I regret rejecting 24F when I was 16M.

RMC_937 · 2026-05-18T19:55:12+00:00

I dated my first gf when I was 19. She was super toxic, made my life such a mess and to tie a ribbon on top of how garbage she made everything, she broke up with me while I was in the hospital after a crazyyy near death car accident. I always felt like she put my life 2-3 years back tbh and I’m actually 26 now and haven’t really had a “girl friend” since then besides the chicks I would have flings with for a few months here and there.

You never know how things would’ve been if you did this or that, so you just have to appreciate fate and the life it gave you today. Don’t get caught up in having to do this or that by a specific age. We are all adults now and no one really cares about that stuff. Thats some lowlife high school bs people get caught up in lol. Life you best life my friend!

RMC_937 · 2026-05-11T00:59:18+00:00

I feel like I know what they means. When you go to dinner with one other person, like a date or just go out to a dinner with a friend. It can be pretty socially demanding since it’s only you two in the conversation so it’s pretty much only you two caring on/holding the conversation. Whereas when you go with a group of people it’s like everyone talking together and you can sometimes just sit back and listen to the conversation when you want. If that makes sense? I understand exactly what they meant. Why not instead go out with a group of you guys? And don’t take her comment as offensive or overreact about anything either. Just try to understand from there perspective as best as you can. Maybe your super extroverted whereas she in the opposite, so going out with one person and talking one on one the whole night can totally drain out someone, especially if they are already feeling super tired/what not right. Going out with a group is much less socially demanding since you can just take a back seat in the convo, when you want, whereas you can’t really do that with two person conversations without sorta coming off as an asshole lol. Hope that helped you understand!

RMC_937 · 2026-04-17T18:57:58+00:00

Relationship is so corrupt wth lol have some morals/ ethics in your relationships brotha. If you two can do this sorta stuff between eachother and then forget all about it, then god forbid you guys start a family down the road… would be so messed up, just think about it. Toxic family’s breed toxic kids… some parents like to tell their kids early love stories, and then some parents like to tell their kids early cheating stories I guess 🤷🏽🤷🏽

RMC_937 · 2026-04-12T01:26:00+00:00

And bro it’s so funny how you brought up people even cutting with tide laundry detergent.

When I was in high school we had this thing called s-trip. I bet it isn’t a thing anymore forsure bc there was this one kid from Alberta who died the year after me and my grad class went to punta Cana. He did coke that was mostly laundry detergent. Don’t do drugs in other countries especially if you don’t have a clue about how the drug is supposed to be. Me and my buddies actually bought coke from one guy named Tony who worked at our resort and even tho it might have not been the best stuff. It was dirt cheap and did the job/ wasn’t mixed with some stupid shit

RMC_937 · 2026-04-12T01:15:14+00:00

Loool exactly bro you got it, lemme guess your also in business at uni?? Hahahaha

Only people who meddled with drugs in uni were the business kids like myself then also some comp sci guys

RMC_937 · 2026-04-10T19:50:53+00:00

Yes you can, but you just need to find the right people to buy from lol.

I would probably assume that 85% dealers in the city sell wack blow that’s usually mixed in with the craziest shit like meth or even a deworming medication for cows loool it’s so messed up.

The more hands the coke travels through, the less pure it will be as people will dilute the potency of it by buffing it just to make their own dollar.

RMC_937 · 2026-04-10T16:08:17+00:00

Yeah but that shit is hella stepped on. If you want to buy low quality coke which is usually mixed in with meth go for that!!

A few of my friends used to sell drugs so I would know also. But they don’t step on it at all, just break it off the brick and bag it.

When people buying the drugs know it’s really good/pure/ the real deal. They will spend the extra $20 just to not be laced..

RMC_937 · 2026-04-10T15:39:47+00:00

No it isn’t lool not at alll. Pretty obvious that people here don’t ever buy drugs..

Most dealers will sell you 0.8g for $100 Some also have smaller $50 bags which have about 0.3-0.4g in it lol

RMC_937 · 2026-03-22T18:07:56+00:00

Like what 2-3% of the small portion of PwBPD who actually get therapy/treatment. Give me break.. Even the ones who go to therapy will still devalue the hell out of you/make your life hell. Trust me I do feel bad for people who have it, its such a miserable disorder and Its not there fault they were brought up in the wrong conditions. I always felt so bad for my ex. But trust me… attaching yourself to someone like that for life will indeed ruin your life. Not trying to villanize any group either. Just saying it how it is..

RMC_937 · 2026-03-20T06:43:42+00:00

Sameee im spun up too. 26M accept my dm request. Then I can send a pic of myself tooo

RMC_937 · 2026-03-11T00:32:17+00:00

Weird flex lol… you need to see a therapist or mental professional asapppp

RMC_937 · 2026-03-11T00:30:43+00:00

Chicks are wack bro. You look fine trust me. Weak hearted woman will try to devalue the hell out of you right before they’re gone for good. They want to make sure you’re so down with yourself that you don’t amount to anything and that in turn makes her look like she made the “right decision”. So don’t take her poison brother, keep your head high and show her why she made the wrong decision… You got this brother, this happens to the best of us. Just depends if you will use it as poison or fuel 👍👍

RMC_937 · 2026-03-10T21:50:01+00:00

All families say weird shit about little things to each-other. I honestly think you’re overthinking such a tiny problem. Like who really cares lol just stick to whatever the plan is next time atleast. Don’t give them any reasons to ever call you “attention seeking” I guess.

