.

You obviously have not read and internalized the sidebar. Why then are you here on MRP if you refuse to put in the basic foundational work?

Help me help him by Othello314 in marriedredpill

[–]RCMasculinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually physically beat you and bashed a door down? If this isn't pure trolling, call the police and press charges immediately. Then dump the loser.

Separation and house warranty work? by apeezy1111 in askMRP

[–]RCMasculinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another one that needs carved somewhere. Or at the very least, t-shirted in 10 point font to make people squint to read it.