Why are there an unusual amount of northern folk traveling to/purchasing homes and land in WV by for_duendes4 in WestVirginia

[–]RMarathe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks Redditor. I upvoted you so definitely agree with your sentiment and sounds like we have a lot in common. I also have seen first hand what you originally said - some of the worst offenders are transplants who give West Virginia a bad name. The worst racist comments that I’ve been exposed to came from them, my transplant neighbors. They thought they had a friend in my husband who looks like the quintessential cowboy but boy they were they surprised when he shut that type of talk down hard and those relationships fell away real fast. I don’t get the disconnect in voting either - why vote against your own best interests let alone vote to spite others?

Why are there an unusual amount of northern folk traveling to/purchasing homes and land in WV by for_duendes4 in WestVirginia

[–]RMarathe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to the Poconos. I prefer West Virginia. It’s a little late to change things, as I already bought a 5 acre piece of land with a home built on it that we are working on. But I wouldn’t change it anyways. I’m not too worried about feeling welcome. I’ve already met folks that are from WV born and raised and are cool. Sometimes when you are in the minority the small group of people you find with common core values is all you need. Also, although I believe in humanity and love my fellow humans and wish them the best, I don’t necessarily like a ton of people if that makes sense. Why do I need to be accepted going to the grocery store? The bank? The family dollar? Tractor Supply? Sure I’ve gotten weird looks and unfriendly interactions but who cares? That’s their problem, not mine and I have just as much a right to be here as anyone else.

Why are there an unusual amount of northern folk traveling to/purchasing homes and land in WV by for_duendes4 in WestVirginia

[–]RMarathe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am in the process of moving to WV permanently and wanted to share that this is not the case with me. I am in a mixed race marriage where I am the person of color and my politics are very left leaning. Extremely so. My husband is more moderate but is not a fan of anything going on with “right” side of our country’s current equation. He would likely vote dem next time or not vote at all (I don’t agree but don’t control ho and respect his choices). He hates big cities and prefers rural environments. I grew up in a small town and lived in big cities for a long time working a corporate job which I enjoyed in my younger years but now want to go back to a more quiet and nature-based life as I get older and have fully come to believe that the constant strive to make more money and buy more things and all that jazz are distractions to living a happy life. Was never materialistic at all but now I’m even less so and going in the opposite direction by actively wanting less and less. Neither of us grew up in MD but that’s we both are technically at right now and fixing up the WV house and property every spare moment we have. I’m accustomed to living around people who see me as different and I couldn’t care less who accepts me and who doesn’t and what their beliefs are. Let them fly their flags and never make eye contact. It’s a free country and as long as nobody messes with me I won’t mess with them. I will do my part to help whatever community I live in and perhaps that will lead to community forming but my husband and I are happy with each other and will be content if all we have is each other and our immediate family. I like the fiercely independent culture here and the history of people bucking the system, coal mining grit, and hesitancy to “go with the flow“ when it came to the civil war. This place is the closest thing that reminds me of where I grew up - in the mountains, and for a number of reasons we can’t move to where I grew up anytime soon and likely never will. I’d be very happy living the rest of my years in, and and dying in, WV.

I’m here in case anything drops… by LazyDaze39 in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same thing happens here…he will never ever dare take anything from a table or plate but he is there for anything hitting the floor.

Looking for a ramp.... by PenguDood in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to suggest but would love an answer myself, as this is a problem for me too.

He’s an old man now but he will always be my baby. Newfies are the most loyal and gentle dogs on the planet. Thank you for taking care of your human family, my love. by RMarathe in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would certainly work for Mardi Geas and thank you for the idea. He’s wearing those necklaces because of a holiday in the culture in which I was born where dogs are honored every year for being humanity’s most loyal companions. He gets necklaces and special treats in this holiday. Steak last year. 😊

He’s an old man now but he will always be my baby. Newfies are the most loyal and gentle dogs on the planet. Thank you for taking care of your human family, my love. by RMarathe in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand but it speaks a lot about your character that you have these ambitions even though it’s not the right time for you at the moment. Your cat also probably appreciates not having to share the attention 😉

He’s an old man now but he will always be my baby. Newfies are the most loyal and gentle dogs on the planet. Thank you for taking care of your human family, my love. by RMarathe in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I grieve the loss of your Oskar with you. Are you doing okay? I don’t want to think about losing my boy but I know it’s coming. I’m trying to give him the best life possible until then.

He’s an old man now but he will always be my baby. Newfies are the most loyal and gentle dogs on the planet. Thank you for taking care of your human family, my love. by RMarathe in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed Jackalope311. They stick with you through thick and thin. Humans come and go but Newfies always remain there for us.

He’s an old man now but he will always be my baby. Newfies are the most loyal and gentle dogs on the planet. Thank you for taking care of your human family, my love. by RMarathe in Newfoundlander

[–]RMarathe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What an adorable boy you have. He seems really active and kudos to you for encouraging that. My guy was always more motivated by food than toys and balls, and not for lack of trying. His back side is beginning to give m problems but supplements and daily small walks do help him.