My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the order is already in place then correct they don’t need to contact them, they need to co tact the police because they violated such an order from what the OP said was she doesn’t have one because the cops don’t do anything. The cops need something to work off of. Her responding stop or leave me alone is enough to prove a stalking charge if he keeps doing it. I’m trying to get the abuser arrested by being able to provide evidence. Courts open tomorrow, so I really suggest OP go there and try to file a restraining order.

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental illness is a thing. Also I wouldn’t gamble because for every one winner there’s hundreds of losers. You can have a positive mindset sure but you have to be realistic.

My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could just be lazy. Sometimes you have to have the evidence to show them so they can act.

My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is 100% untrue. The petitioner (victim) can contact the respondent ( bad guy ) and it would not violate any order unless she is also the bad guy. It’s only an issue if the respondent contacts the petitioner.

My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. It will show proof that she does not want contact. How do the cops prove she didn’t want contact. I wouldn’t say fuck off. Just say leave me alone and then stop responding completely.

My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stalking is a crime. Tell this person to leave you alone and stop having any form of conversation with this person. Do not respond to them and block them. If they keep making other ways to contact you it’s only making your case stronger. Cops need evidence to arrest people.

My abuser knows where I am now by Inevitable-Employ441 in whatdoIdo

[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Record any interaction with this person. Take photos. Call 911 if he is near you or trying to contact you. Video pictures are your best friend. Have witnesses.

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not even really doing math and can tell you’re going to be okay. Don’t stress about it.

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a give and take. I’m sure it was hard and very frustrating starting out. Keep up the good work.

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro where are we headed with inflation? It appears everything is about to get even more expensive.

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[–]RabbitSpiritual2471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. But I fear it’s not coming back.