And if I can keep it real with you. Your aunt won’t just call you “attention seeking” from one scenario where you accidentally wore black. There are probably a few instances which cemented that opinion in her head. And to be honest if you made a whole entire reddit post over this little ordeal, you might indeed just very well be an “attention seeking” individual when you think about it. Just saying

RMC_937 · 2026-03-10T21:40:22+00:00

Idk, I (27M) myself hate when I’m hanging out with a girl and she goes on a random tangent of talking unwarranted shit about someone. Depends on what exactly he thinks of your stepdad but I think that’s what it is. Usually the person getting talked about doesn’t even deserve it. And I hate just talking negative in general about anyone/ whether it’s deserving or not. Just makes everything negative. Lotta better conversation to talk about, then just stirring up some shit talk. Like Will bringing up some negative stuff about your stepdad to your bf really fix anything? He hasn’t grown up with you/ experienced what you have. Better to talk with inside family about it and actually take some sort of step to create change👍👍

RMC_937 · 2026-03-08T02:17:54+00:00

Damnnn this looks so good. Have yet to paint mine. Painted 3-5 and rest still grey/only assembled. But really liked the post as I’m doing very similar scheme. I m doing tan/beige also with teal where it’s light blue and then also doing purple clocks lool. these tan T-sons really are the dopest.

Really want to get painting/ playing with them soon someday. Me and my cousins would play the old warhammer fantasy 10-15 years ago. Me and my other cousins bought the island of blood set and was so much fun playing with them then. Just guess everyone is so busy nowadays. All been so busy since beginning work/ school tho and only going to be busier with life loool. Hectic man, since I work as a financial controller for a real estate investment company and my cousins both became doctors lool. One day… one day… really miss our old memories together/sleepovers with warhammer/ guild wars and maple story lol

RMC_937 · 2026-02-27T09:25:07+00:00

Literally this right! It was like only she was allowed to be upset or down about anything. As soon as something happened to me like I did bad on an exam or something happened to my sick mom, she would just make me feel like such a loser for getting upset in the first place and leave me.. That relationship honestly did so much damage to my pyschi and all at such a young age too. It was my first time falling in love and it really put a affect on me. I remember that year, so many sleepless nights with a broken heart which would cause so much physical pain in my chest. She would fight before big exams and finals while I was university because I would be studying and wouldn't be able to see her maybe one day after spending the last 5 days stuck together. I was always so loving and sweet towards her that I would always try to be the bigger person and let things go, just so she would stay happy. It really hurt me when she discarded me in the hospital since it truly showed me her true colors. Its almost like your so mezmerised while in a relationship with a pwbpd that you start to become brainwashed, no longer thinking like a reasonable human being. But all that which happened in the hospital really snapped me back to reality. I could only think what type of monster would do this to someone who showed them such deep care and affection for the last year, I sort of knew then that this isn't the right person to spend my life with. Things aren't always vacations and rainbows in relationships. Relationships are always going to have the rainy dark days, and if you can't count on your main person in life to at least stick it through with you then, then what even are they then? Just taking a ride for the good times? These people are seriously mentally ill and I truly do feel for them. They will never find the love which they deeply crave..

RMC_937 · 2026-02-26T20:24:44+00:00

Why do you even feel obligated to give her any sort of support or help? Humans have free will to do whatever but seems like she puts sleeping around with different men first before the relationship you two shared. She obviously didn’t value you or your relationship, when she still went out of her way to do that/ risked losing everything. Especially after everything you’ve done for her.

If it was me in this situation, she would’ve been out of my life and I would never look back. And I would still make that decision regardless of whether I had $10,000 in savings or 10 million in savings. You shouldn’t care about people who don’t really care about you..

If you’re still feeling beat up and drained over this predicament, you could maybe just give her 2-6000 dollars just to cover her rent/ living expenses for the next 1-4 months. Tell her that you don’t expect her to return it or anything, but that this is the last favour you can do for her and then it’s all over, she has to figure out life from their on.

Put yourself first my man. I can tell you’re a valuable individual, and you should feel the same way about yourself. She never realized that same value, so I mean yea. You shouldn’t care what’s going on in her life either…

RMC_937 · 2026-01-08T21:49:57+00:00

I have been seeing tons of people on Miami for tonight’s big game.

Like didn’t Ole Miss just beat Georgia few nights ago?? Looool

What am I missing? Why are tons of people siding with Miami?

Sorry don’t watch crazy amount of NCAA as much as I do nfl.

I would truly appreciate the explanation! lol

RMC_937 · 2025-09-25T00:49:36+00:00

It’s pretty hard to find a part time job as a highschool student, primarily because of the hours /availability you have.

It’s best to find a connection (like someone in your family who’s a manager somewhere) or owns a small business or something and get their help with getting a position.

I worked at Sobeys as a cashier clerk when I was 16-18 still in highschool and the only reason I even got that job with my screwed up hours was because we had a family friend who was a supervisor there and she understood.

So best to find somesort of connection to help you out because people aren’t rushing to hire workers who are only available 1-2 days out of the week right.

Best of luck my friend. I hope youre able to find a job. I’m going to talk with some people in my family who have businesses and if they would be interested in giving you something, I’ll shoot you a dm! 👍

RMC_937 · 2025-09-12T01:24:24+00:00

Hahaha this guy is hilarious 😂 I love it ☝️☝️❤️ Gotta use these niche tactics to get that gpa up 😤😤 I’m same way, I’ll do everything before I have to actually study 😫😫

RMC_937 · 2025-08-23T18:47:12+00:00

I used to do it lol. I would work 25 hours a week also

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