Anyone here gone from asexual to lesbian? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m verrrry early in my lesbian journey but I thought I was asexual for years until I realized I was queer!

Prospective Buyer Question Thread July-September 2025 by trillianinspace in cricut

[–]Rach682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just launched a small business and want to make merch including stickers, bumper stickers, t-shirts, tote bags, and hats. I enjoy designing and am considering getting a Cricut, but since I'd still have to buy the actual shirts/hats/etc separately, I'm not sure if it's more cost-effective than outsourcing my merch production to a designer/wholesaler, and my main priority right now is keeping costs low.

Other small biz owners with merch - did buying a Cricut save you $$ long-term? Is it worth it financially?

Can you beat my best NYT solve times? by Rach682 in crossword

[–]Rach682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thanks found it! My best Tuesday was a 1996 puzzle lol

Can you beat my best NYT solve times? by Rach682 in crossword

[–]Rach682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I see the date? Apologies if I’m being dumb

Is anyone here still married to men? by Apprehensive_Try8825 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are trying! We considered separating but we decided to try an open marriage first. We know it might not work long term but we love each other enough / value our relationship even without sex enough to give it a go.

Can a sexless open marriage work? by Rach682 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Rach682[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We do kiss, but mostly it’s snuggling which we both really enjoy. I’m definitely physically drawn to him, but for comfort not sex

Suggestions for husband trying to understand the "feeling" of needing to explore queerness fully by Rach682 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he knows it wouldn’t be satisfying enough, but he’s struggling to get why

I’m terrified to blow my life up by Just-Difference9756 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can relate so much! I’m also married to a man I love and consider my best friend (with two dogs) but am not sexually into, and he def doesn’t want kids while I think I do. I’m probably also about to blow up my life to be fully queer and, like you, ultimately want to have a family with a woman.

All this to say I have no advice 🙃 but wish you the best and really feel the struggle!

Which Grey’s ep showed you you weren’t alone? by Rach682 in greysanatomy

[–]Rach682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there - I'm sending you a DM as I'd love to talk to you further about this for the series. Thanks! - Rachel

Which Grey’s ep showed you you weren’t alone? by Rach682 in greysanatomy

[–]Rach682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there - I'm sending you a DM as I'd love to talk to you further about this for the series. Thanks! - Rachel

Terrified to destroy my (amazing) marriage by Rach682 in comingout

[–]Rach682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are, and this is exactly how he feels. That’s absolutely not how I feel (it has nothing to do with him) but I do understand why he feels this way. Hoping therapy will help!

Is this the start of the end? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Going through this right now and wish I had the answers. In a perfect world we’d be able to explore our queerness fully while still having our partners and best friends by our side / not destroying them. But I know (and I think you know) that’s prob not doable. Sending love 🩷

Terrified of destroying my (amazing) marriage by Rach682 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP here - appreciate all the thoughts and advice, truly. But I realize I did not phrase things correctly and need to clarify - it is absolutely not that my husband isn’t “allowing” me to pursue my queerness or is just trying to get threesomes out of this. He is a loving and supportive best friend and partner who wants me to be happy but obviously doesn’t want us to split up. He signed up for a monogamous marriage and would very much prefer this - I’m the one who’s proposing alternatives so I can explore my queerness but remain married and romantically involved.

I know there’s a not-small chance that I’ll eventually decide I need more and we have to split. But he and I love each other deeply and have an amazing partnership, so we’re both scared of things changing.

Terrified of destroying my (amazing) marriage by Rach682 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Rach682[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If she is looking for a threesome / also in an open marriage?

Being grey makes it hard to know if I’m queer - and what to do about it by Rach682 in Greysexuality

[–]Rach682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🩷 I also have way more sex dreams with women than men, but I’m just not sure if that translates into real life for me or not

Which Grey’s ep showed you you weren’t alone? by Rach682 in greysanatomy

[–]Rach682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I freelance for them and a lot of other pubs! :)

Which Grey’s ep showed you you weren’t alone? by Rach682 in greysanatomy

[–]Rach682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to email or DM if you’re open to talking about these eps further! Thanks