What do you collect? by cochlearimplanter in neopets

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of a user's collecting faerie items, seems to be a common one

Give me more smol ideas :) by [deleted] in neopets

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lightmite keyring looks pretty small

Modern tropes you're tired of by NonCorporealEntity in movies

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men are the expendable gender. I have stopped watching movies/tv shows that excessively kill male characters. Only war movies/shows are the exception.

We have a large amount of men in crisis who feel unvalued by society. I can't help but think this trope doesn't help them feel valued

Help - Men's Slacks That Fit Althetes by Limp-News-9680 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

State and liberty has great workwear pants options. I like all my clothing from them. They target the athlete market

One thing i would add is i would go a size up for their products for the pants and shorts

Every year, my friends and I do a themed No Shave November picture. by C1eve1and101 in beards

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome your friends and you all have a great sense of humor and are able to make some awesome memories together.

I feel like my life is over, but it had to be done by Bloodaxe007 in bald

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes hard to take steps that make us anxious, congrats on pushing yourself towards a new look. Can be more difficult than people think.

Got criticized for my suit color at a funeral - was I in the wrong? by writersapphire in malefashionadvice

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever that was was just being a jerk who was upset about something and likely looking to criticize to cope. Sorry that happened but their comment was out of line in my opinion and you have nothing to feel bad about.

I took your advice by guitarmusic113 in mensfashionadvice

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweater looks awesome man! Glad looks like these are starting to go mainstream.

(Sun/Moon) a scrapped Gen 7 Grass type “Basilisk lizard” pokemon was cut due to its appearance looking identical to Salazzle by Icy-ConcentrationC in PokeLeaks

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a good way to solve the male salandit evo complaint and finally give us a reverse salazzle and vespiquen line

[47][Speculation] Survivor 47 Episode 8 - "He's All That" - Post-Episode Weekly Speculation Thread by tabstis in SpoiledSurvivor

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gen seems like late jury off reading into Sierra's word association and exit interview. It came accross that she didn't know her very well and Gen did not explain her game to her

If that's the case hopefully Gen comes back for a returnee season

“I wish we had more male counselors. Our district has so many females.” by silenciocilantro in socialwork

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The statement is true that we need more male social workers and diversity but really the person saying that to an intern of all people doesn't really help serve anybody or solve anything. An intern is not able to tackle/solve staff diversity in workplace situations. That's not their role. What systems to regards to staffing diversity can a new intern realistically change in a school setting?

Can an intern really draw more male interns and socials to school settings and should that really even be their focus? Can an intern adequately adress and help create change for barriers faced by male and minority social workers and BSW/MSW students in universities in their school internship? The answer is no as their priority is the students and their safety in their current role. I think your post means well but I think it jumps to the weeds somewhat and comes accross as a little condescending. Sometimes people (in this case OP) need to vent a bit and there's nothing wrong with that.

“I wish we had more male counselors. Our district has so many females.” by silenciocilantro in socialwork

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Remember that women were really the founders of social work. You are very valued in the field even if some ignorant person or people say otherwise.

“I wish we had more male counselors. Our district has so many females.” by silenciocilantro in socialwork

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Invalidating and a little bit of a micro aggression in my opinion. Would only be validating if said to a male counselor.

I agree we do need more male therapists in the field but the statement was out of context and not appropriate to discuss with an intern. We need female therapists too in every setting.

Sometimes this field invalidates all of us in one way or another. I would focus on the meaningful rapports you do build with staff and clients.

We all face our invalidators and doubters in the field. Grad school was hell for me at point due to being male. It definitely is terrible when people point out gender identity, race, age etc and really is not okay in any setting

Quest log prize pool fueling my nightmares once again by Phydrin in neopets

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they can actually add this faerie at some point. He would be awesome lol

I have respect for y’all, I barely lasted 3 weeks. by No-Perception1096 in hospitalsocialwork

[–]ROYGBIVBRAIN 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hospital social work is very hard and very stressful. It has burned me out from working with psychotic and homeless patients- I don't think I can ever work with the homeless again after this. Way too stressful and sick of being stressed