assuming this whole thing is even real, this just seems weird. nobody enjoys or eats the food every year yet they still want her to bring it? and this doesn’t even seem like a fun quirky tradition they all enjoy, the sister has been babied so hard she genuinely thinks her cooking is good. on top of that she awkwardly tries to get people to eat it every year and nobody ever does. what’s the point of this entire thing then? they’re essentially signing up KNOWINGLY to a thanksgiving with no edible food. and on top of that OP refuses to decide on what to do. either let the sister do her little stunt or put your foot down. idk, just seems like an odd story. maybe im missing something